Lucky thread

[SATH]

Hi ladys has everyone had a nice day.

Cheryl thats a tough one. Im sure once leo gets a little older he'll come around.

Bailey i totally get it car dilema. U keep talking bout changing mine and im not even preg but its a 3 door otherwise size fine cos its mazda2 i really like I30.

Cupcake what a shame about the wallpaper love those stickers though thats what i want when i eventually get to decorate nursery.

Mrs d i'll do a good weather dance for you- if only windy and showery here boo hoo.

Ive had busy day of boring jobs. Woke up with really bad back, i think we need a new mattress! Ov is round the corner hope for once she doesnt come early with oh being away till mon.

 

[baileybubs]

Cupcake I don't think anyone who's had a loss in pregnancy can ever relax when pregnant again, I know I still panicked all the time and I was so desperate at the end to get her here so I could stop worrying (ha what a fool coz now I have a whole other set of worries!!). The worrying never ends, but it shows that you are going to be an amazing mum.
We are recording the voice and watching it once Emilia goes to sleep in about an hour. And I can't wait for the returned either, who is that little boy??

Sath glad you had a good holiday! Boo for all that walking your oh made you do though lol!!
I hope you don't ov early too! Will you be pouncing on oh as soon as he gets back lol!

Mrs d are you planning to go out on the boat next weekend instead? Not long til your scan now!! Will your dh be going with you when you go? I'm guessing its in London again.

I've just made some more brownies, they are yum!!

 

[SATH]

Ha bailey i def will!!!

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw yummy brownies! Is it my nigella recipe? I made a lemon drizzle earlier.....hubs (well mostly me and my hungry bump have polished off half already!)

I will be like that at the end, just want him out so I can see he is ok!

Sath glad you had a lovely time! Do you do OPKs? Are they gearing up?

 

[CherylC3]

Cupcake they paper is a nightmare my dads a decorator and found it hard paper to hang over priced for the quality..x

Bailey thts a shame but I kno u need a big car with a baby. I'm going to go back in oct so il hav had 8 months off and I'm only doing 3 days tues, fri sat my mum will watch him. Xxc

Sath hopefully hubby will come round. Xx

 

[baileybubs]

No it's a recipe out of one of my books but they've turned out a bit cakey but were only in the oven for 20 mins so I think there was too much flour. Still tastes yummy though lol!

 

[baileybubs]

Aw that's good Cheryl so you don't have to put Leo in nursery. I'm only going back part time and df, my mum and MIL will look after her.

 

[cupcake1981]

Glad it's not just us then Cheryl! I'm really disappointed I loved it, and we'd painted to match it!

I'm dreading having to sort out childcare when I go back. I know my inlaws will want to have him, but they are much older than my parents, and after seeing how my much my nephew ran rings round my parents yesterday there's no way my inlaws could cope with a toddler..how do I deal with that with out offending them, my baby's safety comes first tho x

 

[baileybubs]

Well I'd had all these plans not to go back to my current job but now I think it will be my only option at the mo for flexibility coz it wouldn't be worth putting her in nursery coz of the cost. I may as well stay at home and look afte her myself rather than work just to pay for nursery.

 

[CherylC3]

Well my mil is in her 70s and my parents are in their 50s so they will be watching him its too much work for older ppl. X

 

[CherylC3]

Well ladies me and dh spoke last night and he said he only wants one but if I want another we need to have another soon he doesn't want to wait 3 yrs cos of his age so I've to stay off my pill and he wants us to start trying around Xmas time so it's not ideal as I wanted to wait 3 yrs as it scares the life out of me falling pg too soon after a section but I'd much rather hav it this way than him saying no at all..x

Wots ur plans for today?xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Is it safe to have another one so soon Cheryl, you do have to think of your own health as well not just what your hubby wants. At the end if the day it doesn't matter what age the man is, and would another year really matter that much? But like I said yesterday, us women have all the power in that department don't we.....maybe it might just take a bit longer to fall next time !

I think we have to go see the inlaws and my parents today. I just made my dad some flapjacks as I didn't know what to get him and they're his fav, not sure how long the oats had been in the cupboard tho.....hope they are ok! x

 

[baileybubs]

There's varied views on how long you should wait before getting pregnant again after a c section. I'm playing it safe though and waiting a year to ttc. We may start NTNP a month or two earlier. But I know there are women on here who have for pregnant a couple if months after a c section. There's also one or two who have had uterine ruptures though but it can happen to anyone who's had a c section regardless of time between, the risk just increases if there's less time. I agree with cupcake that your health is more important, would he at least be willing to wait til Leo's first birthday? Does he know the possible risks?
But great news that he has agreed Hun, that's awesome!!!
I still don't think 42 is that old for a new dad though, there's still plenty of women who are still having kids at that age lol!

Oooh flapjacks cupcake yummy!! I've not got my dad owt yet, I'm nipping to Asda before we go to see him later. He loves autobiographies so will just get him one and maybe some nice red wine or whiskey.
We got df's dad tickets to see The magic of Motown lol, and I got df some teenage mutant ninja turtles lounging trousers (basically pjs lol) and game of thrones series 2. He's currently still in bed and I'm taking him a bacon butty and tea up (and I will be telling him that if I don't get breakfast in bed too on Mother's Day he's a dead man, coz he forgot on my birthday lol!!).

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I think il just stay on the pill till jan then see wot happens..x

Flapjacks sounds yummy I can't bake at all..x

Bailey defo make sure u get the same treatment lol..x

We are going to frankie and bennys later with my mum and dad, my 2 boys are sleeping the now as soon as Leo's up il get him fed then I can go for my shower and get ready. X

 

[baileybubs]

I've brought Emilia downstairs and she's asleep in her bouncer whilst df's asleep upstairs lol.
I would look at whether you want to use the pill though Cheryl. We are using condoms coz I don't want hormones affecting my fertility and I'm going to start tracking my cycles so I know when I ovulate. But it all depends if you can use condoms and trust yourself not to have an ooooops lol!
I love frankie and bennys! But sometimes it's a bit expensive. Hope you have a lovely time!

 

[baileybubs]

And I didn't think I could bake either Cheryl, I started last year when I was off recovering from my mc as a way to occupy myself and I'm slowly working up to bigger things. I plan to be able to make our nephews a birthday cake by December lol!

 

[CherylC3]

Aw bailey I don't trust myself with condoms we hav been having unprotected sex since Leo was born so I'm better on the pill for a few months lol.. I did go thru a cupcake phase but they were rank lol.. I'd love to be good.. A birthday cake u must be good. X

 

[baileybubs]

I've not attempted it yet lol, I'm gonna try just making a Victoria sponge next week, see how I can manage that, then I will build up to adding marzipan and icing (I will probably cheat and buy ready to roll stuff though lol!!).

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey I can give you some tips on getting a good finish etc on a birthday cake hun, the first being dont buy supermarket fondant it's crap, esp the ready roll stuff! You'll have a nightmare!

Ill send you my super easy all in one hd sponge recipe that is like a Victoria sponge but better as its keeps ages, cuts well and holds the weight of icing better than standard Victoria. Best birthday cake ever! x

 

[baileybubs]

Ooh that would be great thanks cupcake!!

I'm watching despicable me lol, love this film!