Lucky thread

[MrsDuck]

Oh and I've just applied fake tan all over so should be fun haha

 

[MrsDuck]

Aww ttc I'm so sorry you are going through this roller coaster at the moment maybe a month out not worrying about ttc will help and like you say your specialist appointment will be here before you know it xxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw ttc a break to de-stress might be just what you need hun, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. Just relaxing and forgetting (as much as you can of course) may give you that re-boost to regenerate and lift your spirits Hun. They also say when you least expect it, it will happen, as hard as that is to imagine!

 

[baileybubs]

Hehehe fake tan would be funny lol

 

[cupcake1981]

I'm so sorry you are so down dani, you will get your baby Hun xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Morning ladies -

MrsD hope you caught that egg!!

TTc I completely know where your coming from - df and I had a huge argument last night & I might have said it in the heat of the moment but i dont want to ttc now and the more im thinking I DONT want to ttc - debating to go to this apt on Sat - bit awkward as df and I are not speaking aswell lol. im feeling more relaxed already knowing we arent ttc and as from December ill be going back on the pill xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Cath?!? Where's this change of heart coming from??

 

[cathgibbs]

I have no idea hun xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw sweetie where's this come from Hun? Are you alright? Why were you and df fighting?

 

[cathgibbs]

have no idea we just started arguing and then got on the subject of ttc etc and I said to him we only have until December to get a bfp (so then it will be 20 months until the wedding so that means I will be preg for 9 months and will have 11/12 months to lose the weight etc) and then I just thought well whats the point in ttc any more? xxx

 

[AmyB1978]

Cath and TTC,

Everyone else, hi!

 

[MrsDuck]

Hi Amy it's good to have you back xx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw cath you were so excited about Saturday I'm sure it's just the stress of the whole ttc process that made you and df have an argument xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Cath hun, is this nerves about your appointment talking and the pressure of it all getting to you both? I imagine DF is worried about getting his swimmers tested, but hes got you pregnant 3 times so theres unlikely to be an issue there.

You've been through too much to give up now hun. I bet you go to your appointment and come out feeling really positive about it all. xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah exactly what Mrs D said!

You need to change your ticker now mrs d else well be bugging you to POAS far too early after your OPK and BD last night!!

 

[cathgibbs]

Yeah your right girls - i think its just the pressure and stress of it all - the thought of not ttc actually makes me feel calmer but I know i have pissed Df big time.

Agreed!! Mrsd change your ticker woman!! that was a blazing pos last night :-D xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Haha girls you must have read my mind I was changing it as you were typing

Cath I agree with cupcake, I bet you feel differently after your appointment on Saturday xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Good lass! When was the last time you dtd before last night hun?

I hope so MrsD xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Cath hun its easy to feel overwhelmed by it all, and i bet you are thinking that the appointment might show up something wrong with either of you, and your nerves and anxiety are about facing that. BUT, i bet you there is nothing wrong with either of you and thats just been bad luck.

Once you know that you can feel positive about TTC again knowing that you will more than likely have a perfect pregnancy next time.

I understand how you feel about being close to giving up though. I was after mc no 2, but decided that if i gave up that all the pain wed been through would have just been for nothing x

 

[MrsDuck]

That's so true cupcake

Cath last time before last night was Sunday morning