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I keep forgetting you can't always get deliveries there. Are they any good your h&m stuff?
 
I think so, I've only worn the black trousers so far, but I tried it all on in the store and it seemed fine

We have a new look store so even if I can collect the items from there I'll be happy
 
Hey ladies yous hav all had busy days. Sath think positive Hun... I'm still waiting on af my OPKs are still dark and I'm still bfn I'm getting quite down about it I just wanted my cycle to be regular and I feel like my af is never going to come :(
 
Hey ladies

Happy Friday! Hope you are all ok, been reading but not posting as been getting organised for hubby's birthday today and Zach is being a monkey in the evenings when I usually have time to post!

Mrs d I saw this on FB the other day and thought of you! Had me wetting myself at 1am when I was supposed to be sleeping! https://terriblerealestateagentphotos.com
 
Haha cupcake, I do find I often walk into places and think to myself omg I don't think I can take a single photo in here :(

Happy birthday to your hubby, is he off today?

Cheryl did you have a good night out last night?
 
Hello ladies, how are you all?

Cupcake I saw that too on fb, that's why I would never view a house that didn't have pictures online because they must be really awful lol! Happy birthday to your hubby.

Mrs d how are you today?

I've been busy again this morning, doing some gardening (digging, I'm knackered!) and tidying.

Ladies can I ask a question, I put a thread on baby club about being angry with df for his money spending and Xbox etc, and a couple of people have said basically he earns the money so why shouldn't he be able to spend it on what he wants.....what do you guys think of this? Me and df share all our money, it's not mine and his, when I earned more money than him I didnt think "I have more money than you" I just thought it was more to add to our joint pot so to speak. The way I see it is that if I worked full time we'd have to pay full time nursery fees which would mean we would both have even less money than we do now (unless I got a much better paying job) so the way I see it is we have this spare money BECAUSE he's the only one that works. Just annoyed me a little that some people seem to think that because he earns more money than me it means he deserves to spend more when I look after our daughter a lot more than he does.
 
I'm with you hun. With their attitude if df spent all the money he earned on himself 'coz he earned it' and you spent all your money on you then who would pay the bills, who would buy the food, who would pay for emilias things etc etc, yes that's fair to say for a single bloke with no responsibilities but he's not, he has a fiancé, a daughter, rent to pay etc etc, then if there is anything left after the essentials are paid for buy the luxuries.
 
Yeah that's the way I think, maybe the people who suggested it have partners who are a lot more responsible with money than mine is lol! But even still I think we share a house, we share a bed, we share a child, we share our lives and therefore we should share our money, whether he earns more or I earn more it shouldn't matter.

Mmmmm I've just eaten a blueberry muffin, I'm so putting on weight again! I can't be bothered dieting lol, I've always been an exercise person more than a diet person and I think one of the things I need to do is start going swimming for some more "me" time. I keep saying we don't have the money but I buy myself £15 Avon once a month, if I don't buy that I could pay for swimming instead (I've already built my make up stash up now with the Avon anyway lol!).
 
Sometimes we just need a little naughty cake to keep us going ;)
I'm not a dieter either, I'd rather do more exercise in the hope I burn off the extra calories. I was on the top floor of the car park today at the hospital and I used the stairs, that should justify the Jaffa cakes I've just eaten haha
 
Bailey I'm with you, a relationship is a partnership, where you're supposed to have the same goals etc. and you're staying at home raising his daughter and being at home with a baby is a job albeit not paid!
 
How did I end up cooking a roast chicken dinner on a Friday when Friday is eat out or takeaway night??? Haha
 
Taking the stairs is always good mrs d, I always try to do thing like that. I'm looking forward to be living closer to town too so I can start walking there instead of driving (weather permitted of course).

And yeah that's deffo what I think cupcake, it's a partnership and you are right we should have the same goals (which we do he just thinks we will magically meet them with no effort!). Df's favourite saying is "it will all work out somehow" to which I have to point out that the "somehow" he describes is all down to my budgeting and planning!! Wish he'd join me in that part lol!
 
Posted at the same time mrs d! Mmmmm chicken dinner! I was lazy and bought a need goulash and dumplings ready made from Asda! My friend came over for a chat and offered to watch Emilia for half an hour so I could nip to Asda, apparently she screamed from 2 mins after I left til when I got back!! So it shows she does love me lol!
 
Can you get him to do the supermarket shopping and show him all the bills that come in etc to point out how much it costs to live? I don't have any other ideas, I can't believe he still doesn't get it. Brick wall and head comes to mind ;) xx
 
Aw I bet it did her some good to be away from you for 5 mins, I bet your friend didn't think so though haha
 
Lol no she was a bit shocked coz she always says she's happy to babysit once I go back to work but don't think she expected screaming like that!!

Yeah I spent hours last week working out all our finances until January since we Re now moving and with my maternity pay running out and I showed him all of it, week by week as well as month by month so he could see but I just don't think he takes it in!!

How was your chicken dinner mrs d?
 
Mmmmm roast chicken, we went to an American diner for hubby's birthday lunch, think I'm gonna have cheese and biscuits for tea tonight. Hubby is off to poker tonight, I gave him a pass as it's his birthday lol so ours my first whole night alone with Zach, feeling a bit nervous in case he has a scream fest! Been alone with him for an hour while hubby's at training, and during the day, but Zach can be a demon in the evenings!
 
Aww I hope Zach is ok for you Hun I'm sure you will both be fine! Mmmm I could just eat cheese and biscuits cupcake lol!
 
I'm stuffed, like the chicken, it was yummy but I ate far too much, I might regret that later when ms appears

Aw bailey :hugs:

I hope zach is good for you tonight, no scream fest and I hope hubby doesn't lose too much at poker

Bugger my mum has just phoned to say she's on her way over got a tight t shirt and joggers on and I look huge so I best go and change
 

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