Lucky thread

[MrsDuck]

I'm glad you don't have to wait too long til the scan, sorry you are going to have a shit weekend of worrying to wait though I hope your bloods are all nice and high to reassure you a bit. Have you had any more bleeding? xxx

Bailey how are you hun, you've been very quiet? xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Hi mrs d, I'm fine thanks sorry I'm so quiet, I've been feeling a bit down and hormonal coz df can be a prat at times, also been feeling sick so just been resting more. I'm feeling much better this evening. How are things with you? Glad you enjoyed your Maccy d's yesterday!

Cupcake I'm sure Zach will get quicker at settling with just the dummy, just look out for hunger cues and see if you think he's still needing that 4am feed. Is he still getting the same amount of feed just more during the day now?

Cheryl what did your bloods result say? Hope you are ok Hun.

Espero how are you feeling Hun?

Sath how's the prepping for canada coming along? When do you go again?

Tawn how are you Hun? How's Maddies sleep coaching coming along. I hope it's still working.

Amy I know you still stalk us, hope you and Emily are ok!

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw bailey sorry you are feeling down I hope you kick df's arse for whatever he's done xx

We've had a cash buyer offer on our house today so fingers crossed it all happens this time

 

[baileybubs]

Woohoo that's awesome new mrs d!!! Fingers crossed!!

Oh you know my df he's just useless, just want him to show he cares a bit more you know. He's doing exactly what he did last time and just acting like I'm not pregnant, I know it's hard for them to understand coz they can't SEE the pregnancy yet but I can sure as hell feel it and a little tlc would go a long way lol! And of course it's made ten times worse by my hormones, I think that's what I hate most about the first tri, even worse than the sickness and fatigue, the horrible hormones!!

On the bright side though 4 weeks today is my scan! I'm sure it will fly by!

 

[MrsDuck]

Whoo hoo 4 weeks to go, 2 weeks Wednesday for me

And it must be much worse this time around because you have Emilia to look after while you are tired and emotional. Not long to go til the second tri, I can't believe how much better I now feel compared to a few weeks ago

 

[baileybubs]

I think it's getting up at 6am with her that's doing me in lol! Today df got up with her (coz I made him!) and I feel much better today. My df said the phrase I hate most last night. He came to bed at 1.30am and woke me which I hate, so I asked him why he was so late and he said "I wasn't tired". Pees me off that I'm constantly tired and I'm getting up at 6am with Emilia 5 days a week coz he's working full time and I'm only part time and then he has the cheek to say he could stay up til 1.30am coz he wasn't tired! Bet he will be tonight after only 4 and a half hours sleep!

Ooooh can't wait to find out the gender of the little duckling!!! Are you excited! Stupid question lol! Does dh want to know gender or does he not have a choice haha!

Speaking of scans I don't know whether I want a normal dating scan or the NT scan this time. The only thing that makes me say that was how scared i was when they tested Emilia for Down's syndrome in the hospital. But then it's not conclusive is it and if I got a high risk result would I just worry throughout the rest of the pregnancy, coz I wouldn't risk having the amniocentesis. It's a tough one.

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies

Mrs d yeah for the cash buyer fingers crossed it all gies thru. X

Aw bIley I hated tht when I was pg with Leo and I was so sick too..x

Well the dr never gave me my numbers just said your pregnant well I had guessed tht as I've peed on about 25 tests.. I've had more bleeding had some cramps and I hav told myself this baby isn't happening and I've lost it. I will be going on the pill enjoying Leo's Xmas his naming day his 1st bday and his family holiday and I will think about trying in 2015 I think this is for the best so lucky to hav my little man xx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw Cheryl, I hope that's not the case and that you get a nice surprise at your scan xxx

Bailey aaaaaagh your df you also have the blood test at the same time as the nt scan and if your risk is high you have the non evasive materniti21 or whatever it is, so lots of options before the option of invasive amnio

Yeah hubby wants to know too, luckily coz I was definitely finding out haha I can't wait

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I'm so excited for finding out mrs d xx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw Cheryl I really hope that's not the case for you Hun, keeping everything crossed for your scan on Monday Hun xxxxx

Ah I didn't know that mrs d. Coz I do worry about that trisomy 18 too, but then I think whether the worry is worth it? Argh it's so hard!

 

[MrsDuck]

And don't forget the nose bone. I think the need for the evasive amnio is more or less redundant now because of all the new blood tests etc that can be done

 

[MrsDuck]

Would you not worry more not knowing? I know I would. I didn't hesitate having the nt, but then if the outcome doesn't bother you then I guess you wouldn't bother having it

 

[baileybubs]

Well that's why I didn't have it last time, because the outcome wouldn't bother me it was just that shock and scariness after being in labour and so exhausted and hormonal it was horrible. Whereas if I found out there may be an issue now it wouldn't perhaps be as hard to deal with. I don't know....the only outcome that would really worry me would be trisomy 18 or one like that because babies with trisomy 18 only live for a matter of days. But would you want to know that in advance? Because I still wouldn't terminate I don't think, I'd want my child to live for however long they may live.
I think I'm convincing myself that I don't want it again here lol!

 

[CherylC3]

I never got it with Leo and I wouldn't next time either. Xx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw hun only you can make that choice xx

I can't relax until after my 20 week scan, I just keep thinking what if. I have to stay positive and think all is going to be perfect and everything is where it should be and all growing as it should. I think that's why I am still keeping it as much as I can to myself. I'll be showing my bump off to anyone who will take notice after my scan haha

 

[MrsDuck]

Luckily both me and hubby wanted to know, I'm not sure what would have happened if one did and one didn't??

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I never got it with Leo and I wouldn't next time either. Xx

OH NO Cheryl! I'm looking at your siggy and it's so sad. I'm so sorry honey!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Aw I kno I got angry with hubby today he said to me yeah the 3 of u are pg but wots the chances of the 3 of u having the babies meaning one of us will miscarry I totally snapped at him. I'm worried enuf. X

i can't believe he said that, how horrible!

 

[MrsDuck]

Ttc I'm sorry the witch got you, I thought this was your month

 

[SATH]

Cheryl hun just logged in and saw you've had some bleeding I hope its stopped and you get to see a little heartbeat on mon. Thinking of you hun xxx

ttc sorry the witch got you too our bfp's are just round the corner...well they better bloody had be!

Have a good day everyone. Off to Manchester Christmas shopping x