Lucky thread

[ttcbabyisom]

Morning ladies, how are we all?

Day is finally almost over. Tomorrow is my Friday due to Thanksgiving holiday Thursday. Yay! Today was very busy at work. I loved it. Makes the days go faster so i can get to my ultrasound quicker and get back to my 2ww! He, he...always wishing for time to hurry to my BFP!!!

 

[baileybubs]

Oooh have a lovely thanksgiving to all our American ladies!!!

Ladies can you help explain something to me coz I'm confused and new to this motoring business.

If my df gets third party fire and theft on a moped does that mean that if he's in an accident that is deemed not his fault the other party's insurers will have to pay for damage to the moped?
I ask because it's gonna cost £600-£700 to insure him on a moped fully comprehensive but just £340 for third party fire and theft. The bike is only worth £500 anyway so it's not worth paying almost the cost of the bike in extra insurance for fully comprehensive, if he has an accident and it's his own fault we may as well just pay the damages ourselves or scrap the bike and buy a new one for what the fully comp will cost. But just wanted to know if we'd be covered if someone else caused an accident (my brother was recently rear ended on his and the bike was written off so just wondering).

 

[cupcake1981]

Hey bailey

If someone else caused an accident their insurance would pay for repair it replacement of DFs bike x

 

[MrsDuck]

I'm glad your scalp is getting better bailey and yay for dfs potential new job, I hope he gets it

I'll wish the time away with you ttc haha

Morning everyone

I'm not loving pregnancy nips in maternity bras haha

 

[baileybubs]

I've had to put a maternity bra on today mrs d, they were already getting squished!

Thanks cupcake I thought that was the case.

I'm so tired today zzzzzz

Cupcake what are you doing about your heating at the mo with you being off work? If I only have it on in the morning and evening I'm finding it's getting too cold mid afternoon, don't know if it's better keeping it on low all day instead.

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey mines on all day but only on about 19. It goes off at 7 when Zach goes to bed as I'm paranoid about him being too hot at night so we all freeze at night! Our Flats 1st floor so pretty toasty anyway!

Boo for squished boobies.

I stopped pumping Sunday, feeling sad and sore!!

 

[baileybubs]

Ouch cupcake I bet its painful hun. Have you tried frozen cabbage leaves?

Urgh I am getting stressed, I thought I would try and see if I could get a small personal loan to get df a moped but Natwest are having none of it and saying I can't afford one (which I guess is true on my own coz of maternity doh!!). Frustrating coz df has really low credit rating coz he's never ever borrowed anything and then last month he went overdrawn so I dont think he'd get one. I have no idea how we will ever get a mortgage!!! Its a vicious circle, he needs the bike to get this new job to earn more money, but we need the money to get the bike argh!!

Sorry I am rambling a lot at the mo, I think hormones are making me anxious about everything again.

Hows everyone elses day going?

 

[Espero]

Hi BBs,

If you don't mind me asking, how much were you looking to spend on a moped?

I went and got my bloods done this morning - once a month now apparently?? Imna be black and blue! Boo indeed for the squishing of the lady bumps. Mine are just really hot and itchy. Sorry, TMI...

Also got a metric sh*t-ton of mouth ulcers and a socking great coldsore on my top lip. Other than that just sooo.... tired.... Desperate for a bit of morning sickness though. I know it's silly but I never had it previously, so I kind of think that if I get it this time it's a sign that things will end differently, iykwim?

God I waffle too much - how's everybody else doing?

 

[baileybubs]

Cupcake just another thought dont feel too sad hun coz you have pumped for 3 months now and that is amazing!!! Well done hun!!

Espero we only want to spend about £500-600 but he will also need a helmet and pay for his CBT coz its run out (runs out every 2 years). He is learning to drive but this job wants him in 2 weeks so its not like he could pass by then!! I can drive him into work but theres no way he could get home coz Emilia would be in bed. I'm feeling quite annoyed about it coz it makes you see how easily people end up using these bad pay day loans companies! Not that I would ever do that. My brother has said he can lend us the money coz he got money through from a claim recently but he needs it back by February at the latest. At least I know we can get the money for now I just have no clue how we can get it back to him!!

Aw hun dont worry about no MS, I didnt have any at all with Emilia. I know what you mean though about it being reassuring.

 

[MrsDuck]

Cupcake you have done amazingly hun, don't feel bad xxx

Espero well done on the bloods, I have to have my bloods checked for thyroid level each month too after having thyroid cancer. Don't wish for ms, I can't remember who else did that, was it you cupcake?, then they really suffered with it. Sorry about the mouth ulcers too

Bailey it is a vicious circle isn't it, I hope you can sort something out. Has he now got the job?

Omg I'm having the day from hell, aaaaagh give me strength, I'm glad every day at work isn't like today, bloody picky purchasers

 

[baileybubs]

Aw mrs d sorry you are having a bad day Hun! Me too! I asked for advice about small loans on the money saver expert website and all the advice I was given was "can he walk to work" "you drive him, just wake your daughter she won't mind sleeping in the car" (as if I'd do that!!) "can he get the bus"......not using that site for advice again coz all I was asking was what's the likelihood of df getting a personal loan and how can I improve his chances, not please give me your ideas on alternatives as if I hadn't already thought of those argh!!!

Anyways, my brother will lend us it and once he needs it back df's dad has said he'll lend us what we need to repay him. My brother is going travelling in March you see so needs it back but I don't think we'll have saved enough by then to pay him back.

Stress!!!! But in good news df has booked his CBT. We just need his mate to confirm this job offer now!

Mrs d what's your picky purchasers been up to?

Cupcake have you been swimming again this week?

Espero meant to say make sure you use salt water for your ulcers and try to avoid bonjela

 

[MrsDuck]

Yay for booking dfs cbt and yay for having some options of people to borrow the money from

Oh why can't you use bonjela during pregnancy?

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah thankfully all the worry is just me flapping. I worry about all this stuff that will never happen, df says I'm nuts but because of my worrying and stressing we've now got it sorted lol! If we did it his way we'd get nothing done!

The bonjela is something to do with an ingredient they say you shouldn't use. I don't know if it's just one of those overly precautionary tales though.

 

[MrsDuck]

Oooh you are a raspberry today yay

 

[baileybubs]

I know already!! 3 weeks and 2 days til the scan eeeek!
I've been trying to ignore feeling sick today lol! Looking forward to a nice bath soon!

Any news on the house sale?

Is your scan next weds or the following weds?

 

[SATH]

Hi all, how is everyone?

Bailey sounds like you have had a v stressful day fab news that df has a new job!! You're a raspberry already!

Mrs d i cant believe 18 weeks already its flying by! Shame you've had a crappy day you must have to bite your tongue!

Happy thanksgiving all you US lovelies have some pumpkin pie for me yum yum.

Back on the clomid doing ok so far. Went to see hunger games last night bloody brillant!!

 

[baileybubs]

Hi Sath how are you Hun? Is the clomid being nice so far?

 

[MrsDuck]

Hi sath yay for another clomid cycle, and lots of for a Christmas conception
Is it this weekend you are off on your hollihocks?

Bailey I have a completion date of 20th December on the house so fingers crossed it happens, if we miss that date then it will be in the new year, so fingers crossed

 

[baileybubs]

Fingers and toes crossed for your completion date mrs d and a christmas conception for you Sath!!!

 

[SATH]

OMG mrs d you're really gonna move that close to Christmas ouch!!

Clomid is being kind at the mo few headaches and flushes thats it. Hope it doesnt set off the ibs again. We go on hols on 10th dec not long now looking snowy and v v cold! We have our ivf group session tomorrow nervous.