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Yey a week til we find out!! If baby is awkward and sonographer can't tell will you have a private scan?

Yeah was lovely to have a family day, our first one in a long time. It's lovely to be a family :)
 
I am new to this and I just want to start off by saying it has been a joy to hear all of you guys stories.

Just a little background on me: My name is Dee Dee, I'm 28yrs old and engaged to my highschool sweetheart. So last April me and my fiance moved in together (we were long distance) and a month later I found out we were expecting a:baby: on May 7th. It happened so damn fast. We were more than excited. I had an ankling I was preg because I would wake up in a puddle of sweat, very sore breast, cramping and brown discharge. Had my OB appt on May 14th to confirm pregnancy. During the appt the OB was concerned abt the spotting and advised us that worst case it is a threatened abortion :(.. well the spotting stop and the pregnancy was progressing beautifully.

Well at our 20 wk US we found out we were having a beautiful little girl. Mariah Brooklyn. But before we could get too excited we were advised I have a short cervix measuring at .8cm. Had to see a MFM doc right away. Long story short we lost our beautiful angel Sept 8th. Doctor said there was an infection from the bacteria B-strep (I believe that is the name). Now 3months later we TTC **Fingers crossed**...HOPING FOR THAT BFP!:shrug::bfp::bfp:
 
Mariah's Mom, welcome. I am so so very sorry for your loss. :hugs: <3 will you be seeing a specialist from the start when you get your next BFP? Sending lots of love and BFP vibes your way.
 
Welcome Mariah's mom, I'm so sorry for your loss Hun, that must have been so tough. Fingers crossed for your rainbow BFP soon. This thread needs to keep bringing these lovely BFPs for everyone!
 
Evening all :hi:

Cupcake if my little munchkin doesn't cooperate next Wednesday then that's it I won't get o find out coz they don't do private scans anywhere here :(
Glad you had a lovely day out :)

Mariahs mom I'm so sorry fo your loss, welcome to the thread and I hope Christmas brings you a rainbow bfp :)

Sath I see you lurking, I hope you are ok and are looking forward to your holiday, not long to go now xxx

Afm I've been out Christmas shopping, I'm almost done now yay
 
Mrs d you could have one over here if you come over to Southampton in January?
 
Yeah I suppose so,I didn't think of that :) hopefully the little bugger will behave :)
 
It is Friday! Only 5 more days mrs d! And 2 weeks for me!

I've got work later and I'm already tired lol!
 
Whoo hoo I can't wait, I bet you can't either :)

Aw you poor thing, Im quite liking the second tri and the bit of energy I now have :)

My poor hubby isn't well :( it's his birthday tomorrow and we are meant to be going to France, not sure if we are going to make it now :(
 
Hi everyone sorry ive not posted been mega busy what with xmas shopping work bein crazy and hol to get ready for.

How is everyone doin? Not long till find out what everyone is having how exciting. I'll put my vote in now i think mrs d boy, bailey boy and cheryl girl, if I get 1 right I'll be amazed :)
 
Hi Sath how are you Hun? Is it Wednesday you go on hols? Are you all packed??

Oooh is it O day today? Hope you get hubby and get lots of spermies waiting Hun!!
I think you'll have got at least one of those predictions right Hun, I agree with you about mrs d boy and Cheryl girl but for me I think it's another girl. We'll see lol!
 
It's quiet in here today, hope you are all having a good day.

Can I ask an opinion? My df has been his usual self and has taken money he shouldn't (no shock there) which has as always annoyed me coz i'd earmarked that money for us to go out for Sunday lunch tomorrow and now we can't afford it.
Anyways, I told him I've had enough etc, and I'm not talking to him until he can explain why he keeps doing this and make me believe he's going to stop lying to me.
So he's text me from work saying he's very sorry and all the usual rubbish.
I always believe him and forgive him and a month later same thing happens again. If we weren't so skint I wouldn't be bothered but we are on a very tight budget at the moment and when he keeps doing this it means there's then none left for me and Emilia to ever do anything nice/get anything nice.

What would you do? I'm thinking first of all I'm just not going to reply to his text and let him sweat.
I love him to bits and I've always known he's rubbish with money but at the moment every penny is so important and he knows that so I just feel so let down and unloved that he can continuously be as selfish as to keep doing it. That's money we could be spending on new clothes for Emilia or family time together, like Sunday lunch tomorrow!

Sorry for the rant, I'm actually very calm about it all I just don't know what I can do to get through to him that we can't afford for him to keep doing this. Especially now we have another baby on the way too. Men eh? Can't live with them can't live without them!!
We're never gonna be able to afford a house and a wedding at this rate with the way he spends money!
 
Oh bailey that's really crap of him. Do you keep him included in all the budgeting etc so he knows what money is ear marked for what? Not that there is any excuse for what he's done, was just thinking maybe he doesn't quite completely understand just how tight money is.

If it were me I'd leave him to sweat. Maybe Like you say you forgive him and he just does it again.
 
Yeah he knows cupcake I run through it all with him every week and what our bills are. Plus my maternity pay ended last week so we are only managing on what I've saved and any extra shifts I can do. It's a good job I've picked up 20 hours next week.

It's weird that I'm not even angry at him anymore. I'm calm, just very disappointed. We'll see what he has to say for himself when he gets home. Maybe I've just got used to it so much now that I'm dispondent lol!

How's you and Zach today?

I just managed to pick up the heartbeat again on the doppler! So exciting coz now I'm sure there's a baby in there!! Just gotta make it 2 more weeks baby and I'll be able to see you!
 
Disappointment is worse isnt it though, almost like youve come to expect it now and resign yourself to it. There really isnt any excuse for it if he knows what money is for what and has blatenty been selfish spending money meant for family time. Id be livid. Id defo let him sweat.

Yey for hearing baby again, youre so brave, i wont be able to use mine again next time til after my scan as itll just cause me more worry!!

Zach and i are good thanks, hes getting such a little personality, so smiley and laid back, i just love his little face so much. Hes my little sunshine, i adore him so much. Its weird but every night i go to bed and look forward to waking up and spending the next day with him. Is that weird? Im sure that'll change when hes a horrid toddler! I can see 2 little bottom teeth beneath his gums and hes so dribbley. Still got a bit of a cold to bless him.

Hows emilia doing?
 
I don't think I'm so much brave to use it as too curious and impatient lol!! Plus I have that feeling again that all is going to be ok.

Aww he sounds like such a lovely baby! That's not strange at all that's lovely! Here was me counting down to Emilia's bedtime tonight coz she was driving me bonkers lol! Love her to bits but she's so demanding at the mo! She's taken to yelling all the time at the mo and it gives me a headache!
When she's not yelling though she's super smiley and cheeky. I just sometimes feel like she hates me coz it's only me she yells at! Although when she's upset only I can calm her.
 
Id be scared i wouldnt find it and would send myself into a tizz. Ill have to get hubby to hide it from me.

Ha dont get me wrong im ready for bedtime every night lol, as hes tired and cranky by then but he goes down to bed so well bless him, just like his Mumma he loves to sleep! He is a lovely baby, dreading him growing up and turning into a terror.
 
Yeah bedtime is quite good for us at the mo too. Plus she loves bath time now so I love giving her a bath, she's found a love of splashing now lol! It's so funny watching her! Honestly that mat and bath seat I bought is one of the best buys I have got for her, makes bath time so easy and she loves it! She just hates it when I take her out of the bath lol!
We play music and stuff at bath time too so I now know all the words to various disney songs!
And I am very thankful she's a good sleeper too. Wonder if I'll be as lucky with number 2?!

I bet Zach is a real laid back dude isn't he? I love seeing Emilia's personality grow though so even though she's not my little baby anymore she just amazes me every day!

How are you getting along with any baby sessions? Have you been to baby massage again?
 

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