Lucky thread

[fletch_W]

Thanks mrs d. Ill hold off as long as i can

 

[AmyB1978]

I've decided there needs to be a digest version of this thread! I love reading what is going on but often have to just skim, or skip sections all together, because I have been too busy and too exhausted to read it all! :wink wink:

My DH and I got in a fight last night. It was because I had come home from work and was doing doing doing and really tired and in a bad mood (stupid hormones.) I have a history of some anxiety/issues and being pregnant, and the hormonal surges, has made me somewhat "crazy" at moments. Couple that with having the MC in May and then being preggo again so soon and sometimes it is just too much on my plate. (And I guess you should also add in there we just got married in April (but have been together/lived together a good long while) and that we are looking to buy a house... just a TON of change... I do better with stability.) After we fought we talked a lot, and I cried. He wants me to see a therapist... he said if not for me then for him, to help me deal with the loss/the issues it is bringing up. I told him I don't think I need one as it has gotten so much better already but I have moments of break down. I told him I will see one if it gets worse or does not continue to get better. After our fight/talk we cuddled all night and even this morning before I got up to get ready for work. I didn't want to leave his side this morning.

More PMA minded, I was able to switch shifts with someone at work today so I can get off work earlier so DH and I are going after he gets off work to meet with the realtor and re-look at a few of the houses I saw Monday. :happy dance: If he likes the house as much as I do, that was my favorite we might put a bid on it! :happy dance:

Hope you are all doing well.. I somehow have to get showered and out the door in about 15 minutes!

 

[fletch_W]

Amy im sorry you had a fight. But yay for make up cuddles. I hope you start to feel better soon. I wanted to see a therpist until i realised it was dh i needed to talk about our loss with and i felt a whole weight lifted. Im a christian too so praying helped a lot. But i wont go into that as i dont wanna forcer my beliefs on anyone. Hope you choose a house that is perfect and that you both love! Remember this thread is for venting too so use us as therapy PMA all day xxxxxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw amy, I hope you and oh are alright now. I know that sometimes my hormones make me really angry and I have yelled at him but then I end up crying because I'm so scared after miscarriage. I think it's a natural response from anyone who's pregnant and had a mc.

Oh dear i just made myself eat pasta hoping it would help and I feel worse! Getting a headache too so I might go for a lie down!!

 

[baileybubs]

Oh my word!! One of the dogs has tooted and it's making me gag!!! Bad dogs

 

[cathgibbs]

Just rung my Drs secretary and she said its fine to come in with a period casue he might want to do other tests like progesterone levels and iron levels clotting etc and may want to put me on tablets, i just googled him now and he looks to be a very good consultant, he also deals with all cases of IVF etc Im excited haha xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aw Cath that's awesome hun yay!!

 

[fletch_W]

cath he sounds amazing! cant wait to hear all about your appt

 

[cathgibbs]

Thank you ladies i feel like i could pee myself with excitement!! His secretary seemed lovely aswell, just looked on the IVF website he is part of and they do early scans for £65 and 3D/4D scans for £95!! def gonna have that! xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Aww Amy you poor thing, you have so much going on in your life at the moment no wonder you need a good cry and shout to get things off your chest. As the others said we are here to listen if you want to vent at any time. I'm so pleased you had lots of cuddles with hubby xx

There seems to be a lot of tooting going on on this thread at the moment haha

Bailey I hope you feel a bit better soon x

Cath such exciting news I'm really pleased for you xx

 

[cathgibbs]

When Fletch was talking about tooting it made me giggle to myself haha!!

Fletch Guess what im having for food tonight.................KIEVS!!! hahah!!

MrsD can you go home yet??

Thanks lovely, just wish the next week would hurry up and pass!! Currently looking on the net for more things to go in my dining room xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

No not yet but have managed to arrange most things for today so I've got a 4.30 then I can go home then I only need to go into work tomorrow for an hour yay

Oooh what you gunna buy??

 

[cathgibbs]

oh thats going to be a lovely feeling - waking up tomorrow knowing your only in work for a short bit!! so jealous MrsD!!!!

well my dining room is black and red and i got a fish bowl in the middle with floating candles in but the water is going stagnent sooooooo im thinking of getting champagne coloured flowers and putting them in the bowl but twisting them around the inside and champagne coloured curtains just so its not too dark, do you think it will go?

P.s to all you married ladies i take my hat off to you, after searching fish bowl centrepiece ideas (loads of wedding table ideas popped up) i dont know how you managed to sort out what colour you would have, what centrepieces etc!! Madness! xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Yeah that would look nice cath x

You had better start planning your wedding now then haha x

 

[fletch_W]

cath everything at my wedding was simple. i didnt want fancy shmancy. so we have yellow tulips in a cute vase with a green ribbon. we had yellow and green as out colours and my bridesmaids wore scream.

those are cheap prices for scans!! love it!

love a good toot

 

[cathgibbs]

Awww MrsD I would love to, did you watch dont Tell the Bride anyone!? that was filmed close to where i live last night.

I always said i would get married abroad but the more i think about it the more i want to stay here to get married orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr get married in Cyprus, come back have a blessing in a church then a big PARTAY!!! Did your wedding cost a lot MrsD? xxx

 

[fletch_W]

what the hell is wrong with my typos today?!

 

[cathgibbs]

did you mean cream hun lol xxx

 

[fletch_W]

i did lol.

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw wedding talk my 3rd favourite subject after cakes and babies!!

Can't believe all the tooting that's been going on today!

Cath -Kievs!!! Amazeballs xx