Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

Morning ladies,

Sorry to disappoint but still not in labour lol!

I really must be a fb and bnb addict for people to think I went into labour coz I've not been on here lol! Maybe it's coz I told you all I had chilli for tea!
Well it didn't work, it was delicious though and surprisingly didn't give me heartburn!
Woke up this morning feeling fine, no cramps or anything, just my usual hip pain from being in bed too long lol.

Tawn - glad you managed to dtd and it wasn't uncomfortable. I get what you mean about feeling like a woman and not just a pregnant woman! That feeling seems to be overwhelming me a bit at the mo coz I feel like I can't do anything at all right now coz I'm pregnant!
And yay for being full term!! It's such an amazing feeling isn't it!! Hope these last few weeks go ok for you.

Cheryl - ouch good luck getting waxed Hun!! I have definately taken the stance of "I don't care" when it comes to waxing or shaving my lady bits. I have still been trimming as best I can but you are a brave lady for getting waxed!! If you feel sick though Hun make sure you take it easy and feel better soon.

Mrs d I really hope that the doctor can help you this afternoon, it sounds horribly painful. Have you tried drinking milkshakes to soothe it? I don't know if that would help much.

Cupcake - how's the head today Hun? Hopefully no sign of a headache today. When's your next MW appt? Do you know when your 20 week scan is yet (sorry if I forgot!)

Amy - how's Emily today after her first Easter weekend? Have you been managing to get enough rest these days?

Leinz - I love those cute pics of the girls over Easter! DD1 looks so cheeky lol!

Well today I am just going to post my stuff sold on eBay and go for a walk with df, more bouncing on my ball and hoping Millie makes her arrival lol!

 

[baileybubs]

Think I may be looking for something that isn't happening but.....me and df dtd earlier, then about half an hour ago I had "leakage" that was yellow/straw coloured but not a lot so not sure if its just discharge or possible slow leaking waters. Feeling cramps and tightness a lot but not overly painful, staying active and bouncing lol!!

I think it's all wishful thinking though! Will have to see if there's any more discharge/leakage.

 

[MrsDuck]

Ooh bailey keep us posted, this could be the start yay.

Milkshake is good thanks bailey, I can only drink milk or water at the mo and even that hurts. Just got back from dr and I've got a suspected infection based on the fact my throat started to get better and now it's just as bad as a week ago. I've got some drops so helpfully they help just made a soft roll sandwich but there is no way I can get it down (I was being optimistic I know) ill have to soak it in some soup I think the brownies will have to wait a few days, I'm not making them if I can't eat them

Cheryl I hope you are feeling better and your waxing wasn't too painful xx

 

[Tawn]

OOOHHHH Bailey, so excited! I hope it isn't spermy leakage and instead is the start of you losing your plug! That would mean baby in the next couple of days! EEK!

Mrsd, I am glad they gave you something to soothe it and hope that works to get you on the mend again!

 

[baileybubs]

Well I don't think it was waters coz there's not been much more but I'm definately feeling more crampy and achey. It's so frustrating not knowing lol!!

Mrs d glad to hear you have been given something but so sorry it looks like an infection. Are you on antibiotics?

Cheryl how did the wax go? Are you feeling sick still?

Tawn how are you today? I don't think it was spermies coz it was about 4 hours after we had dtd and I'd had a shower etc this morning, pretty sure all spermies came out lol sorry tmi!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I'm sad...I'm angry...I'm hurt...I'm betrayed...my emotions are ALL OVER THE PLACE like a roller coaster. It will be 3 weeks tomorrow when we found out our twins were gone...i'm STILL not over this. The rest of the world has moved on without me!
I couldn't wait to tell the world next Tuesday that i was pregnant...and with twins! This is just awful. I want to feel better...and I'm glad I'm going to a support group session next Tuesday...I think that will help.
Also, here's my new book I'm reading. It's great so far. You all should check it out. It's chock full of common senses and I like how she writes.
Also attached is a pic of my new stock of OV tests and HPTs! I hope i get preggers again before I'm out! Please God, I pray!

 

[AmyB1978]

Ttc, huge hugs! Three weeks is not much time Hun, it is no wonder you aren't over it! a support group may help, my DH and I attended one and it definitely helped me. I wish there was more I could do or say to help you, just know you are in my thoughts.

 

[CherylC3]

Bailey ooh waters gone, aw I hope u go into labour Hun..x

Mrs d I'm glad u hav been given something from ur dr Hun. I hope it helps..x

Tawn u got ur bags packed now?x

Ttc big I kno it's so hard to move on I kno last yr I couldn't move on till I had another BFP. I hope ur support group helps.x

Amy how's ur gorgeous girl..x

Afm waxing was agony, my hair is looking really nice now I don't hav roots oh and the asda shop came and they only changed a pack for biscuits.x

 

[Tawn]

BIG ttc! Of course you aren't "over it" yet! You lost your two babies, and that will leave a lifetime scar on your heart. I can tell you I was still sad and crying about my m/c 3-4 months afterwards. Give yourself the grace period to take time to grieve slowly and understand that no one else (ie other family and friends) will really understand why you might still be grieving if they haven't experienced a miscarriage themselves. Just go at your own pace and it will get a little bit less over time.

 

[baileybubs]

Aw ttc Amy is right, 3 weeks really isn't long Hun, nobody would expect you to be over it by now, and I don't think any of us will ever get over losing a baby. I hope you can manage to heal over time and fingers crossed for that BFP soon Hun

Cheryl I don't think it was my waters after all that. Just discharge. Oh well, still waiting lol!!
Glad you feel better after having your hair done, still so brave of you to have been waxed lol!!

 

[Tawn]

Cheryl, that was my mission today. To re-pack mine and Madison's bags so they were as ready as they can be and tape a note on the front of the things I will have to put in last minute (ie makeup, pillow, maternity notes etc) so that either DH or I don't forget when the time comes. I am supposed to be working today and instead I have spent the whole time putting my birthing music on my phone and stocking up my kindle for the hospital just in case! LOL. Great use of time!

What about you, and you Bailey! Do you both feel 100% ready if things started kicking off? I haven't been having ANY signs of cramping and BHs etc, so I am sure I will have to be induced at the whole 14 days overdue!

 

[baileybubs]

I feel more than ready now lol, only since yesterday when df cleaned out my car so it's not covered in bailey fur for when we bring Millie home (my mum will be driving us in my car you see).
Everything in my bag is ready, got my music on my iTunes ready, feeling all the cramps and BH and everything, just no sign of her yet lol!

 

[CherylC3]

Hey I'm ready but I'm happy to wait till tues so tht my nursery is done, will I get to take music in since I'm getting a section? I just hav to put in 2 vests and Leo's going home suit and was going to take in some diluting juice and some snacks for after the section.

I've not had any Braxton hicks just the odd cramps and backache and watery discharge. X

 

[baileybubs]

I don't know about music with you having a section Cheryl. I don't even know if they'll let me play my music with my docking station coz it says not to bring electrical items in a leaflet about what to pack in your bag from my local PCT. It can run off batteries though so they might let me use it.

Well I give up with my body, I have no idea what's going on now. If I sit down and rest I feel fine, just backache. The minute I get up and walk about I ache and get cramps but no more leakage. I give up, my body is just playing silly beggars with me and I'll still be here in 2 weeks waiting to be induced!

I thought you got Leo's furniture tomorrow Cheryl? What else do you need for your nursery?

 

[CherylC3]

Yeah tomoro it comes with the wallpaper so my dad will do the paper and hubby can build the furniture and il wash his bedding.

Aw I think this wkend for u. X

 

[baileybubs]

Nah I'm firmly set on needing to be induced, I feel like my body is trying to get on with this labour and just can't do it!
Does everyone think that I will know when it's finally started? Some people say "oh you will definately know when it's labour!" but then my mum and some other people have said some people can't tell coz it can start like period pain and backache (which of course I have!!)

Eurgh! I'm watching embarassing bodies at the mo, don't know why I used to want to be a surgeon lol!!

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I hate tht programme it freaks me out lol..why go on and show everyone ur strange body parts. X

 

[Tawn]

Bailey, I definitely think you will know hun! It might start off with little pains, but at some point it has to get more painful, even for the toughest woman I would imagine!

Funnily enough, when I was on the labor ward on Sunday they told me I have to see my consultant now cause I have gone in 2x to be monitored for her 2 reduced movement spells and that the consultant will likely offer me an induction for around 38-39 weeks. But I would turn it down, cause I am so set on hypnobirthing and don't know if I could manage med free with the induction. But it really blew my mind cause I realized 38 weeks is SO SOON I'd almost be tempted just so I could meet her! lol

 

[baileybubs]

I know some of them are just weird! I can understand some of them who haven't been given any help from their gp, but still some of their problems I just don't think I could share on tv!!

 

[baileybubs]

Wow that's weird Tawn! I didn't know they usually offered inductions before 40 weeks. I was looking at hypno birthing too but never got the CDs. I am hoping to just have as relaxed a birth as is possible lol, but we shall see.
I think I am more concerned about not knowing its started soon enough to get to hospital more than anything lol!