Lucky thread

[Tawn]

OOhh MrsDuck, welcome back! I want to see too, I love that kind of stuff! lol. So glad you have a good surgeon and hoping that everything is smooth sailing from now on! So glad to have you back!

 

[MrsDuck]

Thank you I've missed you all too, I was really bored in that hospital but I was so drugged up I couldn't really bnb

 

[MrsDuck]

What have I missed?

Anything major....any bfp's?

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw are you in a lot of pain? x

 

[Tawn]

Ok, a quick run-down for you MrsD!

Fletch-unfortunately AF caught her today. But she is enjoying a more relaxed approach to TTC and is just going to bd every other day during her fertile period next cycle

Bailey- is working hard and having some drama with a coworker. Fortunately the coworker is in the wrong so Bailey doesn't have to worry. She is almost 8 weeks now!

Cheryl- is really struggling with pg symptoms (ms and constipation) but has some medicine to help her "go" so feels better now. Her betas look really good and are doubling as they should!

Mummy- is feeling a bit under the weather but recovering. Now she is waiting to O in the next couple of days.

Cath, after her pg scare last week, she read some info that says she should be safe if her and OH did conceive. Now over the weekend she had what she thinks might be IB, so gonna have to wait a few days and do a HPT to see if she gets a surprise BFP!

Cupcake, is still waiting for AF. Unfortunately, she isn't sure whether she is allowed to ttc after the vaccinations she has to get for her upcoming holiday. Hoping it all works out for her!

Shellie, is waiting to O, I think she is due to O in a few days.

Maryanne, is in her TWW. She is about 3dpo! Fx'd!

Poppy, is melting in the London heat Her scan went beautifully and bubba is right on track. She resisted finding out the gender, I don't know how though!

Thurl, made it through her angel's DD. her and her DH lit a candle in the back garden for their angel. So sweet and touching!

Amy- has her 12 week scan today and will hear back about the offer they put on a house they want to buy. Big day for her!

Me- I am trying a new approach to this pg, I've decided I have plenty of time to cry in the future if something goes wrong, and right now I am going to do my best to try and just enjoy being PAL and feel grateful (even though sometimes it is scary!) Just found out my midwife is on holiday this week, though! So going to have to try and see if my doctor will refer me himself for my early scan, rather than waiting agggggeeeeessss.

UMMMM, I think that is mostly everyone?! If I forgot someone I am so sorry!

 

[cathgibbs]

OMG Tawn your amazing lol!! i love how you rememeber everything""

Im also loving your approach to this pregnancy,i think ill be doing that when i get pregnant next!!! xxxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Hey mummy2one :wave:

Welcome back mrs d glad ur out Hun... We hav defo missed u...cx

Cath I'm sure ur oh will understand if ur pregnant and I wouldn't care wor the consultant thinks..x

Tawn yeah for remembering so much. I really hope u get ur early scan Hun. Xx

 

[Tawn]

Thanks Cath!

Yeah, on another thread someone posted something that struck a cord with me. I realized I cried and fretted SO MUCH for 4 months ttc after my miscarriage, it was all I wanted, and now that I have it all I was doing was crying and fretting that it was going to go wrong! I was making myself miserable frankly!

So now, when I feel twinges in my tube or don't have as many symptoms as I'd like, or see a slightly fainter than I'd like HPT, I can't stop myself from having a moment of mental anguish, but frankly until I have a bad scan, beta result or blood/serious cramping, I am going to enjoy it!

I've even decided to announce it after we find out it is intrauterine, because I might NEVER make it into 2nd tri, who the hell knows?! But I do want to share the joy and excitement of this baby with my family and friends, who will be over the moon for us and want to share the experience. Plus, if I do miscarry again, I know I will need the support to be able to talk about it, not feel like it is my dirty little secret I hide away.

Long rant, but does that make sense?!

 

[cathgibbs]

that makes perfect sense hun and i totally agree with you!! thats the best way of thinking about it all and i think i will follow your motto!!

We will be keeping it a secret, only because OH mother told EVERYONE and then we had to tell everyone i had MC and had people coming up to me all smiley saying 'Oohhh how you feeling!?' etc and it just really upset me but i dont blame you for telling them hun, let everyone join in on the happiness you have xxxx

 

[Poppy84]

Woah Tawn!!! Such a good memory!!!

 

[maryanne67]

Mrsd good to see you back hope the suspect nodes are ok and no further intervention needed i dont mind you posting piccies xx
Tawn mega memory you got there and so you should enjoy your pregnancy x
Fletch sorry the witch got you but think of the fun bding this cycle to make your rainbow x
Cheryl glad you feel better now hope you can keep the constipation at bay x
Mummy hope you catch the egg fxd x
Cath if you get a +hpt im sure all will be ok and like Cheryl says i wouldnt worry what the consultant thinks x
Amy cant wait to hear about your scan x

 

[maryanne67]

Everyone else sorry my memorys not as good as Tawns

 

[MrsDuck]

Ok, a quick run-down for you MrsD!

Fletch-unfortunately AF caught her today. But she is enjoying a more relaxed approach to TTC and is just going to bd every other day during her fertile period next cycle

Bailey- is working hard and having some drama with a coworker. Fortunately the coworker is in the wrong so Bailey doesn't have to worry. She is almost 8 weeks now!

Cheryl- is really struggling with pg symptoms (ms and constipation) but has some medicine to help her "go" so feels better now. Her betas look really good and are doubling as they should!

Mummy- is feeling a bit under the weather but recovering. Now she is waiting to O in the next couple of days.

Cath, after her pg scare last week, she read some info that says she should be safe if her and OH did conceive. Now over the weekend she had what she thinks might be IB, so gonna have to wait a few days and do a HPT to see if she gets a surprise BFP!

Cupcake, is still waiting for AF. Unfortunately, she isn't sure whether she is allowed to ttc after the vaccinations she has to get for her upcoming holiday. Hoping it all works out for her!

Shellie, is waiting to O, I think she is due to O in a few days.

Maryanne, is in her TWW. She is about 3dpo! Fx'd!

Poppy, is melting in the London heat Her scan went beautifully and bubba is right on track. She resisted finding out the gender, I don't know how though!

Thurl, made it through her angel's DD. her and her DH lit a candle in the back garden for their angel. So sweet and touching!

Amy- has her 12 week scan today and will hear back about the offer they put on a house they want to buy. Big day for her!

Me- I am trying a new approach to this pg, I've decided I have plenty of time to cry in the future if something goes wrong, and right now I am going to do my best to try and just enjoy being PAL and feel grateful (even though sometimes it is scary!) Just found out my midwife is on holiday this week, though! So going to have to try and see if my doctor will refer me himself for my early scan, rather than waiting agggggeeeeessss.

UMMMM, I think that is mostly everyone?! If I forgot someone I am so sorry!

Thanks for the run down Tawn I knew you had a fantastic memory.

Fletch sorry the witch flew in, I hope your every other day bding will do the trick this month xx

Bailey 8 weeks!!!!! How time flies. Sorry your coworker is being a cow-orker xx

Cheryl Im glad you got some meds to sort out your bowels and yay for great levels xx

Mummy I hope you are feeling better soon and come on O xx

Oooh Cath a surprise BFP would be great when you testing or are you already? xx

Cupcake when will you know if you can ttc next month and where are you off to on your hollyhocks?

Shellie keep bding xx

Good luck maryanne, I hope you got that eggy xx

Poppy gorgeous scan pic, I'm glad all is well xx

Thurl sorry you reached your edd, a candle in the garden is a beautiful tribute xx

Amy how did the scan go and was your offer accepted?

Tawn you have the perfect attitude, enjoy every moment (I'm sure everything will be just fine) xx

I feel like I haven't been away xx

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone :wave:

How are you all doing?

Mrs D good to hear you are doing well, I have everything crossed that your next tests are all fine

Tawn so pleased to hear your doing ok and taking a different approach to this pg, I have a good feeling about this one

Fletch sorry af arrived, I am only on CD5 so we are very close this cycle, perhaps we will be in the tww together as I O so late

Cheryl Yay for the poo

Mummy sorry to hear about the baby shower talk, I know what you mean about being happy for them but hurting, the main thing is you are getting through these conversations and everytime you have to deal with them you will get stronger

Cupcake I have no idea about vaccinations, but I bet you can find all the info you need by googling it

Sorry I have missed people, I'm typing this in a hurry, but and to everyone I have missed x

 

[MrsDuck]

As requested here are a couple of pics of my very swollen, blood splattered, spotty neck

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw Mrs D it looks so sore you poor thing. Big hugs. I am off to Cape Verde a month today but am worried the Typhoid vaccination I need may delay my TTC by 1-3 month whether I have it via injection or orally (hoping for jab as that's just 1 month).

Hey Thurl....how are you hun? X

 

[Tawn]

Oh MrsDuck that looks so painful! You are one amazingly tough, and positive chick! I don't think I have heard you complain once about all of this! When do you get to get your staples and stitches out?

Hi Thurl! We miss you around here!

 

[thurl30]

Mrs Duck you really have been through it, sending you massive

I'm ok thanks Cupcake, finding it very difficult to sleep in the heat at the moment, it has cooled down a few degrees today but I don't hold out much hope that tonight will be any easier to sleep. I have just got home from work and put dinner in the oven, I'm so hungry I'm just willing it to hurry up

Thanks Tawn I miss being around here too, I chuckled reading your banana incident All symptoms are good you just have to remember that

 

[MrsDuck]

The weather is horrible isn't it, so sticky and hard to sleep.

Cape verde lovely, for anything special or just a holiday? I hadn't realised typhoid put ttc on hold, what does it do?

Thurl enjoy your dinner and sending you too x

I have to have bloods taken on Friday then on Tuesday the consultant will see if the staples are ready to come out. It is sore, much more so than after the first op, I'm not looking forward to having them taken out

 

[cathgibbs]

Sweet Jesus Mrsd that looks soooooo painful!!!! Your so brave,I mirror what Tawn said your so positive and you haven't moaned once,your Amazeballs!!!!!!!

Yep I'm testing already lol bfn so far which I'm slightly gutted but I would prefer af to show up,been having a few niggles on my ectopic side so I'm hoping af will show soon!!

Hey thurl!!!

Xxxx