Lucky thread

[cupcake1981]

Aw ttcbaby don't know what to say to you sweetheart, so sorry xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Aww ttcbabyisom I am so sorry hun. All I can think is it was a chemical, which is horrible hun. Perhaps the baby implanted but just wasnt meant to be. I dont know what to say to make you feel better hun but I really hope you are ok and that you continue to ttc. Big hugs hun

 

[ttcbabyisom]

ttcbaby how dark was your bfp? and did you take your other tests with fmu? could you post them so we can have a look? im sorry i cant help with temps cos iv never done them. maybe you have a dodgy batch of tests? xx

bfp's were really dark so that's why so confusing how they were so early and then tapered off to nothing. Yes, did take with fmu and also smu...i posted them when i first told my news...i'll try to find them again...i didn't several different types, don't think they're dodgy...think i'm just not pregnant anymore...completely confused by it though...only explanation i can come up with is maybe a chemical? who knows...i'll be drilling my doc with questions though starting Tuesday

 

[Tawn]

Awww ttcbabyisom, so sorry hun. I am so sorry to say that it must have been a chemical. Your lines weren't squinters at all (I remember from seeing them before AND I just went back and looked) and you got pregnant on a digi so you definitely were pregnant. Sometimes life just isn't fair!

They say that chemical pregnancies are usually chromosome issues or something like that, where the baby didn't get to start forming properly. I know that doesn't make it any better or easier, but they do say that it is just extremely "unlucky" and that it shouldn't affect future fertility at all. Again, my thoughts are with you and I hope you get your forever baby as soon as you are up for ttc again.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Took another test Friday just for fun and it was NEGATIVE. Took 2 more and they were negative. I'm SO confused! So I had false positives all week long and all of a sudden it's gone? I'm confused...confused because still no period, now 2 days late and temp shot back up this morning but had a confusing dip in temp yesterday...I can't go for my bloodwork until Tuesday. This is horrible. All I did was cry yesterday when I should have been overjoyed. This is awful.

Oh hun. I can completely understand u being so upset. That's so confusing!

Were they the same brand of tests? Hopefully u will get answers when u have blood work done

Yes, very confusing. Ugh. I did a FRER and a Clear blue digi and a few hcg strips, internet cheapies. all were positive at the same time and then negative at same time. Don't think blood work will tell me anything good...started my period last night/this morning.

 

[baileybubs]

I agree with what Tawn said hun, it really does sound like a chemical but that wont affect your fertility or chances off ttc in future or having a healthy baby next time you get a BFP hun xxxxxxxxxxx (sorry I have realised I say hun a lot, its meant affectionately!)

 

[MrsDuck]

Oh ttcbaby I'm so sorry your period arrived, I agree with the others a chemical, early mc would be my guess which is horrible, I really feel for you. The fact all those hpts were positive including the digi you definitely were pregnant, but for whatever reason bubs wasn't able to grow. It's heartbreaking and so not fair. Sending you lots of xxx

 

[thurl30]

Aaaaargh my dh annoys me sometimes, I managed to get on the Paralympics site just as the athletics were released for next Saturday evening, and I wanted to go but dh was doing the whole I don't know thing because he wants day and not evening, so then I just thought forget what he says and just buy the tickets, and they had all sold out!!!

Tawn good to see you back, glad you had a lovely time with your family, and good to hear your ms isn't too bad

Bailey sorry to hear your dinner wasn't quite right, I agee with you chefs get far too carried away with the whole 'seasoning' thing

ttc I am so so sorry to hear what's happened, the same thing happened o me hun it's horrible, thinking of you

Mrs D I didn't realise you had your stitches out, that's great, well done on resisting the urge though because that's so tough to do

Oh and Tawn my appt isn't until 15th Sept, I'm so nervous because I'm really overweight at the moment so that's why I haven't bothered to go before, I already know what they will say, but regardless of my weight I still deserve to know if I have pcos or not I think, weight on on Wednesday too eek

I'm going for a pamper myself bath, I feel shattered today, I will probably pop on again later to see what you're all up to, but if I don't manage to then lovely speaking to you all again

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw you poor thing thurl was that the last chance to buy any tickets or can you try for tickets for another event?

Enjoy your pampering bath and it's been nice having you back on our chatty thread, don't stay away for so long next time xx

Keep us posted on how your appointment goes x

Tawn I can't believe you did all that from memory, you must have been an elephant in your former life haha x

 

[MrsDuck]

Cath, fletch you've both been very quiet this weekend I hope you are both ok xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Ttc baby Ive not had a Chem so can't really comment but it does sound like that. I hope you are ok hun and will be back ttc this cycle xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Thurl enjoy your bath, I wish we had a bath sometimes, but we only have a shower .

I've been enjoying lots of egg related food today....runny poached eggs for brunch and carbonara now! Yummy!

 

[MrsDuck]

Sorry preggo ladies but mmm runny eggs, I had a naughty bacon and runny egg butty at the beach this morning yum x

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw yum I'm making the most of it while I can!

Are you back at work this week mrs d? Are you getting bored at home yet? X

 

[baileybubs]

mmmmm runny eggs, I do miss them lol

Aw ladies my oh has just told me that I am not going to work tomorrow, I started crying earlier coz i am tired and stressed and he says I need to stay at home a rest and relax. I'll still feel so guilty though because I think we have just enough staff with me and I'm on a 12 hour shift, i dont know what to do, its not like I have morning sickness or anything just feel exhausted and drained and poop. Sorry for keep banging on about it ladies

 

[thurl30]

had my bath, it was lovely and I feel throughly warmed through, I figured that if I am going to ovulate then it will be about now, so I need to put the whole cold feet = cold uterus thing to the test!

Bailey don't go in tomorrow, honestly getting stressed isn't worth it, you just need to put yourself first at the moment hun

 

[thurl30]

Oh and I can't join in with the love for runny eggs, I don't like eggs

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks thurl. I'm daft and I feel so bad, I feel like I have to be on deaths door to call in sick otherwise I feel like I am lying!!

Glad you enjoyed your bath hun, think I might have one too to chill out xxxxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Thurl what's the cold feet cold uterus thing?

Bailey your oh is right and good on him for looking after you properly like he should be!

 

[MrsDuck]

You're not banging on silly take your ohs advice and look after you tomorrow and stay home and relax and recoup some of that lost energy. You and bubs are the most important thing so listen to your body and stay at home for the day, work will manage xx

I'm off til I see the consultant again on Wednesday, I have to go to hospital for blood tests tomorrow and get the results on wed but he will sign me off for another week coz my neck is still swollen and I can still hardly move it so there is no way I can drive. Yup I'm totally bored but I'm exhausted if I go out, even for an hour, so I obviously haven't recovered from the op yet, I'm just so frustrated and sick of being an invalid now.

Sorry winge over now xx