Lucky thread

[ShellieLabTek]

Although he is I'll with an ear infection at the mo so who knows what's gonna happen....although you don't need you ear to make a baby do you!

Aww your poor hubby! Hope his ear infection goes away STAT! For me and OH I think it WOULD affect us babymaking, he is sooooooooooooo turned on by kissing and sucking his ears. It's usually my first move to let him know I want sexy time now! Also if we're in the middle of BDing and I'm not sure if he'll "make a deposit" or if i just want to make things hurry along for whatever reason all I gotta do is suck his ear lobe and he'll be sure to deliver LOL

oh Shellie i bet your so frustrated hunny, if thats how you feel def take a break hun, i bet it will happen when you least expect it xx

I need to try not to focus on it somehow, but I donno how to do that. You'd think having a wedding to plan for would do that too but nope! It's probably what's making me the most fustrated, because in my mind it's giving me a deadline to concieve. If I concieve this month, babe would be due about 5 weeks before wedding (I think I could handle that). If I concieve next month, babe would be due about a week or so before the wedding (yicks!!!!!). And the month after that, I'd be about 37 weeks pregnant on wedding day. Etc, etc, as we countdown the months.

It's also fustrating because this is now cycle 6 after m/c, and I'm a month away from my angel's EDD. I got pregnant my 4th cycle after stopping the pill so the fact it's taking longer makes me think of a million reasons that could be causing it like maybe OH actually has a low count and we were just lucky we even got pregnant at all, maybe my uterus doesn't like babies, maybe my eggs are rotten, etc, etc, etc.

Any advice ladies on how I can come to my senses?? or am I a hopeless case??

 

[ShellieLabTek]

Mrs Duck

 

[MrsDuck]

Thanks shellie x

Ear lobes, I'll keep that in mind

I think everything happens for a reason so if it was me I'd just keep bding and see what happens if you end up being close to your delivery date you'll make it work, the only problem is if you are actually delivering on your wedding day, but even if you wait a month there is no guarantee that bubs will wait til his/her due date to arrive so I don't think you can really plan. Just keep bding I'm sure there is nothing wrong with either you or oh, it will happen for you xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Awww Ladies i cant imagine how it must feel coming so close to your angels' EDD, i dont know what to say to you as i havent had to experiance that yet, my first EDD would be 06/12/12 and second would have been 16/03/13. Try and do something lovely to mark the date maybe? x

 

[MrsDuck]

Thanks cath, the 9th sept is my uncles birthday too so i have to celebrate with him each year when it's going to be the last thing I feel like doing. I'm sure it will be easier when I'm pg or at least ttc again x

Right change the subject to our favourite topic what's everyone having for tea? Kievs anyone? We're having fish, veg and I've sliced some potatoes thinly which I'm going to deep fry like crisps mmm

 

[cathgibbs]

Awwww bless you,this one will be hard but like you said when you can ttc again you will have something to take your mind off it a bit...

Oohhhh that sounds lovely!!! I don't like fish but that does sound nice!!! I have no idea what to cook,really don't feel like cooking today I'm so tired,fancy take away hhnnnnmm xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Mmm a takeaway sounds good x

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw Kievs....after a shi**y day I could murder a Kiev! Think we might get pizza tho, as im home now and its officially the start of my Bday weekend!

Where's Tawn been today? She normally pops on to say hi in the am ? X

 

[MrsDuck]

Yay I'm glad your shitty day in London is over for another month and a pizza sounds good to start off your birthday weekend

Yeah where is everyone today?

 

[cathgibbs]

I think everyone has deserted us xxx

 

[shelbysioux]

Hey everybody

Cath wow that was a good result at the scan, was worried for you there but it's all good so you just need to wait til o

Cupcake, another crap ass day? At least you've got your birthday weekend to look forward to!

Mrs Duck sorry your so bored at home and stuff, watching tv would drive me crazy I hardly watch any tv! I can't believe your edd is coming up as well that's shitty, mine isn't until 12 Jan but it will be horrible We are all here for you

Shellie I think I understand a bit how you feel cos last year I was forever setting myself deadlines for ttc and always ended up disappointed, That hardest thing is the more you plan things the more things can go wrong, but we still all try. Keep your chin up hun

AFM I had my scan today and everything was 'fine'. All he was checking was the structure of my ovaries and tubes, they can't tell if they are blocked or not. So I suppose it's good?? I told them I might be pg but they just said it wouldn't be visible at this stage any way :/ was hoping for a little sign but nothing! I have been having cramps today but I have been having them since 2Dpo so who even knows!! FX!!!

Hello to everyone else xxxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw Shelby cramps are such a good sign hun, really good! Oh and every day is a sh*t day at the moment, even sh***ier week to go next week!

It's very quiet on this thread at the mo....I hope the preggo ones aren't deserting us x

 

[cathgibbs]

Shelbysioux thank you hun aren't you testing tomorrow?

Cupcake me too,everyone seems to be running away xxx

 

[MrsDuck]

Shelby glad the scan went well, what a shame they couldn't tell if you are pg or not, I've got everything crossed for your bfp x

Aw cupcake just think only a few months left of your shitty job, this will be your month xx

I hope the preggers ladies haven't left us they are just busy bees and I hope bailey is ok xx

Is anyone watching don't tell the bride? It looks like a good one, she is going to kill him x

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah I hope so mrs d....I do worry when we don't hear from one if them for a day!

Very light opk tonight again....but got watery cm which means I'm getting fertile, yey! Hoping to make a birthday bubba

Mrs d no tv yet, got in at 6:45, buy 7:30 had a giant cupcake in the oven lol!

 

[shelbysioux]

Thanks everyone, I am meant to be testing first thing tomorrow morning but I am so scared of a bfn, I actually feel like crying right now thinking about it

Thanks Cupcake, guess what I've got a job interview in Tuesday for a job I applied for about 3 weeks ago! I can't really be arsed going for it, all I care about is getting pregnant but I know if I get it things will be better in the long run. Because I have two jobs I don't need to worry about losing my maternity pay cos I don't earn enough at either job to qualify for it!

Thanks Mrs Duck, I googled and apparently 4.5 weeks is the earliest a pregnancy can be seen on an ultrasound

Cath you will have to clearblue opks next month to spare you all this worrying, theyre really not that dear I can make 21 last 3 months but I'm not as much as a poas addict as you!!

Does anyone else think cramps since 2dpo are a good sign, I am just being soft I know :/

 

[shelbysioux]

Fletch and Tawn!!

 

[cupcake1981]

I think they are Shelby, and even if you get a bfn tomorrow your not out til the witch comes hun....if you think you will get upset, maybe wait til your late....Cath will hate me for saying that, but knowing how devastated you will be if its a FALSE negative it's not worth putting yourself through what will hopefully be unnecessary pain xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Girls I got a dilemma,got ky pos opk just now,line is same as other line but one half is even darker so def pos BUT we dtd Sunday Tuesday and last night........I'm jot having much cm soooooo shall we dtd again tonight???? Xxxx

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=51174

 

[cathgibbs]

shelby I agree with Cupcake if your unsure then don't test hun,lol you really think ill only use 3 cb opks more like 3 packs of 7 I think cramps are a good with hun

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