Lucky thread

[ShellieLabTek]

Hi ladies!

I know my DF would no be pleased with the whole no sex thing! He wasn't happy at all when I didn't want to when I was pregnant before (even thou we did it before I knew I was), and he never understood why I was soo paranoid (even when I told him my spotting first started when I was "excited"). I guess he realized it after the m/c. If there is ever a next time, hopefully i'll feel ok with it!

CD6 ladies, and I still have like 12 days before O

 

[Tawn]

Uhg, Shellie that is the WORST part of a cycle! Waiting for O is so monotonous! Maybe you'll get a surprise and it will come a little bit earlier this month?

Hi Amy! I've been meaning to ask you, are you still doing your counseling sessions to help you through dealing with Emily's traumatic birth? How is that going?

 

[baileybubs]

Hey ladies!

Sorry for keeping you all waiting today but didn't really know what was going on lol. They monitored my bp over a couple hours, it's went down to 130/90. Then they put me on the monitor for Millie's heartrate and movements as well as monitoring my stomach tensing (contractions). Millie is very happy and fine, I was getting "contractions" every 5-10 mins but they were just BH I think (or they felt like what I normally call BH!!).
Had bloods taken and got the midwife coming out on Monday.

And that's the story of my day lol!!

Tawn - so glad everything looked ok on Maddie's scan!! And glad you got a good look at her!

Cath - those dummies sound a great idea!

Cupcake - how's your day been?

Amy - are you getting more rest Hun?

Cheryl - have you got a countdown ticker for your c section yet? Will they scan you again before they do it just to check that he's still breech?

Shellie - I hope O comes soon for you Hun so you can get down to catching that eggy!!

Hope everyone else is ok!!

 

[CherylC3]

Shellie aw thts a long wait Hun..x

Bailey aw thts gd Millie's doing well, yeah just 18 days to go added a new ticker. X

 

[MrsDuck]

Bailey I'm glad all is good and I'm sticking with Millie arriving next weekend, your Easter bunny! xx

Tawn I'm glad you got a good look at maddie, not long to go xx

Cath did I miss the answer?? Can you start and finish work early? xx

Amy I'm glad Emily is starting to get into a routine allowing you more sleep xx

I hope everyone else is having a good day.

Afm we went to go on the emirates cable car by the O2 today but the damn thing is closed that was a waste of time and energy but on the plus side one zap left yay xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Hi everyone

Popped in and out this afternoon to keep up but quite busy so no posting!

Tawn glad your scan went well hun, and that Maddison is defo a lady!

Bailey so glad you and little Millie are ok!

Mrs d one more sleep!!

Cheryl yey for your furniture arriving soon!

Amy hope you are having a good day with Emily!

Shellie waiting to O is so boring, get lots of bding practise in!

AFM a little nauseaus today but not sick so that's good. One more day at work yey!

 

[cupcake1981]

Oh and I went to Tesco after work tonight and it took every fibre if my will power not to buy a pink fluffy snowsuit that was in the half price sale!! It had ears and everything was soooooo cute! I can't wait to find out if pink or blue!

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw that sounds soooo cute cupcake xxx

 

[AmyB1978]

Cupcake, it's good to hear you being so positive! I also can't wait to see if you are pink or blue!

Bailey, so so glad you and Millie are ok! Take it super easy now please!

MrsD, only one zap to go and then you get to sleep in your own bed tomorrow night!

Tawn, I am still having therapy sessions, I get 8 free and we are on number 4. It is helping some but I don't love the therapist I am assigned. She is okay just doesn't have the expertise with birthing trauma that the group leader has.

DH and I Dtd tonight and omg did it hurt! Preggo ladies make sure you have lube on hand even if you never needed it before. They warned us of that in birthing class so we did and used it but omg they weren't kidding! Then Emily started crying so I told DH he didn't have to take his time for my sake! I am sure it will get better but at least DH got some!

 

[secret09]

im hoping for my bfp this month i had two mc last yr n im on cd 25 (5dpo) im feeling sick n tired had a bit of pain on left side this morning but think im going to be disappointed 9 day wait now n im going to go insane!

 

[ShellieLabTek]

girls I'm feeling soo upset right now.

I feel horrible for how I feel but I can't help it. Remember my cousin who I told you all about months ago that I got all upset about when she announced when she was pregnant when she wasnt even trying? Well I got over it and she had her beautiful baby boy in December. But then today she calls me saying there may be a problem with the bridemaid dress we ordered for her because she pregnant AGAIN! I tried to be nice on the phone with her, but the second I got off the phone DF asked me if I was ok, and I just starting balling He held me and I cried and he said it'll be ok, that it'll happen for us, but all I feel like is its not f**king fair. We've been trying for nearly a year and a half, and she isn't even trying and BOOM pregnant!! I just want to crawl in a hole. I was doing so well, and now this I feel like I am never, ever going to be a mom. All i want to do is cry.

 

[secret09]

im sorry to hear i was the same when i just found out that a girl i know is pregnant again... her child just turnt one and she about 7 weeks tho she trys and acts more she was 3 weeks when i found out she was pregnant again at work with her n she kept telling me how she showing already n i dnt know how amazing it is even tho she knows i have had two mcs i got so upset and she asked me to lift something that normally the boys lift n i was like i dnt want to risk it in case im pregnant coz i was one day late n ttc n said i get the boys she told me to lift it who cares if i am preg she would rather me lose it again then her hmm i wasnt pregnant in the end n im now 5 dpo n given up hope of being a mum (bulling my eyes out) oh n i havnt worked with or spoken to her since!

 

[AmyB1978]

Secret, first of all welcome! Secondly, that is a horrible thing your coworker said to you, I am so sorry you had to go through that!!! I am also sorry you are feeling so discouraged and that you have been through two losses, nobody should ever know that kind of pain! This thread is a great one, we are all close and it is very supportive. There are a few of us who 've had our lucky rainbow babies, a few ladies are pregnant with their rainbows, a few have just experienced new losses , and a few are in various stages of Ttc their rainbows.

Shellie, I am so sorry your cousin is pregnant again! Sometimes life is just not fair! Don't feel bad for how you are feeling, they are your feelings and very justified. I am sorry you are feeling so discouraged but glad your DF was there to support you.

I am needing the universe to send some sticky dust to my lucky lady friends who need it! I am feeling frustrated for you ladies, you deserve your rainbows!!!!!

 

[CherylC3]

Morning ladies

Cupcake I was like tht so certain I was team pink lol... Can't wait to find out wot ur having..x

Mrs d sorry u had a wasted journey tht being closed but at least u will be home very soon Hun..x

Secret welcome, sorry about ur losses hopefully u get ur third time lucky..x

Shellie I'm so sorry ur cousin is pregnant again Hun... I remember crying my eyes out every time I got told ppl were pg... Ur time will come missy x

Amy omg was it tht sore and dry? I kno they tell u to use lube...x

Afm having a boring day today... A bit of housework and hoping my mop comes today.x

 

[Tawn]

Secret09, I am so sorry for your loses hun. And what an awful thing for your coworker to say to you!!! I'm hoping this thread brings you lots of luck, but I know for certain it will bring you tons of support because the ladies on here are amazing.

Shellie, IT'S JUST NOT FAIR!!!!!! Don't feel bad for the way you're feeling, you have been so patient for so long for your rainbow to arrive and it is definitely not easy just in general, never mind having to watch others get pg around you. hun, I truly hope this is THE cycle!!

Amy, yikes!!!!! Sounds awful thanks for the heads up hun! I'm also glad you're still getting your free sessions, but is there any way to switch to the more experienced counselor?

Cheryl, haha you know you're nesting when you are that excited for a mop to show up!!!! You're house must be SO clean by now!!!!

Mrsd happy going home day!!! What time is your last treatment, and your flight?

Morning, cupcake, bailey cath ttc!!!

Afm, those damn cats are at it again. Screeching outside my bedroom window CONSTANTLY since 4am (I am not exaggerating!) even though dh has gotten up and chased them off twice. Soooo, I'm a bit tired this morning and less than loving towards the general feline population lol

 

[CherylC3]

Aw Tawn my house never looks clean with gus boy and all his hair he's away to my mums for the weekend so at least if I get cleaning today it will stay clean..

I'm sorry they cats are pestering you through the night, I wud hate tht..x

 

[cupcake1981]

Ladies I think I either have a bug or food poisoning, since 10pm last night I have been back and forth to the bathroom with either sickness or diorahhea. I feel so weak and even the water I'm sipping I think I'm gonna throw up. I'm so worried for my baby will it hurt it? Sorry for selfish post I'm to weak and tired x

 

[Tawn]

Cupcake I had food positioning during this pregnancy too, and my midwife said it doesn't hurt or affect baby at all. She said to try your best to stay hydrated if you can (especially during recovery) but that the bacteria has no way of getting to the baby.

It feels awful though!!!! So you have my sympathy! but I hope that reassures you!

 

[cupcake1981]

Tawn I could cry I feel so awful! I'm more worried about it being one of the nasty poisoning a like listeria or something, I ate some of a frozen pizza with salami and stuff on it, it was well cooked but what if its something on that that's made me ill. I hope it's just a bug. My whole body hurts (

I read online that Noro or bugs can't affect the baby but serious food poisoning can, Urgh I hate this!

 

[AmyB1978]

Cupcake, big hugs to you.

Can you call your midwife? I am sure the baby will be fine, try and stay away from google if you can. Get some rest and I hope you feel much better soon.