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[SBB]

You've got a while til the girls will know what's going on so maybe see how Amy behaves over the coming months and decide... You can explain to them later and they will understand. As long as they have you they're going to be happy! And I know you don't feel like it but I'm sure you'll meet someone new and wonderful down the line...

Is there any chance you'll get back together? Or has she blown it? Not sure Either what to make of her saying she cares etc...



X x x

 

[TntArs06]

You've got a while til the girls will know what's going on so maybe see how Amy behaves over the coming months and decide... You can explain to them later and they will understand. As long as they have you they're going to be happy! And I know you don't feel like it but I'm sure you'll meet someone new and wonderful down the line...

Is there any chance you'll get back together? Or has she blown it? Not sure Either what to make of her saying she cares etc...



X x x

Ya thats the key now...is time! I will be moving 2500 miles away in April and im sure thats when she will wake up! Sad but true. And as far as getting back together....sometimes I think I could do it cause its hard to see myself with anyone else. But honestly I would never have the same trust I once had for her. I nEVER worried about things like this with her cause it happened to her. I know she didn't physically cheat but she did mentally and lied and then when her feelings became more her decision was to end 6 years with twin babies for an 18 year old? I know something there is missing. I kinda might know what it is but my focus is on the girls right now. If I go digging into all that then I would start to almost excuse what she has done. I miss her like crazy and even though we may never be together again or even be friends again I will always have a place in my heart for her. I wasn't too keen on the idea of marriage in the first place unless I KNEW it was it and I even said no to her a few times because I believe in time and just enjoying life no sense in rushing just because its legal in some states now. So when we did finally legally marry last year I knew she was it...this whole situation still has me confused and kinda lost...just can't wrap my head around why???

 

[yazzy]

Hey girls,

SBB...I had a mild panic for you until you said the baby is ok and now you know how far along you are! Great news, I am really pleased for you.

TNT - first off your hormones are going to take a while to settle down. Think how many people struggle when their OH is there trying to support them...they still have difficult times. You are dealing with twin babies, the breakdown of your relationship and all your hormones...and although you have your down times you are doing great and you know this every time you look at your baby girls. Hang in there because you will get there and be as happy as you once were.

How is everyone else? I have my 20 week scan on Friday!! Although I was nervous before I am actually excited now, really hope all goes well. Every day I am feeling stronger pokes and prods in my tummy...I love it!

 

[TntArs06]

Hey girls,

SBB...I had a mild panic for you until you said the baby is ok and now you know how far along you are! Great news, I am really pleased for you.

TNT - first off your hormones are going to take a while to settle down. Think how many people struggle when their OH is there trying to support them...they still have difficult times. You are dealing with twin babies, the breakdown of your relationship and all your hormones...and although you have your down times you are doing great and you know this every time you look at your baby girls. Hang in there because you will get there and be as happy as you once were.

How is everyone else? I have my 20 week scan on Friday!! Although I was nervous before I am actually excited now, really hope all goes well. Every day I am feeling stronger pokes and prods in my tummy...I love it!

Thank you hun. I have my weak moments and the girls do help. But I feel bad for my girls because I can't do alot of one on one time with just one baby. I cant seem to figure how to do it without the other crying alot and getting jealous. And with Amy they could have had more one on one time. But oh well I suppose one day they will hopefully understand that their mom did everything they could do for them. I just pictured my life with them after they were born to be alot different.

Are you going to find out the gender then? Or do you wanna know?

 

[Linny]

Wahoooo SBB!!! Glad to hear firstly that all is ok, but fab to finally know what your due date is, how exciting A winter baby and a summer baby, perfect!!!

TnT.... First off, i can't help with the EWCM i'm afraid cos i still haven't had AF or anything cos i'm on the mini pill. It does sound like your pregnancy has kick started your ovaries. I know right after a baby your supposed to be way more fertile too so maybe thats it As for Amy, that must be so difficult hun. Like Yazzy says your trying to get over your marriage and care for TWO babies on top of lack of sleep and mental post pregnancy hormones. I was an emotional wreck with just one baby so i can only imagine how hard it is for us, especially as your trying to split your time between them. You ARE doing a fantastic job, i take my hat off to you. As SBB says you have a while before you have to make any decisions on what to tell the twins. I think your doing the right thing, just taking each day and enjoying your girls. The Amy situation will work out one way or the other and you'l be stronger for it

Yazzy....woop woop 20 weeks scan Pleeease tell me your finding out the sex???

 

[yazzy]

TnT and Linny - nope, not finding out what we are having. I really, really want it to be a surprise when he/she is born so my OH can tell me what we've got

So girls what happened at your 20 week scans? Is it scary, I am excited but know I will be nervous because they are measuring things etc.

 

[SBB]

Yazzy that's what I want this time too! They just measure a few bits, it's not scary though, you'll get to see lots of the baby!

TNT how come you're moving so far?!

X x x

 

[yazzy]

Thanks SBB...thats reassuring to know. I hope I can just enjoy it and can't wait to see baby again.

 

[SBB]

Hey girls :wave:

Just popped on to say happy Xmas to everyone! We have all had a horrible puking/diarrhoea bug but hopefully better for Xmas day tomorrow.

Hope you are all well and have a lovely Xmas...

X x x

 

[yazzy]

As SBB has said, I hope everyone has a lovely Christmas

SBB - hope your sickness bug clears up soon...not nice to have at any time especially Christmas. I hope you are keeping well.

All went well with my scan last week, everything measured perfectly and baby looked great and was racing around all over the place!

 

[SBB]

Wow 20 weeks already you weren't tempted to find out the sex then?!

X x x

 

[Leeze]

Happy Xmas everyone!!! Hope you all had a fantastic day

Yazzy, great to know the scan went well xx

 

[yazzy]

SBB - nope, not tempted at all i'm so, so glad we didn't as its quite fun to hear everyone guessing hee hee. Only another 20 weeks and we'll find out!

Any news on when your first scan is?

 

[SBB]

It's on Thursday and I found the HB a few days ago (very briefly!)

Am excited about a surprise too!!

X x x

 

[yazzy]

Wow...not long to wait SBB! Can't wait to hear how it goes and really glad you found the heartbeat Although baby is getting bigger I find it harder to find the heartbeat now...baby seems to charge around in there all over the place lol.

 

[SBB]

Here's my 12 week scan pic - we're having a unicorn!!

https://i1040.photobucket.com/albums/b404/zannaboo/a30c490e.jpg

X x x

 

[TntArs06]

Awww YEAY!!! So awesome!

 

[sparkle05]

Hi ladies hope you had a great Christmas

Yazzy, glad the scan went well, you are very good not even being tempted lol.

SBB, congratulations on the unicorn will you find out what you are having ?

Leeze, How's it all going ?

TNT, How are your gorgeous girls ?

Linny, do you have any plans for maisies birthday ?

I have a week to go until Isla 1st birthday I have already had a tear. I just can't believe it Her little party is being planned as we speak. I would like to go back a year please and have her again, she has been a pleasure

Happy new year to you all

 

[sparkle05]

Oh my word, when I was writing my last reply I felt a little confused and I have just realised why

SBB, I was going to ask you about sammuels birthday but then I looked at your breast feeding ticker and saw 10 months I could of sworn sammuel was born before Isla. Of course I now remember that yes he was born before Isla and it will be his birthday on Sunday
Please excuse my wallyness lol. Do you have any plans ?

 

[SBB]

Lol I need to change that ticker!!

We were going to have some family over for his bday but we've decided to just have a nice chilled day and go for a nice walk etc. he doesn't know whats going on and we're knackered so we'll do something fun next year instead.

I'd like to have a party but don't have the energy!! please post some pics of Islas party though

We are staying team yellow unicorn

X x x