Magical Maypoles ~*May testing thread*~

Thank you all for the congrats! I think I won't be breathing a bit easier until AF is late and my tests don't fade.

Question for those ladies who have recently got their BFP:
Have you stopped having sex? Did you stop for a few days? No change at all?
My libido is oddly sky-high but I am a little nervous about possibly disrupting what my body is trying to do...

I don't think it's necessary to stop unless you're high risk but I haven't dtd since my bfp. I'm so paranoid because of my mmc and then it taking us 3 years to get pregnant again. Your lines are looking fab x
 
@littlewitch
I honestly would be over the moon with tests that dark at 10dpo. Mine was fainter than that by alot at 10dpo even with my son. U can still have sex i have throughout all my pregnancies. Even tho i had bleeding with my son we still did. I think this is it for you.
And i truly hope and pray ill be joining you at the end of may. I highly doubt it and fully expecting bfn again, but i pray pray pray i get my sticky rainbow BFP too in May[-o<
 
18dpo for me today and AF has just showed up out of nowhere.
2 days later than the last 2 cycles.
Still feeling sad being out yet again but glad to finally be in a new cycle.
Hoping for a very strong ovulation and praying so hard a healthy egg will drop and i get my rainbow BFP this month.
Oh please please please Lord bless me with my rainbow baby this cycle [-o<
 
@littlewitch
When did you bd this cycle?
We have been doing peak, Ovulation and day after for a while now and peak and ovulation last cycle but no joy.
With my son i noted we only bd on cd8 and cd10 and 11. I ovulated cd 10.
And also when i had the strong lines with the miscarriage last year we only bd on ovulation day.
So this cycle i think we will just do ovulation day and maybe day after.
Praying that works for us and i finaly get my rainbow too.
This is month and cycle 15 trying now:-(
 
I don't think it's necessary to stop unless you're high risk but I haven't dtd since my bfp. I'm so paranoid because of my mmc and then it taking us 3 years to get pregnant again. Your lines are looking fab x

What days did you bd hon?
Im just curious because nothing seems to be working for us. Only time it has ive lost.
But im on so many more supplements now and really want to fall again and praying they will help it stick and be healthy.
I just want my final rainbow so badly.
Fear its never going to happen with me being much older than most of the ladies on here
 
What days did you bd hon?
Im just curious because nothing seems to be working for us. Only time it has ive lost.
But im on so many more supplements now and really want to fall again and praying they will help it stick and be healthy.
I just want my final rainbow so badly.
Fear its never going to happen with me being much older than most of the ladies on here

We did cd12,13 and 14. Peak was cd14 so likely o'd cd15. The only thing we did different this month is we only dtd when we were in the mood and didn't try and force it on days we weren't.
 
Blood test was <5 at 11dpo afternoon so I’m 99% sure I’m out. Good luck to you ladies, I’m gonna skedaddle.
 
We did cd12,13 and 14. Peak was cd14 so likely o'd cd15. The only thing we did different this month is we only dtd when we were in the mood and didn't try and force it on days we weren't.


Ive tried just peak day and it didnt work for us.
With my son we only bd on cd8 cd10 and 11. Ovulation was cd10. And with my miscarriage last june we only bd on Ovulation day and i think with our almost 4 year old it was just Ovulation day too.
So think we will do Ovulation day and maybe day after and praying that will work.
With my 3rd loss in feb we did twice peak day and twice Ovulation day and day after but that was knackering...
Hope may ends with my sticky rainbow bfp.
Af has gotten heavier now so definitely cd1 today.


Blood test was <5 at 11dpo afternoon so I’m 99% sure I’m out. Good luck to you ladies, I’m gonna skedaddle.

When i new i was out at 10dpo i really wanted to leave too. But stuck around.
I dont blame ya for needing time out love and im so sorry for the BFN. They sting so so much. I hate them. And i hate lines that lead to losses. But the constant BFNs just cause such hopelessness.
When is AF due?.
Mine always is a wait as dont start until 16 or 17dpo. But for some reason this time its kepts me waiting. 18dpo and she shows at last.
Feel a bit better no2 shes here and on a new cycle.
Praying it will be the one and praying when you start your new cycle it will be the one for you too. Sending warm hugs lovely. [-o&lt;
 
@RedRose19
Looks like your pregnant again. That is definitely a bfp congratulations!
 
Frer is negative so I dunno what to think... surely frer is more sensitive than the cheapie?
I'll test again tomorrow

You'd be surprised. With my daughter I took a frer and it was negative, took a dollar tree test, which was less sensitive, and it was positive.
 
i got cramping similar to how i felt when pregnant, my boobs are so sensitive which is not normal, im breastfeeding still so i feel they are used to taking a beating so something hormonal must be happening. I'll try the frer again tomorrow
 
@littlewitch
When did you bd this cycle?
We have been doing peak, Ovulation and day after for a while now and peak and ovulation last cycle but no joy.
With my son i noted we only bd on cd8 and cd10 and 11. I ovulated cd 10.
And also when i had the strong lines with the miscarriage last year we only bd on ovulation day.
So this cycle i think we will just do ovulation day and maybe day after.
Praying that works for us and i finaly get my rainbow too.
This is month and cycle 15 trying now:-(
We BD on CD 13 and CD 15. Peak was CD 15. So, technically, the day before ovulation and 3 days prior to ovulation.

In all the cycles we tried, we never happened to BD on ovulation day or immediately after ovulation. Every chemical pregnancy I have had was from sex just prior to, or on the day of my peak.

Also, I noticed that if he finished with me on top, those were the cycles that I had chemicals. So I just figured that position worked well with my cervix position. So I always tried to end the fun in that position near ovulation. :)

I think what made a massive difference for me was using the PreMom app and Easy@home ovulation strips with the app. What I found was that I was waiting too long to read my OPK results before. With the app, I take the OPK and then I take a photo of it at the 5 minute mark. The app gives you a ratio of test:control ... and made understanding what was happening easier. This was my fourth cycle tracking OPK with the PreMom app and I am pregnant!
I tracked 10 cycles just looking at my OPK with my naked eye/reading manually, so I think that helped.
 
@littlewitch
When did you bd this cycle?
We have been doing peak, Ovulation and day after for a while now and peak and ovulation last cycle but no joy.
With my son i noted we only bd on cd8 and cd10 and 11. I ovulated cd 10.
And also when i had the strong lines with the miscarriage last year we only bd on ovulation day.
So this cycle i think we will just do ovulation day and maybe day after.
Praying that works for us and i finaly get my rainbow too.
This is month and cycle 15 trying now:-(
Maybe try at couple days before peak and peak. That is what worked for me. :)
 

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