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So we're on our 14th month of ttc #2.
It seems however that DH is disinterested on the days that matter the most.
Now I've tried not letting him know when it's a good time and when it's not as well as not saying at all, to see what he wants to do/when.
I've tried nice underwear, playing in the lead up the evening BD, going with his lead, showing no signs of interest.
He seems to have the sex drive of a elderly man.
When on clomid we were told BD for 4 days in a row, he'd say no come day 3 + 4. I've told him how important regular BD is, as he has low count, poor motility and has antibodies - which makes things really hard.
Should I take this as he's not interested, and quit trying, or just sit it out till our IVF turn comes up (12 months time, + 1 month for freezing).
I dislike that he's most interested when I'm bleeding (which is always rejected as the mare thought of it is off putting) or in the 1-2 days before AF arrives.
It seems however that DH is disinterested on the days that matter the most.
Now I've tried not letting him know when it's a good time and when it's not as well as not saying at all, to see what he wants to do/when.
I've tried nice underwear, playing in the lead up the evening BD, going with his lead, showing no signs of interest.
He seems to have the sex drive of a elderly man.
When on clomid we were told BD for 4 days in a row, he'd say no come day 3 + 4. I've told him how important regular BD is, as he has low count, poor motility and has antibodies - which makes things really hard.
Should I take this as he's not interested, and quit trying, or just sit it out till our IVF turn comes up (12 months time, + 1 month for freezing).
I dislike that he's most interested when I'm bleeding (which is always rejected as the mare thought of it is off putting) or in the 1-2 days before AF arrives.