MommyCandice - We're glad to have you join us, welcome! There are a lot of nice ladies in here, and they also have some great achievement stories as well as tips that are working for them. I think there are at least 2 people in here who are joining WW and I have been told great things about it.
You sound like you've been through a lot with a failed relationship and all. I know I would pack on the weight too if I had gone through something similar.
Some things things that are working for me is drinking green tea (I drink a brand called green tea hawaii which is kinda expensive $60 bucks a month but is like a dietary supplement that supposed to help with weight loss) and taking garcinia cambogia at the same time. I bought the green tea packets in bulk when I had the money to splurge so after I run out I think I will just be drinking regular green tea. CG is pretty cheap. They have it on groupon and depending on the brand you can get them for a few bucks. I usually go buy the reviews, but the price never exceeds the $20 range.
I give credit to those 2 things because I have tried working out and exercising by itself before and I never lost weight or kept it off. After I started the combo I went from 235 to 223.8. Ideally, I would like to drop at least 3 lbs this week so I can finally see the 220 number.
I have noticed that if I eat decent, I will usually stay the same weight. I literally have to stick to mostly salads, veggies, and protein (basically the low carb diet) if I want the scale to budge. I am doing just that this week. My birthday is in 2 months and I want to look different for my bday. I am 26, so not terribly old, but I am not getting any younger either and have already wasted my late teens and early twenties looking like this so I know its now or never.