March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

8dpo today...testing Dec. 16 at 12dpo, if negative, will hope for a positive on Dec. 18, AF should show on the 18th or 19th...IF she's coming.
i really think if i get ANOTHER negative and have ANOTHER failed cycle on these meds, i will PUNCH something!

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Hey Everyone!

Sailors - Hello! So sorry for your loss. *hugs* I remember wanting my tests to turn negative which was so weird.

Pink - Wishing you a smooth and as pain free as possible labour. You must be so excited!!

Eyemom - FX'd the twinges mean something for you. One of us has to get a BFP this month!!!

TTC baby - Counting today as ovulation so I think we'll be quite close in our TWW together that will be nice!!

As for me. I have managed to fit in 4 rounds of BDing in the last 48 hours so I think I've covered my bases! Officially 1dpo tommorow as my tests faded from around 8pm last night and are faded again today :)

we are right on target with each other! I'm way behind on this thread right now but good luck sweetie. When are you testing? i'm taking my first test on Monday at 12dpo. Sounds like you covered your bases perfectly. Woot woot!
 
Testing every day since 7dpo with my cheapies and nothing.

Got AF cramping, low open cervix and feel like AF is on her way so I'm out pretty much

Hope you have more luck than me hun xx

I really thought this might be it due to vivid dreams, sore boobs etc
 
I am new to this and I just want to start off by saying it has been a joy to hear all of you guys stories.

Just a little background on me: My name is Dee Dee, I'm 28yrs old and engaged to my highschool sweetheart. So last April me and my fiance moved in together (we were long distance) and a month later I found out we were expecting a:baby: on May 7th. It happened so damn fast. We were more than excited. I had an ankling I was preg because I would wake up in a puddle of sweat, very sore breast, cramping and brown discharge. Had my OB appt on May 14th to confirm pregnancy. During the appt the OB was concerned abt the spotting and advised us that worst case it is a threatened abortion :(.. well the spotting stop and the pregnancy was progressing beautifully.

Well at our 20 wk US we found out we were having a beautiful little girl. Mariah Brooklyn. But before we could get too excited we were advised I have a short cervix measuring at .8cm. Had to see a MFM doc right away. Long story short we lost our beautiful angel Sept 8th. Doctor said there was an infection from the bacteria B-strep (I believe that is the name). Now 3months later we TTC **Fingers crossed**...HOPING FOR THAT BFP!:shrug::bfp::bfp:

Welcome Mariahs Mom and i'm glad you came here. i am in tears over your story. Oh how awful. I'm so so sorry sweetie. :cry: :hugs:
I hope you get your BFP very very soon! :dust:
 
:( hcg still not falling as they hoped. More blood tests on sunday.

They have gone as follows:

02.12.13 = 996
04.12.13 = 830
06.12.13 = 822

More blood tests on sunday :(

Keep thinking of you pink.

Xxx

Ugh, i remember the forever wait for the hcg to return to 0. It's dreadful. Hang in there! :hugs:
 
I would like to introduce the most perfect lady in all the land, Miss Stella Moi Shallis-Liddell

She arrived at 7.40pm on fri 6th dec it was so speedy that I had no time for an epidural.

I went to the labour ward at 4ish I was only 1cm dilated despite the dr last night saying I was 2-3 so they put a cannula in for the hormone drip, the contractions were so bad she face me some pethodone that was the one I didn't want but I agreed as it was so bad from there I was so drowsy and out if it I don't know what happened and all of a sudden I'm screaming I need to push, so with the help of gas and air I pushed and she was there at 7.40 the midwives were so surprised with how fast it went, they did shift changeover at 7.30 and at 7.40 out she popped.
She came straight onto my chest just as I wanted and she snuffled to breast feed all on her own tho we had some latching issues and I'm scared about the next feed.
She was bang on 8lb they had estimated about 10 so I got lucky tho she won't fit in the lovely super baby grow :-(
Now I have to go get some sleep before this 3am feed that I'm going to have to wake her for.

Congrats lady!!! She's beautiful!!! :cloud9:
 
Congrats pink!!! She's gorgeous!!!!

Hey ladies :hi:
Wanted to join since we're going for a January bfp! It's been a really tough year with 5 losses but we're going strong for our take home baby! I had a d&e on Oct 15, O'd twice in Nov, and just had another chemical a couple days ago. I knew there was a higher risk since my uterine lining was thin. I'm on CD2 and this is my first period (other than mc bleeding) since July! It's a lot lighter than I expected but hey! That's alright! Hope to get to know y'all :)

Welcome Leah!
So sorry to hear about all your losses. I really hope you get that BFP in January!!! :dust:
 
LeahLou, so sorry for your losses :cry: but welcome to the thread. Lovely ladies here.


....sooo tonight I caught myself doing something embarrassing and I felt so pitiful but I had to laugh. I was feeling myself up for any hint of breast tenderness since that's a symptom for me. I think it I were sore enough for it to mean anything I wouldn't have to grope my own chest. :dohh:

Oh girl, i do this CONSTANTLY after O. :haha: Sometimes I forget i'm sitting at my desk at work and i do it right there. :dohh:
 
Really hope you get your BFP this cycle Eye. Still, it's nice to have that back up plan in place.

Hoping I'll ovulate this coming week, which would mean I'd start testing around Christmas. Really don't like that timing---unless, of course, it's positive. Sure won't be a happy holidays if I get a BFN!

Yeah, testing around holidays or special days can be a real bummer if you get a BFN. I did the same thing. Tested on my birthday because that was 14dpo and it was negative and i got AF same day. it sucked at first but the day went well and i kept busy. Now i'm testing this cycle on DH's bday so really hoping to give him a bday surprise! if not, i'll still have hope until AF and then i guess if she comes, i'll be drinking through my holidays.
 
My birth story

Went to the labour ward at 4ish got examined my forewaters were still in tact so the mw popped them, I was very constipated and she seemed to think this may have stopped labour progressing so she gave me a couple of suppositories that quickly did the job, I was only 1cm despite the dr the night before telling me I was 2-3 so she started me on the hormone drip, the contractions were almost unbearable so she gave me some pethidine, I was so out of it, it made me high as a kite! Then all of a sudden I needed to push and when people have said this before you think it's a choice but your body just pushes you can't do anything it's so weird, there was a bit of pushing and then she was here, straight onto my chest as planned my beautiful gorgeous girl.
The midwifes couldn't believe how fast she came, I had no time for an epidural or even my tens machine!
The midwives dud a shift change at 7.30 Stella arrived at 7.40 the midwife that I started with came back in as she hadn't left yet she couldn't believe it.

she is so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
haha yes I've been trying to think of it as, if I get a BFN, at least I get to drink to console myself over the holidays. Kind of a crappy consolation prize but it's something I guess :blush:
 
In the past I've definitely allowed myself a fancy drink after getting a bfn. We don't keep drinks in the house but if we're at a restaurant I like to order something fruity with a bit of kick. ;) I mean, now I can't....which is fine as I only ever drink once or twice a year anyways...but if ladies feel the need to indulge over the holidays I highly endorse that!

I am sorry about all the bfns. :(
 
Kat, good luck! Don't you love how our bodies like to change things up once in a while? Wouldn't want it to be boring right. :dohh: How did your cheapie opk turn out? In any case, good luck!

Unexpected, :hugs: I understand feeling desperate to be pg after a miscarriage, 100%. Hoping so hard for you. It's not stupid to feel that way, no matter how long it has been. I feel it now (a year and a half later :cry:) just like I did when I was at your stage of the game. I think most people get pg quicker though so keep on hoping. In the end though, you persevere because you have no choice but to persevere! :hugs:

ttcbabyisom, good luck. <3

I always think I'm gonna get a fancy drink after a BFN, but then I remember I don't like em that much and they're kinda expensive. :wacko: But I think a woman's entitled to a special drink after something like that. Because you can so why not. But for me I'm more likely to go get a soda or eat sushi or a deli sandwich, lol.

Starry how are you feeling? Been feeling any more movement? When is your next appt? Sorry I forgot.

AFM, my nurse called back this morning. I wasn't expecting the call until afternoon, so I had the phone in the other room charging and I didn't hear it. :dohh: I was in rush-out-the-door mode at the time anyway, so just as well, but it is still frustrating that I missed it. On the plus side, DH also works for a hospital so his calls also come up as "Unknown," so at that hour I probably would have answered thinking it was him. :haha: So maybe I was just saved an embarrassing situation. (To be clear, I wouldn't have answered any weird way, :winkwink: just much more casually than I would have for a nurse's call.)

I hate playing phone tag with Drs because I try to be where I can answer, but it's hard since I'm usually working, and I don't really have anywhere private to go at work to take a call there if I'm with a patient at the time. But I know when I call I'm not likely to get to talk to the nurse right then and there. So anyway, I called back later this morning and left a message, but I didn't get a call back. :( Unusual for them so I'm sure they were just tied up, but it's still a bit frustrating. Hoping we can connect tomorrow somehow so I'm not left the whole weekend wondering what we're going to do.
 
Ugh, Eye! Hope you hear from the doctor tomorrow.

Good luck KAt and everyone else trying. Hoping we get some good news in a week or two.

So I told myself I wasn't going to use OPKs this month, but I just had to, I swear! Got some pelvic cramping yesterday morning at work, so I thought I'd try a OPK at lunch. It was somewhat dark, so I did one around dinner---super positive! Got another strong one this morning, and now it's dimming. After last months bedding failures we've had lots of success this month so far. Might have to try again tonight! 2WW here I come.
 
I've no idea what my body is doing. Just going with the flow now. I'm kinda hoping O will have on CD20 like with my BFP cycle just because it's works Christmas party on Saturday and I would like to get drunk!
 
Hey, guys! Yup yesterday my internet cheapie opk said GO!! Shocked because I'm not seeing any EWCM and the cramping I had over the weekend/last week has stopped. Usually I have cramping AT ovulation. So weird! So we did the at home insemination last night and will do it again Saturday. I'll keep testing on IC OPKs until it's clear. Maybe one more insem on Sunday.
 
Kat - sometimes you don't need to have ewcm. The watery stuff is OK too and other times just because you don't see ewcm doesn't mean there isn't any way up high where you really need it (I don't know if you obsessively check your cervix or not like I did...). Might as well try if you can...just in case. Good luck!

mowat - good job on chasing that eggie! Good luck and hope all that work pays off for you this month with a Christmas bfp!!!

brunette - have fun at your Christmas party!

afm - doing OK. I still have some nausea but it's much, much more manageable now. I didn't use a single anti-nausea tablet all this week!! I only used 2 last week. Last night I ate some chocolate and wow, did that ever wake the baby up!! Up until this point I've only been feeling flutters and tiny little pops. But these were real kicks and almost kind of painful. It was really reassuring as I keep finding reasons to worry the baby is not OK. It's so hard being pregnant after multiple losses.
 
Hrm...not only do I not have ewcm...today's ic opk says not ovulating. Can you really have a 24 hour window and that's it? I hope I didn't miss it!
 
I've never actually used opks but I have read you're supposed to use them twice a day because you could miss the surge if you only do it once a day. So I'm not sure. I hope not! I think you can have up to 24 hours after the surge to still conceive so might give it a shot. Hubby and I usually DTD the day after ov just to cover all of our bases. There's no way of knowing if that was the time that got our bfp, of course.
 

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