March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[garfie]

Never - Aw mama bear BIG to you I hope you are feeling a lot better today and back to your young positive self it is hard being a woman as we feel we have to shoulder all the responsibility of children - we dream about them for so long what it will be like what they will look like what we will do with them how we will teach them and when they finally arrive - sometimes our plans go out the window

Our husbands don't always realise - in fact scrap that never realise what we have given up to have children (our own dreams) not that we would change a single thing - but I'm sure you get where I am coming from

I would like to see them change their schedule just once (or maybe it's just my hubby) but if he wants to do something he damn well does it - ie goes fishing, pub or whatever - never a thought for who will look after the children.

Could you imagine if we just took off and said right honey I'm off to the pub see you later

I'm sorry you are having a tough day and have no one to talk it through with - that's what we are all here for

I am also sorry about your friend - give yourself time to grieve and be kind to yourself.

When you're feeling down mama just take a look at that little miracle you have created and it will all be right again

AFM - My little boy is 13 today and I am no nearer holding my angel baby than I was over 4 years ago when I first began this incredible journey

ladies

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[nevergivingup]

Sorry you're having a rotten day Never. You've got a ton going on and you're more than welcome to vent on this thread---we all do! Can you have a nice hot drink and go to bed early? Try to do something easy and nice for yourself---everyone else can look after themselves for the night!

Not sure what's going on with me, I think it might just be the progesterone talking, although I don't usually have symptoms from it this late in the cycle. Crazy sore boobs today, and cramping worse than pms. Hope this is something good, cause if it is I'll totally deal with the pain!

Sorry never......sounds like you have a lot to deal with!

I would totally find out the gender! My friends waited. I'm too impatient, and need to know information!

Ugh it's so hard to see people complaining about pregnancy. I had one friend (acquaintance really) who complained about her oldest 2 boys all the time (she loves them but they are special needs/behavior issues), then announced she was pregnant (planned) with #3...due date was the day after my "angel's" due date. And she complained about MS a lot. One time I did post a comment about how I'd do anything to be having morning sickness at that time.... And she was really sweet and kind about it b/c she knew my situation and she is aware of some other people who are hurting with fertility issues or whatever. I know she needed the outlet b/c she dealt with a lot, but it still rubbed me the wrong way sometimes.

ES I think you deserve a day off from cleaning. Hope you took your time to relax today.

Unexpected I definitely do not mind you posting about what you're going through. I have admitted in the past and I will admit again, sometimes this thread is a lil hard for me because to add insult to injury, I somehow got dealt the infertility card after my loss. I spend most of my time here in the secondary infertility forum, so sometimes when I'm in this thread, I forget that some people don't really have trouble getting pregnant. But I am always happy to see happy updates, and it does my heart good to see you all doing well. Please stick around and don't feel like you have to walk on eggshells or anything. I want to keep cheering you on.

AFM, we found out the sex with my daughter, and we definitely want to know with any future pregnancy should we be blessed enough to have another! I can't handle suspense! And I like to be able to plan ahead as much as possible at least.

Never I'm sorry you're having a rough time. You really do have a lot on your plate. Like mamatex said, you are a shining light around here and always so quick to offer encouragment. Sorry you are down, but being strong doesn't mean the crappy stuff never gets you down. Being strong means you don't let it defeat you. This too shall pass dear. Hope things are looking up soon. Oh and don't apologize for venting. We all gotta vent sometimes. We are here for you.

mowat, really hope that means something good. Sounds promising!

Calitronagrl, you know your body best, but staying hopeful for you.

AFM, nothing to report. We've begun the every-other-day BD to make sure our bases are covered, but tonight's OPK was very clearly negative. It'll probably turn positive within the next 3 days, but who knows?? Never done a medicated cycle before. We shall see.

Never - Aw mama bear BIG to you I hope you are feeling a lot better today and back to your young positive self it is hard being a woman as we feel we have to shoulder all the responsibility of children - we dream about them for so long what it will be like what they will look like what we will do with them how we will teach them and when they finally arrive - sometimes our plans go out the window

Our husbands don't always realise - in fact scrap that never realise what we have given up to have children (our own dreams) not that we would change a single thing - but I'm sure you get where I am coming from

I would like to see them change their schedule just once (or maybe it's just my hubby) but if he wants to do something he damn well does it - ie goes fishing, pub or whatever - never a thought for who will look after the children.

Could you imagine if we just took off and said right honey I'm off to the pub see you later

I'm sorry you are having a tough day and have no one to talk it through with - that's what we are all here for

I am also sorry about your friend - give yourself time to grieve and be kind to yourself.

When you're feeling down mama just take a look at that little miracle you have created and it will all be right again

AFM - My little boy is 13 today and I am no nearer holding my angel baby than I was over 4 years ago when I first began this incredible journey

ladies

X

Thanks so much ladies for all the kind words Didn't expect to be here in this mood but thanks for bringing it up. Mowat I did exactly that and went to bed early.

Garfie: Looks like you're Mama Bear at the moment and the title definitely fits bc you hit the nail right on the head. I wanted this so bad but It just hit me that my family DS is dependent on me as a wife mom and future half provider but it dosent help that my DH thinks all he has to do is work and once he comes home he expects his 4 course home cooked Meal his house clean and he turns on the tv and watches that until he goes to bed he gives our DS maybe 15 minutes of play time then it's his tv or iPad. I'm exhausted bc I still want and try to be super mom to my DS and give him a friend to play with a mom to lay under and a protector. Garfie you're right once I look at my DS I realize everything will be worth it and all I can so is my best...I'm so young but womanhood has moved in once DS was born, it is a life changing experience and I love every bit!! And it's not only your DH mine is the same, go hunting fishing gyming whenever he thinks of it he's out the door 5 minutes after he thought about it. For once can he say baby go do what you need to do I'll keep DS or hey take a nap I'll cook dinner and watch DS I guess those days of just jumping in the vehicle and heading to the mall or gym is over.....but to see my DS light up when he sees me is worth it all.
Garfie: HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your son!!!! I know it's tiring knowing it hasn't happened yet but it will, it will, don't give up on me for you!!! Thnx for being here to pick me up!!

I feel much better today ladies!! THANX SOOO MUCH!! I just realized why I can't totally leave this thread.....bc I'll be LEAVING the most Sweetest women I ever met!!

 

[Unexpected212]

Okay don't mean to post so much but having a off day my studies are consuming me to the point of I'm studying every minute of every day bc my family(DH DS) is depending on me.My DS has a awful cold bc my DH was in a sharing mood and passed it on to DS. So I'm fighting his cold plus he's cranky bc he's sick. I feel as if I absolutely have no physical friends I can talk to about everything. I go back in forth in my head trying to stay positive about it all. I've gained weight bc I just really stop caring. My old classmate died at 26 today of acquired immune deficiency syndrome . That hit home with me I have a Son who I have to protect even when he gets old from all these illnesses and bad people that's killing and kidnapping babies .My mom is ill mentally. My dad is abusive mentally and physically to her. My sister is yearning for children but can never get pregnant after her 1 m/c so I really don't want to talk to her about my DS developments in walking and talking. Bc it really brings her down. I pray everyday and ask for strength and peace and forgiveness if I offended anyone on my daily journey. But somehow I still feel down. I didn't mean to ramble but it seems today is a bad day and my mind is a but tired of running this through it all day so I needed to let it run somewhere else. Forgive me ladies for my private thoughts/venting ........Back to my studies...have a great day ladies or in my case pretend too bc others are watching

It sounds like you have so much on your plate. You sound really strong to be handling it all. We are always here if you need to vent or talk. I know what you mean about not having people to talk too. My friends are all young like me (23/24) and not at the stage of having babies so I can't really talk to them about my sons developments or being pregnant they find it boring. So I know you you feel. Also i'm so sorry for the loss of your classmate. Thinking of you and hoping things get better.

 

[Unexpected212]

Garfie - I truly believe you will get your rainbow soon xx

Eyemon - Thank you for your kind words. I try to be as sensetive as possible but I understand it must be difficult for people to hear about xx

 

[Calitronagrl]

So only got 3 more days to go before AF shows up. Hoping she stays away, but I am not holding my breath on it. I have been getting some pretty crazy symptoms this last week, but since I hardly had any hot flashes I am assuming I am out this month.

What symptoms do you have?

Well just some of the usual of being irritated, tender boobs, exhaustion. However, this past week I have been cramping on and off and I normally don't cramp until the night before or day of AF. When I first wake up, I have been feeling dizzy, nauseated, and dying of thirst. I feel pressure in my lower abdomen, when I take my first morning pee. My bowel movements are way more frequent. It is not diarrhea, but leaning more towards that way, along with stomach cramps. (TMI Stuff - Sorry - ) I get hot flashes, but only one here or there and it is when I am doing something so I think I am just out of shape. I just feel heavy and bloated.
I know I am not technically out until AF shows, but it seems like every month since my miscarriage my body just keeps doing weird things and it seems to be different every time. Last month, I was having hot flashes left and right (happened when I got pregnant last) so I for sure thought I was until AF showed up.
So I feel like I am out for the count, but then again I feel like I really don't know my body anymore either. It is kinda frustrating. I feel different enough to where I think I might be, but at the same time I am use to my body playing mean tricks on me.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

So only got 3 more days to go before AF shows up. Hoping she stays away, but I am not holding my breath on it. I have been getting some pretty crazy symptoms this last week, but since I hardly had any hot flashes I am assuming I am out this month.

What symptoms do you have?

Well just some of the usual of being irritated, tender boobs, exhaustion. However, this past week I have been cramping on and off and I normally don't cramp until the night before or day of AF. When I first wake up, I have been feeling dizzy, nauseated, and dying of thirst. I feel pressure in my lower abdomen, when I take my first morning pee. My bowel movements are way more frequent. It is not diarrhea, but leaning more towards that way, along with stomach cramps. (TMI Stuff - Sorry - ) I get hot flashes, but only one here or there and it is when I am doing something so I think I am just out of shape. I just feel heavy and bloated.
I know I am not technically out until AF shows, but it seems like every month since my miscarriage my body just keeps doing weird things and it seems to be different every time. Last month, I was having hot flashes left and right (happened when I got pregnant last) so I for sure thought I was until AF showed up.
So I feel like I am out for the count, but then again I feel like I really don't know my body anymore either. It is kinda frustrating. I feel different enough to where I think I might be, but at the same time I am use to my body playing mean tricks on me.

Oh I definitely understand. After I have birth in Sept, I felt like my normal AF symptoms were no more. I usually have sore boobs before AF but that changed. It's definitely frustrating. I know what u mean though, I was convinced my body was playing tricks on me but it turned out I was pregnant. You just never know until AF shows up...like you, I got sore breast and hot flashes. But what really told me, wasn't sinuses! They were and still are flared up ughhhh

 

[eyemom]

There was a lot I wanted to say tonight but I didn't end up with enough time. ;_; But wanted to pop in and say hi ladies. to you all.

 

[brunettebimbo]

How is everyone today?

AFM - Temperatures shot up again this morning. Cervix has moved down but still closed. Not holding my breath. I feel out.

 

[Left wonderin]

How is everyone today?

AFM - Temperatures shot up again this morning. Cervix has moved down but still closed. Not holding my breath. I feel out.

That chart is looking good

 

[brunettebimbo]

Thanks I really hope it's a good sign and not my body playing tricks!

 

[Kat S]

Could you imagine if we just took off and said right honey I'm off to the pub see you later

X

OMG please do that as soon as possible! I want you to report back the look on his face!!

 

[Calitronagrl]

So only got 3 more days to go before AF shows up. Hoping she stays away, but I am not holding my breath on it. I have been getting some pretty crazy symptoms this last week, but since I hardly had any hot flashes I am assuming I am out this month.

What symptoms do you have?

Well just some of the usual of being irritated, tender boobs, exhaustion. However, this past week I have been cramping on and off and I normally don't cramp until the night before or day of AF. When I first wake up, I have been feeling dizzy, nauseated, and dying of thirst. I feel pressure in my lower abdomen, when I take my first morning pee. My bowel movements are way more frequent. It is not diarrhea, but leaning more towards that way, along with stomach cramps. (TMI Stuff - Sorry - ) I get hot flashes, but only one here or there and it is when I am doing something so I think I am just out of shape. I just feel heavy and bloated.
I know I am not technically out until AF shows, but it seems like every month since my miscarriage my body just keeps doing weird things and it seems to be different every time. Last month, I was having hot flashes left and right (happened when I got pregnant last) so I for sure thought I was until AF showed up.
So I feel like I am out for the count, but then again I feel like I really don't know my body anymore either. It is kinda frustrating. I feel different enough to where I think I might be, but at the same time I am use to my body playing mean tricks on me.

Oh I definitely understand. After I have birth in Sept, I felt like my normal AF symptoms were no more. I usually have sore boobs before AF but that changed. It's definitely frustrating. I know what u mean though, I was convinced my body was playing tricks on me but it turned out I was pregnant. You just never know until AF shows up...like you, I got sore breast and hot flashes. But what really told me, wasn't sinuses! They were and still are flared up ughhhh

It is super frustrating. My first AF after my miscarriage I didn't have any symptoms. I just woke up and I had started. The next time around I had every symptom, including the hot flashes, but AF showed up. This time I am just like whatever on the symptoms. I am getting hot flashes more frequent, but it seems I can't rely on that anymore. It will be 31 days tomorrow for me and I am debating if I should test in the morning or not. DH thinks I should wait until Monday so I can possibly save a test. So I think I just might do as he asks.
I am sure AF will show and if it does then I am going back to what I use to do, which is diet and exercise. I dropped 20 pounds right before I got pregnant. Unfortunately, I gained most of it back since I got pregnant and miscarried. I am not sure if losing weight helped at all, but it will for sure give me something else to focus on then fretting over this TTC business.

 

[Calitronagrl]

Yup, so I am out for this month. AF came a day early, so it looks like my cycles are anywhere from 30-31 days now. Feel bad for the DH, I was an emotional wreck yesterday. At first I was so gosh darn moody and I couldn't understand why until AF showed up. I normally don't get the whole PMS mood swings, but I got them so bad this time around. Two times yesterday I was in a fit of rage that came out of no where and it ended with me bawling my eyes out. I pray that it will not become a normal occurrence or my DH and I will be having problems every month.
Think I am going to get back into working out so I can try and put my mind on other things if I can. I am starting to panic that I won't be able to get pregnant again and desperately need a distraction. So I made a goal to be able to fit back into this small black dress I have by the end of the year so I can wear it for our 5th anniversary. I figured if I do that then I will be bound to get pregnant soon so my planning is ruined yet again.
This thread has been quiet for the last few days, so I am hoping everyone is doing well. to all those who have yet to get their

 

[Unexpected212]

Sorry you are out. Got my fingers crossed for you that next cycle is your BFP cycle

 

[brunettebimbo]

Sorry your out FX for this cycle!

This thread is quiet!

 

[Unexpected212]

I thought it seemed quite quiet too

Hope everyone has had a nice weekend and that we hear more BFP news soon

 

[Mariahs Mom]

sorry you're out this month...Fx'd for u next cycle...

I was jus thinking to myself that it has been very quiet this weekend...lol i thought it was just me

I'm doing well. The baby seems to be doing well too...This baby is causing my sinuses to flare up lol...Congested, headache and sore throat EVERYDAY...but i will take anything if that means a healthy baby lol

 

[brunettebimbo]

Oooo I'm sinusy, sore throat, boobs and nipples sore and ridiculously hungry today! FX it's a good sign for me!

 

[Unexpected212]

Sniffly nose was one of my big signs in the 2 week wait.

 

[brunettebimbo]

Trying not to get my hopes up! If you look in my journal I have had quite a few symptoms. Charts looking ok too!

This was my BFP/Miscarriage chart so looking very similar!
https://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh70/kjordanj/DCF5E3EE-ABB6-4515-834A-AE3B6E3E0755_zpsd6fxexru.png