March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[brunettebimbo]

I had to stop myself commenting "at least your pregnant" on a friends FB status. She constantly moans about being tired, MS, being uncomfortable etc!

 

[Unexpected212]

It's all part of pregnancy. I'm just grateful to be pregnant I really am. I won't moan on Facebook when people know I'm pregnant because I know it can be insensitive.

One girl really annoys me she was slagging off the health service for making her have growth scans and she knows she has small babies, at least they Are keeping an eye of it. You hear of women being ignored etc and she's being offered all these extra scans to make sure she has a healthy baby and she's just constantly complaining on Facebook

Do you guys mind me posting the odd pregnancy thing on here? I didn't mean to complain about the morning sickness I just literally can't eat anything and I'm off work so it's really bad this time, didn't have it with my son at all

 

[brunettebimbo]

No not at all

 

[ESwemba84]

I don't mind either!

 

[Unexpected212]

Thanks. You ladies have been so lovely and supportive through everything. I'll probably update when I have each scan etc. I'll try not to mention symptoms and stuff cos I know it comes across moany. Really sorry. But I'll stay here to chat to you guys

Heres a question. When you are all pregnant and if you are pregnant now...are you going to find out the gender?

I'm stuck between finding out or staying team yellow

 

[brunettebimbo]

Yes I would

 

[nevergivingup]

Starry, that's wonderful! I'm so happy for you!

AF got me. Right in the middle of my work shift! Thanks a lot, nature.

Sorry ES. When mine come on my hubby calls me team lazy bc I'm a couch potatoe. This is your time to relax and get ready for a fresh new start!

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Ladies I definitely recognize how insensitive it can be to complain abt such a beautiful experience/ a blessing on social media, especially when there are others out there who have lost a child or having complications TTC. Since I went through it, it has made me so aware abt others and how much we take for granted! No woman ever imagines going through what we all went through. I wish that some ppl would get it through their thick skulls "It can all be taken away in a heartbeat"...Nothing is promised so let's cherish it and be mindful of how our actions may affect others...

Unexpected- I am definitely finding out the gender. DH, Sean, has no patience AT ALL haha. I do but I desperately want to know hehe

 

[nevergivingup]

Thanks. You ladies have been so lovely and supportive through everything. I'll probably update when I have each scan etc. I'll try not to mention symptoms and stuff cos I know it comes across moany. Really sorry. But I'll stay here to chat to you guys

Heres a question. When you are all pregnant and if you are pregnant now...are you going to find out the gender?

I'm stuck between finding out or staying team yellow

I don't mind either! I was so anxious with DS that I had to find out what he was I wanted to know so badly but with the next one I don't want to know until the D-day. But once I told DH about it he had to be the dream snatcher by saying "then the baby won't have any clothes bc we won't know what the gender will be and I'm not going out to shop at the last minute for it." Men......wish his sweet button was turned on all day instead of at random moments. How will you do it if you decided not to find out.

 

[nevergivingup]

Okay don't mean to post so much but having a off day my studies are consuming me to the point of I'm studying every minute of every day bc my family(DH DS) is depending on me.My DS has a awful cold bc my DH was in a sharing mood and passed it on to DS. So I'm fighting his cold plus he's cranky bc he's sick. I feel as if I absolutely have no physical friends I can talk to about everything. I go back in forth in my head trying to stay positive about it all. I've gained weight bc I just really stop caring. My old classmate died at 26 today of acquired immune deficiency syndrome . That hit home with me I have a Son who I have to protect even when he gets old from all these illnesses and bad people that's killing and kidnapping babies .My mom is ill mentally. My dad is abusive mentally and physically to her. My sister is yearning for children but can never get pregnant after her 1 m/c so I really don't want to talk to her about my DS developments in walking and talking. Bc it really brings her down. I pray everyday and ask for strength and peace and forgiveness if I offended anyone on my daily journey. But somehow I still feel down. I didn't mean to ramble but it seems today is a bad day and my mind is a but tired of running this through it all day so I needed to let it run somewhere else. Forgive me ladies for my private thoughts/venting ........Back to my studies...have a great day ladies or in my case pretend too bc others are watching

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Aww nevergivingup---I'm sorry to hear that you are having a bad day. Trust me I have them quite frequently myself over the years. We all need a little strength to get us through the struggles that each day may bring. We can only remain positive for so long, so it's ok to have a moment of weakness and get caught up in your thoughts. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate but just know that we are all your support system as well. One thing I have learned thru all my trails and tribulations, things will get better. Sometimes we are tested and pushed to the limit because we are strong and others depend on our strength....

Anytime you need to vent just write it out on this board so we can provide a shoulder for you to lean!!

 

[MamaTex]

Okay don't mean to post so much but having a off day my studies are consuming me to the point of I'm studying every minute of every day bc my family(DH DS) is depending on me.My DS has a awful cold bc my DH was in a sharing mood and passed it on to DS. So I'm fighting his cold plus he's cranky bc he's sick. I feel as if I absolutely have no physical friends I can talk to about everything. I go back in forth in my head trying to stay positive about it all. I've gained weight bc I just really stop caring. My old classmate died at 26 today of acquired immune deficiency disease. That hit home with me I have a Son who I have to protect even when he gets old from all these illnesses and bad people that's killing and kidnapping babies .My mom is ill mentally. My dad is abusive mentally and physically to her. My sister is yearning for children but can never get pregnant after her 1 m/c so I really don't want to talk to her about my DS developments in walking and talking. Bc it really brings her down. I pray everyday and ask for strength and peace and forgiveness if I offended anyone on my daily journey. But somehow I still feel down. I didn't mean to ramble but it seems today is a bad day and my mind is a but tired of running this through it all day so I needed to let it run somewhere else. Forgive me ladies for my private thoughts/venting ........Back to my studies...have a great day ladies or in my case pretend too bc others are watching

Wow. You have a lot to deal with girl. You aren't offending me. You are one of the bright lights of encouragement in this thread so it is odd to see you so down. Sorry things are a bit rough atm.



Hey to everyone!! I am going back through the pages reading up on what I have missed out on, so it will be a minute before I reply. Hope everyone is doing well.

 

[nevergivingup]

Aww nevergivingup---I'm sorry to hear that you are having a bad day. Trust me I have them quite frequently myself over the years. We all need a little strength to get us through the struggles that each day may bring. We can only remain positive for so long, so it's ok to have a moment of weakness and get caught up in your thoughts. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate but just know that we are all your support system as well. One thing I have learned thru all my trails and tribulations, things will get better. Sometimes we are tested and pushed to the limit because we are strong and others depend on our strength....

Anytime you need to vent just write it out on this board so we can provide a shoulder for you to lean!!

Thanks Mariah's mom It really feels good to have a listening ear that understands and can reply back positively I really needed that vent. Thank You for being here!!

 

[nevergivingup]

Okay don't mean to post so much but having a off day my studies are consuming me to the point of I'm studying every minute of every day bc my family(DH DS) is depending on me.My DS has a awful cold bc my DH was in a sharing mood and passed it on to DS. So I'm fighting his cold plus he's cranky bc he's sick. I feel as if I absolutely have no physical friends I can talk to about everything. I go back in forth in my head trying to stay positive about it all. I've gained weight bc I just really stop caring. My old classmate died at 26 today of acquired immune deficiency disease. That hit home with me I have a Son who I have to protect even when he gets old from all these illnesses and bad people that's killing and kidnapping babies .My mom is ill mentally. My dad is abusive mentally and physically to her. My sister is yearning for children but can never get pregnant after her 1 m/c so I really don't want to talk to her about my DS developments in walking and talking. Bc it really brings her down. I pray everyday and ask for strength and peace and forgiveness if I offended anyone on my daily journey. But somehow I still feel down. I didn't mean to ramble but it seems today is a bad day and my mind is a but tired of running this through it all day so I needed to let it run somewhere else. Forgive me ladies for my private thoughts/venting ........Back to my studies...have a great day ladies or in my case pretend too bc others are watching

Wow. You have a lot to deal with girl. You aren't offending me. You are one of the bright lights of encouragement in this thread so it is odd to see you so down. Sorry things are a bit rough atm.



Hey to everyone!! I am going back through the pages reading up on what I have missed out on, so it will be a minute before I reply. Hope everyone is doing well.

Thanks MamaTex. Lol unfortunately even for me life finds my weaknesses and preys on them but I am only human and even after all I went through with losing my babies you would think I would be tougher but I bleed just the same. Sorry i let you down but having yal ladies here to listen picked me up. Thanks!!

 

[mowat]

Sorry you're having a rotten day Never. You've got a ton going on and you're more than welcome to vent on this thread---we all do! Can you have a nice hot drink and go to bed early? Try to do something easy and nice for yourself---everyone else can look after themselves for the night!

Not sure what's going on with me, I think it might just be the progesterone talking, although I don't usually have symptoms from it this late in the cycle. Crazy sore boobs today, and cramping worse than pms. Hope this is something good, cause if it is I'll totally deal with the pain!

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Aww nevergivingup---I'm sorry to hear that you are having a bad day. Trust me I have them quite frequently myself over the years. We all need a little strength to get us through the struggles that each day may bring. We can only remain positive for so long, so it's ok to have a moment of weakness and get caught up in your thoughts. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate but just know that we are all your support system as well. One thing I have learned thru all my trails and tribulations, things will get better. Sometimes we are tested and pushed to the limit because we are strong and others depend on our strength....

Anytime you need to vent just write it out on this board so we can provide a shoulder for you to lean!!

Thanks Mariah's mom It really feels good to have a listening ear that understands and can reply back positively I really needed that vent. Thank You for being here!!

No problem...I'm just a click away

 

[ESwemba84]

Sorry never......sounds like you have a lot to deal with!

I would totally find out the gender! My friends waited. I'm too impatient, and need to know information!

 

[Calitronagrl]

So only got 3 more days to go before AF shows up. Hoping she stays away, but I am not holding my breath on it. I have been getting some pretty crazy symptoms this last week, but since I hardly had any hot flashes I am assuming I am out this month.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

So only got 3 more days to go before AF shows up. Hoping she stays away, but I am not holding my breath on it. I have been getting some pretty crazy symptoms this last week, but since I hardly had any hot flashes I am assuming I am out this month.

What symptoms do you have?

 

[eyemom]

Ugh it's so hard to see people complaining about pregnancy. I had one friend (acquaintance really) who complained about her oldest 2 boys all the time (she loves them but they are special needs/behavior issues), then announced she was pregnant (planned) with #3...due date was the day after my "angel's" due date. And she complained about MS a lot. One time I did post a comment about how I'd do anything to be having morning sickness at that time.... And she was really sweet and kind about it b/c she knew my situation and she is aware of some other people who are hurting with fertility issues or whatever. I know she needed the outlet b/c she dealt with a lot, but it still rubbed me the wrong way sometimes.

ES I think you deserve a day off from cleaning. Hope you took your time to relax today.

Unexpected I definitely do not mind you posting about what you're going through. I have admitted in the past and I will admit again, sometimes this thread is a lil hard for me because to add insult to injury, I somehow got dealt the infertility card after my loss. I spend most of my time here in the secondary infertility forum, so sometimes when I'm in this thread, I forget that some people don't really have trouble getting pregnant. But I am always happy to see happy updates, and it does my heart good to see you all doing well. Please stick around and don't feel like you have to walk on eggshells or anything. I want to keep cheering you on.

AFM, we found out the sex with my daughter, and we definitely want to know with any future pregnancy should we be blessed enough to have another! I can't handle suspense! And I like to be able to plan ahead as much as possible at least.

Never I'm sorry you're having a rough time. You really do have a lot on your plate. Like mamatex said, you are a shining light around here and always so quick to offer encouragment. Sorry you are down, but being strong doesn't mean the crappy stuff never gets you down. Being strong means you don't let it defeat you. This too shall pass dear. Hope things are looking up soon. Oh and don't apologize for venting. We all gotta vent sometimes. We are here for you.

mowat, really hope that means something good. Sounds promising!

Calitronagrl, you know your body best, but staying hopeful for you.

AFM, nothing to report. We've begun the every-other-day BD to make sure our bases are covered, but tonight's OPK was very clearly negative. It'll probably turn positive within the next 3 days, but who knows?? Never done a medicated cycle before. We shall see.