March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[nevergivingup]

Still jumping up and down for you EYE in excitement!!!!!! Hang in there baby, us gals are waiting on ya

 

[eyemom]

Ok so a couple of days after I got my bfp, we found out that DH's best friend and his wife (I am friends with them also) finally got pg also. They weren't ttc as long as us, but it did take longer this time and she was getting upset about it. So I was/am very, very excited. It's so special to have babies the same age. Their DS is 2 mos to the day younger than our DD, too. So I was/am so looking forward to being able to experience this together again.

I am worried though. She has been having some bleeding. She said it was kind of a lot on Tuesday, but it has since let up. She's also still sick a lot. She bled at first with her DS too, so I'm hopeful she's fine. But she has a Dr appt at 10:45 this morning and I can hardly stand it. I'm praying so hard that everything is fine. I don't think she could be much further along than me, if at all. So maybe 6 weeks max. So I don't know how much they'll see. I just really hope it all looks fine.

If they lose this one and we get to keep ours, how would I face them. I wouldn't want to hang out with a baby that would have been my baby's age.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Ok so a couple of days after I got my bfp, we found out that DH's best friend and his wife (I am friends with them also) finally got pg also. They weren't ttc as long as us, but it did take longer this time and she was getting upset about it. So I was/am very, very excited. It's so special to have babies the same age. Their DS is 2 mos to the day younger than our DD, too. So I was/am so looking forward to being able to experience this together again.

I am worried though. She has been having some bleeding. She said it was kind of a lot on Tuesday, but it has since let up. She's also still sick a lot. She bled at first with her DS too, so I'm hopeful she's fine. But she has a Dr appt at 10:45 this morning and I can hardly stand it. I'm praying so hard that everything is fine. I don't think she could be much further along than me, if at all. So maybe 6 weeks max. So I don't know how much they'll see. I just really hope it all looks fine.

If they lose this one and we get to keep ours, how would I face them. I wouldn't want to hang out with a baby that would have been my baby's age.

Thats so exciting that you girls are preg at the same time again!! Always good to have a preggo buddy...but I know exactly how u feel. When I was preg last time, DH's best friend's wife was preg as well. Then I lost my lil girl a month before her due date. When I went to see her and the baby in the hospital, I LOST IT. I felt so bad because I tried so hard to be strong and not have her feel awkward. After that she was great and cried with me because she knew it was hard for me to come and she appreciated it so much...

All I can say is, if she loses the baby just be there. Don't shy away or feel awkward around them. Just continue to be a supportive and considerate friend! Also, just follow their lead, let her tell u when she feels uncomfortable or when it's getting too much. I have my Fx'd for both of you guys!

 

[Left wonderin]

Eye hopefully you won't have to cross that bridge . And sorry how cute is the nickname "baby eye" Awh .....

 

[mowat]

I was pregnant at the same time as a friend when I ended up having my last miscarriage. It's hard because our boys are the same age so we often have play dates. The first time I met her new baby she just handed him to me when she was getting her jacket off. I'm glad she did---somehow her not being weird made it a lot easier.

 

[Starry Night]

I was pregnant at the same time as a friend when I ended up having my last miscarriage. It's hard because our boys are the same age so we often have play dates. The first time I met her new baby she just handed him to me when she was getting her jacket off. I'm glad she did---somehow her not being weird made it a lot easier.

Something similar shortly after my m/c in fall 2012. A friend had a baby shortly after my m/c and on our way to see her, I told DH I would not ask to hold the baby. We got there and after I sat down she just walked up and plopped the baby in my lap before I could say anything and she carried on the conversation like nothing weird or unusual just happened. The baby was so cute and felt so nice in my arms that I realized it wasn't so bad after all.

eye, I do hope your friend's baby is OK. I started bleeding very early in my son's pregnancy...probably around 5 weeks and it wasn't light either. It wasn't super heavy but more like a light to moderate period. So definitely more than spotting. It came from a clot which isn't good/ideal but not impossible to get around either.

And I think "baby eye" is going to have to stick as the nickname around here. Too cute!

 

[eyemom]

Thanks ladies. I think DH's best friend is supposed to text him at some point. They have to know something even if that "something" is inconclusive at this point. But we haven't heard anything and we don't want to bug them to ask.

Since she's had this before with a successful pregnancy, and her MS isn't letting up at all, I'm hopeful that it's okay. I'm so nervous. I don't want them to have to go down this road too.

 

[Pinkcasi]

Hey ladies!

So sorry I've been Mia but life just sorta got in the way, I haven't read back as I've missed waaay too much but congrats eye that's fantastic news!!! Lefty you had your little prince, is he just gorg?!? It all went well and your settling into it?

I hope everyone is well, if someone fancies giving me a brief update of the main headlines that'd be wicked as I really don't have time to read 500 pages lol

Everything's great with me, Stella's doing fab growing into her own little character as feb passes I think of what shoulda been my first born they would have been 2 in feb so it's really wonderful to be a part of Stella's new exciting world.

Xx

 

[eyemom]

Hi Pink I'd been thinking of you, thanks for popping in. Glad to see you're doing great.

 

[eyemom]

My friend is actually 7+5, still pregnant, got some meds to help baby stay sticky. So far so good. Phew.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

My friend is actually 7+5, still pregnant, got some meds to help baby stay sticky. So far so good. Phew.

Oh that's great news

 

[Laelani]

Hey ladies, how is everyone? I know it's been pretty heartbreaking recently on this thread and I just want to say I'm sorry and express condolences for your little angels. I hope all of our little angels are looking over us and playing together!!!!

I have to get a cerclage, which is a procedure to stitch my cervix shut to prevent it from shortening and subsequently opening prematurely like it did last time at 24 weeks. There are some risk associated with the procedure but my doctor said they are very rare. The risk goes down drastically if you get the procedure done between the 14th & 16th week, so I'm having it done next Wednesday on my BDAY...goodie haha...I hope everything goes well.

Best of luck Mariahs Mom!!!! Will be thinking of you!

Had a private us yesterday no hb so it's mc 4 will be off for a while

I am so sorry!

Just a little pregnancy update from me, sorry if it's insensetive I just don't have many people to talk to in real life about it so:

Got my quad test (down syndrome test) results back today and they were 1 in 3900 so I'm happy with that.

Got my gender scan with a 4D peek next Tuesday

So that's where I'm at .

Thinking of you all xx

That's wonderful news!!! So happy for you!!!

AFM - I am still pregnant so that's good. As long as I can stay pregnant the next two weeks I will pass my miscarriage date from last year. That will make me happy. I go for my gender scan on May 26th! The doctors have said that everything looks great and things should continue to stay that way. Could not be happier.

 

[mowat]

Hi Pink!

 

[Sweetz33]

Just popping in to say I will be taking an undetermined leave of absence from BNB and most social media sites...

My father collapsed the other day and was rushed to the ER. His cancer has spread and they aspirated his lung and the fluid they found is possibly cancerous as well. He is now in in-home hospice. My heart is absolutely shattered to pieces right now. Besides having the wonderful emotional roller coaster of pregnancy, I now am dealing with this as well and I am trying everything within my power not to lose it completely. DH is being very supportive and wonderful so you don't need to worry about me, he is taking very good care of me, our son and our future son. I am waiting on word from the docs if I can travel so I can say my goodbyes in person, if I can't it will be done over facetime/skype....either way I am an emotional wreck.

IDK who prays and who doesn't here, but please (if you don't mind) do whatever it is that you do for my family....we can use all the help we can get right now. I love all you ladies very much, and you are all family to me as well...yes even you new ladies who I don't know as well as others.

I wish everyone the best and happiness everyday of their lives...and I am sorry that I am coming in with bad news... If you want my email I will gladly give it to you, as that is the only communication I will be using besides text...

TY ladies for all your support over the past year plus. Y'all helped me through some really shitastic times and I will forever be grateful.

xoxoxoxoxo

 

[brunettebimbo]

Sweetz I'm so so sorry

Hi Pink

 

[ab75]

Take care sweetz xx

 

[floridamomma]

I will be praying sweets

 

[Unexpected212]

I will pray sweetz and keep you and your family in my thoughts. Will miss you on here but I totally understand xxx

 

[Unexpected212]

Lalelani - So glad to hear things are going well

Pink - Lovely to see you popping in and to hear things are going well for you. I'm 16.5 weeks pregnant now and finding out the gender on tuesday

Eye- So glad to hear your friend is ok x

 

[ESwemba84]

Florida.....I'm so sorry. That's how my MMC was discovered. I had my NT scan at 12 weeks, and there was no heart beat. So sad.

Sweets, I'm sorry about your father. I hope your family finds peace and strength to get through all of this....

Eye....things will be ok if your friend loses hers. Maybe not right away, but they will be. I promise.

Unexpected....I don't ever want you to feel like your posts on here mentioning positive pregnancy updates are insensitive. I don't mind at all, and the positive posts give us LTTTCers that good things do come after a storm! Post away!

Never...oh yes, I'm still eating! I'm also being a lot more active and have a job where I'm constantly moving and lifting and standing. It all helps!

AFM, 2 weeks until my 30th bday, 3 weeks until my hysteroscopy, and 4 weeks until we move into our new condo! Yikes! Lots of exciting things going on!