Unexpected212
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I'm so sorry for your loss
*hugs* thinking of you x
*hugs* thinking of you x
Had a private us yesterday no hb so it's mc 4 will be off for a while
I'm here...will go back and catch up soon. Hiding a little too but stalking like mad! ;-)
1st IUI didn't work out for us. Very upset and sad about it but trying to just move on and remain hopeful for the future. We'll get our baby someday.
HUGS to all of you for your support for us this cycle.![]()
ttcmoon - I remember you. I'm sorry to hear the IUI failed and that you're going to need IVF. I hope all the necessary pieces come together quickly so you aren't kept waiting too long. It's such a tough journey.
mariah - good luck with your procedure. I hope it goes well and is just what you need to keep your rainbow safe. I've known people who had it done and it seems to work.
floridamomma -
Mrs W - I'm sorry you're feeling so low. It definitely is a tough journey. It's so hard to wait for that next bfp. It usually takes me several months for my body to self-regulate after a loss and it is such a painful reminder that my body has failed me. It's a very tough lesson in patience especially since every day feels like an eternity. Hang in there. I hope life throws in some brighter days to help make this journey more bearable.
brunette - no, you never forget. Sometimes I think the strength comes once you've made it through the other side -- either with a rainbow or the acceptance of what has happened. Until then, it's just survival mode and that's OK too.
afm - thanks for the kind words, everyone. I'm actually doing pretty OK overall but sometimes the feelings come back. I do feel some closure about my losses now but I'll never stop missing them. I'm having my first-ever normal "boring" pregnancy. It's what I prayed for but the lack of extra medical attention leaves me alone with my thoughts. I am assuming this baby is going to come but I still worry at the same time. I still only take one week at a time as looking ahead feels like "pushing my luck". I worry because I know if baby were to come now, as far as I am, that it would be touch-and-go and there could be potential problems. So it's still scary. I have to CHOOSE to be positive and I do make that choice. It's just not an easy one.
Had a private us yesterday no hb so it's mc 4 will be off for a while
Just a little pregnancy update from me, sorry if it's insensetive I just don't have many people to talk to in real life about it so:
Got my quad test (down syndrome test) results back today and they were 1 in 3900 so I'm happy with that.
Got my gender scan with a 4D peek next Tuesday
So that's where I'm at .
Thinking of you all xx
Just a little pregnancy update from me, sorry if it's insensetive I just don't have many people to talk to in real life about it so:
Got my quad test (down syndrome test) results back today and they were 1 in 3900 so I'm happy with that.
Got my gender scan with a 4D peek next Tuesday
So that's where I'm at .
Thinking of you all xx
Congratulations,thats good news.
What do you think you are having?? Xx
Hi ladies I'm just popping in. So sorry I haven't been able to keep up last few days. My heart is with those who have gotten bad news.I wish I could teleport to you and give you all hugs and cook your dinners or something. Love to you all.
Welcome to new ladies, sorry you find yourselves here, but I pray you get your rainbows soon.
AFM, nothing to report, but I guess no news is good news so far. If I can make it through this weekend still pregnant, I'll be doing better than I did last time.