Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

[Wiggler]

awww!

 

[mummy3]

Brandi

New Go George!!

My 2 eldest are officially grounded lol, Freja tried to play hairdresser on Ruaridh Eilidh has decided she'll sleep but on mummy not in her cot, not so helpful with 3 other kids

 

[BrandiCanucks]

He still wouldn't listen and he wouldn't admit anything to the police, so they can't take him to the hospital. They have, at my request, removed him from the house though and are taking him elsewhere. I've told him not to come home until he sees someone. I hate to do it to my kids, but I feel like it's necessary, and since he admitted that his anger and depression is escalating, the police have agreed it is for the best.

 

[new_to_ttc]

no little miss not helpful when mummy has 3 kids and a wannabe hair dresser

 

[new_to_ttc]

brandi

 

[mummy3]

Brandi Thats got to be so hard

 

[BrandiCanucks]

If he needs clothes or something, I will gladly leave it on the porch for him, but he will not come in this house or see the kids until he agrees to get some help.

 

[harveydog]

Brandi

New Go George!!

My 2 eldest are officially grounded lol, Freja tried to play hairdresser on Ruaridh Eilidh has decided she'll sleep but on mummy not in her cot, not so helpful with 3 other kids

I thought ruaridh didn't have any hair left after cutting it himself lol
hope eilidh feels better soon mummy

 

[harveydog]

If he needs clothes or something, I will gladly leave it on the porch for him, but he will not come in this house or see the kids until he agrees to get some help.

brandi I hope he seeks help soon, maybe this will push him in the right direction to get help, especially if it's for attention like his mom thinks he does it for not being able to see the kids should make him realise he has a problem that needs help. If I were you I'd let him see the kids for short periods as a reward for obtaining help, thats if he does

 

[harveydog]

New- You may have a little break dancer there lol
way to go George!
I think you need to tease/encourage him a little to motivate George to move lol. I use aarons bottle to motivate him, but how do you discourage once they get super fast at moving without the encouragement

Hubby's taken Aaron up to bed as he fell asleep after a very long fight, I don't know why he's started fighting his sleep he can feel himself going to sleep so elbows his way to sitting up, bugs Harvey, claps hands etc and repeats this several times anyways it's hubby's turn to get up during the night, even if I have to elbow him

I think we are going out tomorrow night not sure where, maybe a meal or with some friends but I haven't been out for what seems like an age, whilst hubby's been out a few times!

 

[BrandiCanucks]

If he seeks helps and starts going, then gladly, I will allow supervised visits, but until he seeks help, he's not seeing them.

 

[mummy3]

Yay for getting a night off and a night out Harvey Not sure about the fighting sleep really, my lot have done it from around that age until they are able to go to bed themselves Theres just so much interesting things for them, maybe try taking him to a room where there's less going on before he goes to bed? Or make your living room darker and tv quieter, dont engage him too much, allow him to calm down a little

Hope he gets the help Brandi!

Ruaridhs hair is growing back but he now has a reddish brown splodge on top of his head

 

[harveydog]

If he seeks helps and starts going, then gladly, I will allow supervised visits, but until he seeks help, he's not seeing them.

I hope he see's sense soon brandi for the kids sake if no one elses do you think his mother will talk some sense into him?

 

[BrandiCanucks]

No, he won't tell the whole story, just that I called the police, and she'll agree with him and baby him as always.

 

[harveydog]

Yay for getting a night off and a night out Harvey Not sure about the fighting sleep really, my lot have done it from around that age until they are able to go to bed themselves Theres just so much interesting things for them, maybe try taking him to a room where there's less going on before he goes to bed? Or make your living room darker and tv quieter, dont engage him too much, allow him to calm down a little

Hope he gets the help Brandi!

Ruaridhs hair is growing back but he now has a reddish brown splodge on top of his head

Thanks mummy, I think I'll try that! I wish I could do it in his room but it's teeny, I'm starting to seriously think about changing his room to the double bed room and making his single room into a guest room, especially to accommodate all his toys!

Sorry but I cant help but laugh at ruaridh new hairstyle lol

Oh I'm not out yet so anything may change, I've learnt with hubby that you don't count on anything until it happens unless he's going out with the lads then you can't see him for dust MEN!

 

[harveydog]

No, he won't tell the whole story, just that I called the police, and she'll agree with him and baby him as always.

Now your back to square one with his family! MEN I honestly think they don't ever grow up and act like adults, especially when mammys around! You be strong and stick to your guns for the kids sake

 

[mummy3]

Eilidh just had a huge pooplosion so went bath at least wasnt over my rug this time..

Harvey, lol yeah kids take over a lot of room Hope you get your night out hun

Men and their mothers

 

[heyyady]

Brandi- Stick to your guns, and be safe!

Don't even get me started on my husband and his mother.

Mummy- What in the world do you feed those children? There seems to be POO everywhere!!!

 

[BrandiCanucks]

I'm trying. It was hard seeing my kids cry at bedtime because Daddy wasn't coming in to say goodnight, so I offered to call him for them to say goodnight, and he refused to answer

 

[mummy3]

Heyy, there is poo everywhere With the lurgy her poop stinks too! Hows everyone feeling where you are?

Brandi Thats awful he doesn't want to speak to the kids

Its 7 10pm here and all 4 kids in bed for now