I'm not doing any big announcement or anything, I have been through so much the last 3 years I just want to keep everything low key. After I get past 12 weeks I will just tell people as and when I speak to them or if it becomes relevant. I need to tell all my clients (who will be affected by my leave) before they find out from third parties, and I can't tell clients until I have cover arranged for them for next year when I will be on mat leave, so I will need to spend some time talking to work colleagues about who can pick up what, which will take a few weeks. Also it is my son's birthday about the same time as first tri ends and I don't want everyone talking about the new baby when it is his special time. I am not planning to tell my son until I can't hide it, so another reason not to make any announcements as I don't want him overhearing or being told by someone else. I don't want him to know too soon, in case anything goes wrong and also because he doesn't really have much concept of time so telling him and then expecting him to wait 6 months will be difficult for us all!
So maybe a bit bah humbug but I'm not one for the big reveal anyway, I won't be having a baby shower, didn't with my son, not really something we do here in North West UK anyway to be honest. And I have everything I need.
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I'm having an ultrasound at 2pm today, I'm 8 weeks. Keeping everything crossed that there will be a heartbeat... X