InHisHands
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Thanks Bea. I do realize that some of that stuff is comfort wants due to being solo during baby's first year and that they aren't needed. If others don't buy those items, we won't either but it doesn't hurt to ask.
I also realize that there are a lot of people out there who don't adequately (imo) take care of their children and just plop them by a tv and not spend their day talking to and doing things with their kiddos and thus may not need some of the things i want (due to not intending to use them).
And then again there is personal experience as well. I worked at a place taking care of 6weeks-18monthers. I was there for about 14 months and realized how handy some of those things really were. It was 1 adult for every 5 kiddos and they would put 4 adults and 20 kids into one room. Needless to say we had our hands full, but i'm really glald i had that experience to know what type of diapers i prefer, and some other things as well.
Glad to know i didn't miss anything on my list teehee Oh and btw thanks for the suggestion on the double breast pump. The only reason why i wanted double is because i plan to express more than breast feed. I have a serious hang up of having a baby suck on my boobs. Just doesn't feel right to me and would feel more comfortable expressing as soon as possible (i've heard to establish a good milk supply that you should breast feed for the first 6 weeks before expressing... but im still looking into that).
As far as my bonding post goes... how are you and Nic bonding with your little one? Any jitters (what if i don't know im not doing something right and end up hurting or killing my little one), any hang ups (like me saying the name outloud)?
I also realize that there are a lot of people out there who don't adequately (imo) take care of their children and just plop them by a tv and not spend their day talking to and doing things with their kiddos and thus may not need some of the things i want (due to not intending to use them).
And then again there is personal experience as well. I worked at a place taking care of 6weeks-18monthers. I was there for about 14 months and realized how handy some of those things really were. It was 1 adult for every 5 kiddos and they would put 4 adults and 20 kids into one room. Needless to say we had our hands full, but i'm really glald i had that experience to know what type of diapers i prefer, and some other things as well.
Glad to know i didn't miss anything on my list teehee Oh and btw thanks for the suggestion on the double breast pump. The only reason why i wanted double is because i plan to express more than breast feed. I have a serious hang up of having a baby suck on my boobs. Just doesn't feel right to me and would feel more comfortable expressing as soon as possible (i've heard to establish a good milk supply that you should breast feed for the first 6 weeks before expressing... but im still looking into that).
As far as my bonding post goes... how are you and Nic bonding with your little one? Any jitters (what if i don't know im not doing something right and end up hurting or killing my little one), any hang ups (like me saying the name outloud)?