cbear
Mummy to Aidan
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firstly, Merry Christmas!!
This year we are going to the in laws for lunch but i'm not looking forward to sitting with my MIL making small talk after what she said to me on Tuesday.
I offered to get some shopping for her and she said that the cat litter was too heavy and i shouldn't lift it so she would get it. My OH then mentioned that i was moving a bed the other day (taking it steady) and she turned to me and said "It's a wonder you didn't have a miscarriage". I felt awful, still do. I feel like I'm not good enough to be the mother of HER grandchildren sometimes with the things she says. I know it's not a terrible thing to say, but I think it was unnecessary.
Thanks for listening, i just had to get it out of my system before i sit round the dinner table with her.
Claire xx
This year we are going to the in laws for lunch but i'm not looking forward to sitting with my MIL making small talk after what she said to me on Tuesday.
I offered to get some shopping for her and she said that the cat litter was too heavy and i shouldn't lift it so she would get it. My OH then mentioned that i was moving a bed the other day (taking it steady) and she turned to me and said "It's a wonder you didn't have a miscarriage". I felt awful, still do. I feel like I'm not good enough to be the mother of HER grandchildren sometimes with the things she says. I know it's not a terrible thing to say, but I think it was unnecessary.
Thanks for listening, i just had to get it out of my system before i sit round the dinner table with her.
Claire xx