Miscarried.....
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Dee_H
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So sorry to hear about your loss. Unfortunately my husband and I are going through the exact same thing...we lost our baby this week at 12 weeks after a very long time opf trying. It had to be the worst thing we have ever encountered in our lives so far. It seems unfair and you are probably questioning many things. If you plan to wait to try again...that is your choice and totally understandable....who wants to go through all that again. We have decided to wait for my cycle to get back on track before we try again...but within the next two months. I need to look at it like falling off a bike...I need to get back on and try again. This is something we wanted and still want. I realize there is always a chance of it happening again but I guess that is a chance we are willing to take. I wish you well and even though I don't know you , I want you to know if you would like to contact me to talk or vent I am here and feel your pain.
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I am so sorry
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I am sorry
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im so sorry hun
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I am so sorry. I know exactly how you are feeling and I want you to know how sorry I am and that the emotions you are feeling are totally normal. I had a miscarriage starting Tuesday of last week, I passed my baby naturally on Thursday morning, and I stopped bleeding yesterday, Sunday. This has been the worst week of my life and I am so glad that it has finally come to an end. You will make it through this. Let yourself grieve as much as possible. If you can, take some days off of work. I read online about others who had miscarried and the stories really gave me strength, realizing that I was not alone and others were going through the same thinga nd had made it through. If you need to talk please PM me. I am still going through the grieving process, but I know that it will get easier.
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Britt, I am soooo sorry. Words cannot express how deeply I am hurt for you. I had the same exact thing happen to me last year around this time. I got so excited and even made the mistake of telling alot of people out of sheer excitement. A week later, I was told that the pregnancy was not viable after blleding heavily for two days. It broke my heart. I had a very hard time dealing with it because I chose to be angry and refused to talk to anyone about how I was feeling. DH didnt even want to try again for a while because of how crushed I was.
I have to admit I was pretty bad. I stopped caring how I looked, didnt want to leave the house, even made up how bad I was physically feeling to my bosses to get out of going back to work for two weeks.
The pain is still with me, and the thought of having it happen to me again terrifies me greatly. But, I also want this so badly that I know the only thing I can do is hope and pray and find the stregthn in myself to forge through the fear.
If you EVER need anyone to talk to, please feel free to PM me and I will give you my email address. I know what you are going through, and when you are ready, it really does help talking to someone who understands.
I wish you the best, and don't forget that it is ok to give yourself time to heal.
- April
Edited to also include Tiffers in on this offer because I just now read what you wrote and am deeply sorry for your loss as well. This is one of the hardest things to have to go through and it breaks my heart each time I hear it happened to yet another woman. I hope you can find comfort in your friends here.
I have to admit I was pretty bad. I stopped caring how I looked, didnt want to leave the house, even made up how bad I was physically feeling to my bosses to get out of going back to work for two weeks.
The pain is still with me, and the thought of having it happen to me again terrifies me greatly. But, I also want this so badly that I know the only thing I can do is hope and pray and find the stregthn in myself to forge through the fear.
If you EVER need anyone to talk to, please feel free to PM me and I will give you my email address. I know what you are going through, and when you are ready, it really does help talking to someone who understands.
I wish you the best, and don't forget that it is ok to give yourself time to heal.
- April
Edited to also include Tiffers in on this offer because I just now read what you wrote and am deeply sorry for your loss as well. This is one of the hardest things to have to go through and it breaks my heart each time I hear it happened to yet another woman. I hope you can find comfort in your friends here.
