Miserable

[Vickie]

Hmm maybe he just feels pressure and doesn't feel up to "performing". I really don't know but I hope you can get it sorted with him

 

[loopylew]

me too!!!!! not discussing it is the way forward i think

 

[shadowsilk]

dont feel bad i have two kids and am desperate for another although my husband expressed he DOESNT want another so I feel bad too;

 

[NeyNey]

We had this issue last cycle, and in fact last year we went through a spell of it too. This cycle I don't plan on telling DH when I'm about to O, I will just make BD a surprise, although I'm sure he'll click on, but without me saying "Oh we need to BD tonight btw" it might not be to mechanical for us.

I think it's best not to go into too much detail with our DH's, I think they are on a need to know basis lol

 

[loopylew]

Thanks girls im definately gonna try that approach of not telling him we need to BD and let him think im just "up for it", i think that what is is when i say we need to BD tonight etc. Managed to BD ast night so there might still be a chance, i didn't mention it at all yesterday and he seemed ok

 

[Angelica]

Hi Loopy! Hope ur ok?
I agree with the others & think u should try not to mention it. Instead when u know its time to bd then use some of ur female charm to excite him & get him interested..
Nothing a few games & sexy lingerie cant sort out!! And it will put the fun back into it!

Good luck

 

[loopylew]

yeah definately, not gonna mention technical side of things at all

 

[Tiffers]

Sorry you are having a tough time right now hun.

 

[loopylew]

you too hun xx hope your beginning to feel better