LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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I'm getting married next month and so my brain is constantly thinking about the future and babies at the moment. I've wanted to start a family for a long time now but our money situation has never been right. It still isn't perfect but while I think we'd manage the OH doesn't. He's talking about waiting at least another year or two.
I do feel like I've been getting a little bit of mixed messages from him about starting a family lately. One day he's talking about it like what will be will be and then the next hes saying how we aren't ready for it.
We've always used condoms but lately he's been hinting at stopping using them and just pulling out. We are both completely aware that this is not a full proof method. I told him to wait until after our honeymoon before doing that as I'm not stupid and I know accidents can happen. Is it wrong of me to hope for a little slip-up not long after we're married? I don't want to have to keep waiting for even more years!
I do feel like I've been getting a little bit of mixed messages from him about starting a family lately. One day he's talking about it like what will be will be and then the next hes saying how we aren't ready for it.
We've always used condoms but lately he's been hinting at stopping using them and just pulling out. We are both completely aware that this is not a full proof method. I told him to wait until after our honeymoon before doing that as I'm not stupid and I know accidents can happen. Is it wrong of me to hope for a little slip-up not long after we're married? I don't want to have to keep waiting for even more years!