It helps so much having you ladies here--The only ones I can confide in. DH was really sweet about what he said he told his sister as she didn't want to tell me she was expecting (And honestly it isn't that I didn't want to know---just not this early---early announcements are very sensitive as I waited 10 weeks and until after we heard the heart beat to tell most everyone--we were cautious but still had the unthinkable happen)--anyways he told her, "don't worry you can tell her--she wants a baby as much as the next girl, but she will still be happy for you". He then went on to tell me he doesn't agree with what she is doing as she doesn't take care of the one she has (not that she doesn't care for her daughter--his sister just requires everyones help with her as she seems to need a lot of "mommy time" breaks for herself). At least he thinks I will be a good mommy for a 2nd time : )