I might have mentioned this before, but it may help. One of my good friends who has a daughter Edie's age fell pregnant with her second. Like us, she couldn't imagine having a son at all, and assumed she would have another girl. She secretly hoped for another girl too. At her 20 week scan she discovered she was having a boy, and although she was pleased - it took her a good while to get her head around it. I can't say she was disappointed because that makes her sound bad, and she isn't. But she had 20 weeks to think how life would be with a boy. I also secretly hoped for another girl. I'm one of 3 girls, my cousins are mainly girls, I couldn't imagine buying boys clothes, having toy fire engines etc rather than princesses, football rather than ballet - you get my drift. Anyway after my super quick delivery I was handed a beautiful boy, and once I had asked the midwife what to do with his willy while putting his nappy on - I was thrilled because it was love at first sight. Incidentally my friend felt just the same once her son is born. Fili may disagree as I know she has had a different experience but my advice is, if you have a slight gender preference, don't find out because once that baby is in your arms and you look into its little face you will feel like you have known that face all your life.