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Ds just had an EPIC meltdown not wanting to eat his dinner (not helped by my dh losing his temper) and after what took me forever to calm down I was talking to ds about what happened. He told me he didnt want to grow up as he liked his number (3) and didnt want to be 4 😢
I kind of said something along the lines of, sometimes its hard growing up but you dont know if you dont like 4 because you havent tried it yet...
I dont feel like I handled it very well or said anything very helpful or comforting. I asked what he was worried about being 4 but all hed say was he liked his own number.
What would you have said?? How else can I stop him worrying about being 4? I dont want him to be sad on his birthday.
I kind of said something along the lines of, sometimes its hard growing up but you dont know if you dont like 4 because you havent tried it yet...
I dont feel like I handled it very well or said anything very helpful or comforting. I asked what he was worried about being 4 but all hed say was he liked his own number.
What would you have said?? How else can I stop him worrying about being 4? I dont want him to be sad on his birthday.