Sunflower last time you were ttc you said he wasn't on the same page so maybe you can talk to him and see if he wants what you want. Maybe he's also scared because of the mc.
experience is the best teacher for sure. At first I was frustrated with my hubby but I saw things from his side and observed him whenever I talked about ovulation , "bding" not just fun sex, anything to do with ttc just turned him OFF. So I stopped talking or discussing anything whatsoever about ttc with him and it worked. Now it's all he can talk about. If I were you, I'd do the same and when you get your bfp he'll be happy.