My First Response Ovulation Test

[abagailb14]

I think that it's hard for men to understand how it feels sunflower, mine never wanted to talk about it after my mc. He told me later that he was just holding back his feelings because he wanted to be strong for me since I was such a wreck over it. Maybe yours is doing the same?

 

[sunflower82]

Maybe Abigail but honestly I'm missing my
Baby so much I keep trying to keep my mind
Off but it's so hard how u doing?

 

[Forrest]

Hi Abagail, how are you? I agree with you. Men are like that.... it's a guy thing! "
My dh had dreams of him holding a baby and knowing its ours and he was so happy but he never told me until after I got my bfp. He said he kept it in because he didn't want to upset me etc.

 

[Forrest]

Today I met a girl I've known for years and I asked her if she already had her baby (because last I saw, her belly was huge) . She calmly said A few months ago she lost her baby at almost 6months. I felt so bad for her and that I had hurt her but she said she cried for a few days and she's ok now. I know - she's tough or she's crazy!
Dr's found out that her baby had some deformities so she chose the option to induce labour and terminate the pregnancy. She said it's good she found out then and didn't want to bring a child in the world to suffer. She is one tough cookie.
Afm I blamed myself a lot when I mc but soon remembered that when the fetus is not normal (when something is wrong from the beginning) the uterus contracts and removes it. I don't know how she keeps it together. If was me I would be devastated!

 

[Forrest]

Yay Forrest! Glad to hear your appointment went well and everything looks good

Thanks Abagail. I forgot to mention that the estimated due date in now January 2nd 2014.
as the time goes we'll know for sure so I'm not grounded on that yet and I'll be having csection anyways so it will be scheduled.

How are you doing? How is Olivia?

 

[Forrest]

Sunflower sorry that you're feeling so sad. I guess it's ok to miss and cry too. It's better than keeping it inside and getting ill. If your hubby is not there for you and isn't comforting you, doesn't care about your feelings (to ttc again soon) . Then maybe you should get some counselling/advice. It's your choice. I just want what's good for you so you won't be so sulky all the time. It's not healthy.

 

[sunflower82]

Hi Forrest that's indeed sad I hope your
Friend gets pregnant soon again yes she
Is strong

 

[Forrest]

Good night

 

[Forrest]

Hi Forrest that's indeed sad I hope your
Friend gets pregnant soon again yes she
Is strong

She said she's not ready, maybe in a few years or so because her relationship isn't good and he doesn't treat her the way he should so she doesn't want a baby with him. If he doesn't change, she's going to leave him.etc
After my mc I wanted to wait atleast 9 months for my inside to heal properly (to avoid further complications) but I couldn't wait to get my bfp again.

 

[sunflower82]

Yes Forrest I'm not asking my hubby to
Start ttc right away I want to wait a few
Months but not sure when hubby will be
Ready

 

[Forrest]

Sunflower that's great.. healing is important both physically and emotionally. I'm sure your dream was a sign. Telling you that your future holds another baby for sure. Fx for you.

 

[sunflower82]

Hi ladies how are you doing today? Ladies
At night the past two days I have trouble sleeping
I keep thinking about how my mc happened I just
Can't forget about it I just feel so lost

 

[Forrest]

Hi sunflower, so sorry you're having such a hard time. Did your Dr tell you what caused the mc?

 

[sunflower82]

No they don't know what caused the mc
As I never told them to do testing on the
Baby

 

[Forrest]

Usually if something is wrong with the fetus, chromosomal issues etc....then the uterus detaches the fetus and your body rejects is. That's what causes a mc. You can ask a doctor to explain it better. When I understood this, I had stopped being so upset about my mc.

 

[Forrest]

Maybe you can take sometime to grieve your loss and cry as much as you can, it's ok to do so.
After that mourning /grieving time is over then you should try to pull yourself together.

 

[Forrest]

I guess jtink had her baby by now...I hope all is well with her.

 

[Forrest]

Goodnight Abagail, sunflower and kitta

 

[sunflower82]

Yes I just want to see jtinks baby's pic
Good night Forrest abagail and kitta

 

[Forrest]

Kitta how are you? How is your treatment coming along.? I wish you all the best.
Abagail how are you?
sunflower how are you? Hope you're doing better.
Afm I had a lot of lower back pain since last evening and even belly pain, not cramps but pain and discomfort so I was quite worried about it. I'm doing better now but still having discomfort.