Thank ladies for the support. Ok here so maybe this is just stupid but thats the way i feel
OH is great sometimes, does the washing cooking, cleaning etc. But anyways he went off to soccer today at 12 noon was due back at 6 which he was. But anyways LO has a servere throat infection since fri and is in really bad form. I had to cope with her all day. When OH gets home he goes to the bathroom and then reaches to pick LO up i just said in passing you didn't wash your hands after coming from the bathroom then he went fucking mental banging the doors and nealy took the door off the dishwasher and when was fecking and giving out about that he was just about do it. That i am constally watching him. For fuck sake you wash your hands before you come out of the bathroom. He was fecking this, fecking that infont of our LO and i can not stand it. Its hard enough when she is sick never mind having to put up with this kinda shit. You don't argue infront of your kids. That all ladies, with LO been sick i am just extra careful