my mum and Dad came over yesterday, they are absolutely besotted with LO, but Mum is a Psychotherapist so has very strong views on the importance of early childhood, and I to believe that the way children are treated and loved has a strong bearing on how they turn out. But anyway some of her comments have started to upset me, I am weaning LO as she is nearly 7 months and I started weaning just before xmas, she is now on 3 meals a day and I am giving her 3 bf and one bottle ( the reason for the bottle is I can't feed LO in public anymore as she is so nosy and looks around therefore exposing me to everyone - and also I am going to be doing some keep in touch days at lwork over the next couple of months so my OH needs to be able to feed her) My mum sad my LO looked sad and she thinks it is due to me cutting back on bf, but imo she was just a little bit tired when they arrived and then perked up once she had had some milk and a sleep. She also said that LO might ignore me after I come back from work tomorrow as she will feel abandoned, but she will be with her daddy all day and I will see her when I finish work at 4 so a good few hours before bed. Anyway this has made me feel really guilty about cutting back on bf and doing these keep in touch days at work ( although I thought it would be better to ease her in slowly to me not being there just a day a fortnight till I go back pt in April). Should I tell her how I feel?
Sorry for the long ramble, any advice thoughts appreciated
Sorry for the long ramble, any advice thoughts appreciated