Well Just now he called me saying that : when baby is born he will agree to what i want, which is every weekend or every other weekend, then he said he didn't want to give me full custody, I don't know what that means seeing as how he had just told me that he would agree to what i wanted.
Then he said "you will get maternity pay and help from government" - so i asked what does that mean!!!!? he told me to forget he said that. Basically i think he meant he didn't want to pay child support, he has three jobs so he would have to pay the baby a great deal, till he's 18 years..No?
He also asked for DNA test. My new question is : If he does DNA test, and i didn't put him on bc from birth, does he go on it right away? and after the DNA does that mean he has to pay child support, because of the DNA test?? im so confused. I'm going to ask my boss for help with a lawyer, because he has been thru this himself.
And after DNA test, can i deny child support? or do i have to take it since its for the baby? and since its his responsibility. I just feel like he doesn't want to pay considering his comment. He also wants to give me his sister in laws cribs, and car seats which i do not want, I don't want NEW THINGS, i just perfer to have something thats not going to remind me of his family everytime i see them.