you have to name your baby the name you are happy with. Saying that we are not telling family our choices to avoid this kind of conversation, everyone has an opuinion before the event but when you just announce it, they wont say a thing even if they dont like it.
I have an unusual name and no-one could spell or pronounce it growing up and I found that hard. I have been determined when naming my baby to ensure its something easy to spelll and proniunce, I found the issues with my name did upset me a lot as a child.