Need a TTC buddy

[BabyDreamer82]

This is Celic
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Onyx - our big boy
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And Lola - my special girl - I had her before me & DF got together while he had the other two
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[sequeena]

Aw they're all so cute!

 

[LaRockera]

Lol, sorry to jump in between those wonderful pix guys, but I've given it a lot of thought these last few days, and I am now seriously contemplating the whole issue.

One day six months ago, DH said 'yes, I'm ready to have a '. And from then on, my whole life is about ttc. I catch myself thinking about it when reading, when writing, when eating, when sleeping, when riding a bus, when walking, when in the loo- you get the pix. Every time I have a free minute I jump in BnB to talk about ttc and baby stuff and all.

This is an obsession. We decided we wanted a baby, but with me it's just went to far. I want a baby, and I want it now.

Well, it doesn't work that way. I kind of think this obsession is taking the best of me and I want to give myself two months of trying without trying. No OPKs, no grapefruit juices, no POAS, nada. We'll stick to some BDing, and then I'll be trying my very best to concentrate on whatever it is I'll be doing there and then.

I haven't decided for sure yet, I guess I'll make such decision once back in the UK. It's just for a couple of months, and if it doesn't work, I guess I'll be back. MinneGirl, Babydreamer and Dragonfly already have my facebook details, so whoever wants my fb details.

 

[sequeena]

Don't blame you hun this is what I've been doing for the last few months.

 

[LaRockera]

I've just sent you a request.

Are you sure you'd like that link up on the net for everybody to see though? With your ttc journal and all you've been through?

I'd really send it privately.

 

[sequeena]

I've just sent you a request.

Are you sure you'd like that link up on the net for everybody to see though? With your ttc journal and all you've been through?

I'd really send it privately.

Ah yeah true. I'll delete it now xx

 

[CedarWood]

LR - do what is best for you.

If TTC gets too stressful then it works against you - stress is not good for TTC.

For myself the site helps as I can think about other people (takes the focus off myself). I find I obsess over my own situation less when I can chat with others TTC. I guess my brain is still on TTC but not so much only on my situation.

CW

 

[CedarWood]

BD - cute buds you got there

And wow - do you live on a farm or just have a big property?

 

[MinneGirl]

Morning girls!

LaRockera, I completely understand. I'm obsessed too. This forum is an outlet for me though--I think I would be driving my DH crazy if I didn't have you girls to talk to. If you think it is right for you to stop talking about it all so much, then that is what you need to do. We'll miss you and your fun posts if you leave though

Cute doggies babydreamer!

Afm, still no AF. Guess I'll find out tomorrow what is going on.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

LR I completely understand, I was feeling the same at the begginning of this cycle, I found I couldn't keep away, but Im trying to limit my time reading the 'ttc' & '2ww' sections. I too sometimes its not healthy to spend so much time on here obsessing. But at the same time I do need others to talk to because nobody else knows we're trying.
You do what you think is best for you

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Thanks guys I love my scruffy bunch.
Minne your dogs are beautiful!

BD - cute buds you got there

And wow - do you live on a farm or just have a big property?

Yea we live on & manage a dairy farm, I dont do a lot on it except during summer when I help out with milkings.

 

[CedarWood]

Thanks guys I love my scruffy bunch.
Minne your dogs are beautiful!

BD - cute buds you got there

And wow - do you live on a farm or just have a big property?

Yea we live on & manage a dairy farm, I dont do a lot on it except during summer when I help out with milkings.

Thats cool BD!

I love cows - they are so gentle. Well from what i have seen that is

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Yea most of them are, sometimes they get a bit toey in the milking shed & try to kick ya, but I havent been hit yet! I did have one only just miss my face a while ago, that scared the crap outta me ..I got cow shit in my eyelashes it was awful!

 

[MinneGirl]

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Minne how are you feeling?

 

[MinneGirl]

Ummm, feel like I am just WAITING for her to show. Took my temp today when I got home from work and it was really low-so thinking I'm out. Time will tell. Maybe I'm some freak of nature who walks around with an insanely low temp. Took it vaginally too and it was super normal...so who knows.

Doesn't help that hubby is out of town and I'm home alone

 

[CedarWood]

Yikes BD I guess they are like horses in that!

Minnie - do not take temp too much into account as alot can alter it.

AFM - no more brown spoting - only at 5dpo. Pretty early to have been IB and there are too many other reasons to have spotting so not geting excited over it. Really not feeling anything that strikes me as - wow maybe I am pregnant

CW

 

[LaRockera]

Minnie - do not take temp too much into account as alot can alter it.

CW

Exactly this.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

LaRockera how are you?

 

[LaRockera]

Fine.
Packing our stuff. We're off to the UK tomorrow morning!

No AF yet but I can feel she's around the corner.

Thanks for asking sweetie.

How are you then?