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[sequeena]

Sequeena - how are things?

I started bleeding heavily this morning

 

[CedarWood]

 

[CedarWood]

Anybody out there

I know some of you are not in a happy place

Actually BD you may be the only one who is not (I hope) come talk to me

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Sequeena

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Hey Cedar, yea Im good, just been away for our engagement party. fantastic weekend, the first time Ive really let my hair down since ttc.
A lot has happened on here over the last few days huh
How are you feeling? Your getting close to testing..

 

[MinneGirl]

Yeah, our forum is pretty glum right now. I'm out of my funk though and ready to cheer you ladies on!!! Cedar, any symptoms?? BD, you no longer have a ticker, so I can't keep track of you as well--I think you are about 8 dpo?

 

[MinneGirl]

Oh & Babydreamer, happy to hear your engagement party was fun! Doesn't it feel good to let your hair down once in a while?!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Hey Minne, glad your feeling better! Yes today Im 8dpo, not long to go now...Im feeling nothing, not even sore bbs.
I did have achy back & headaches the last couple of days, but I think that was from travelling & the over-indulgence

 

[MinneGirl]

Good to hear babydreamers!!! Only a few days until testing

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Yea I think I've been handling this 2ww pretty well, although I am about ready to pee on something...

 

[MinneGirl]

It's weird how you almost become sterile to the whole 2ww...every month, I get a little less anxious. Which is good I guess

Fx'd for you!!!!!!!!!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Thanks, although the last couple of cycles I have been a mess..


Well today Ive had some cramping, dunno if its a good or bad sign
I want to test, but I only have 1 left.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Wow! BNB totally just shat itself on me! I thought I had posted my last message 3 times!

 

[MinneGirl]

Happened to me too! What time is it in NZ? I bet morning....and it is 11:12 pm here..time for me to hit the sack.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Happened to me too! What time is it in NZ? I bet morning....and it is 11:12 pm here..time for me to hit the sack.

Its 5.25pm, we had daylight saving start on the weekend so an extra hour of sunshine at night feels like summer already!! I didnt even need a jersey or jacket today

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Do ya reakon 9dpo is too early? I wanna test...
I still have a sore abdomen, but (TMI ALERT!!) I havent had very good BM the last couple of days, couldn't even do one this morn - I have my fingers crossed but Im sure its just wishful thinking & its actually from all the over-indulging on the weekend

 

[sequeena]

BD I tested at 9dp - to be honest hun I should have learned from the first chemical I wouldn't test early, hold off if you can x

AFM poor OH... he still had hope that I would be pregnant and asked me to test when I stopped bleeding. Well today is that day and I got the whitest ever

I've also had the shortest af ever... heavy, but short.

 

[MinneGirl]

Sequeena, hang in there. Can't you go and get some tests run to ensure everything is working properly? Maybe a doctor would see you after a MC and two chemicals. I can't imagine how sad you must feel. Know that we are all thinking about you and cheering you on. You will get there..it's just taking longer than is should.

 

[sequeena]

I spoke too soon about af - we dtd the deed earlier and she was waiting for us

That's what I'm going to do Minne I feel ok now and plan on doing the SMEP this month alongside drinking grapefruit juice, taking more b vitamins and putting OH on a multi vit. I hope this works for us

 

[BabyDreamer82]

I know by testing early, there is always the chance of a chemical but I dont even know if we can actually get pregnant so I think Im willing to take the chances - ok course I would curse myself & swear I'll never test early again - but I would then know that we can get pg & we could do it again.

Sequeena - BIG to you, I hope none of this has appeared insensitive