negative devestated and confused **UPDATE**

[Naya69]

ok so unless you ladys didno knew what was happening to me i was goin through a dna test through the csa i got the test results bk last friday and it was negative i was devasted i could not stop cryin i just dont get it i only slept with two people and ive already tested the my ex and that was negative iam so confused i didnt have no sex untill nearly two months before i got pregnant so whats goin on!!!

the only thing i can think of is me and a old friend tryed to do it but it wouldnt go in so we stopped tryin after a couple of mins maybe not even that but that cant get you pregnant can it ???

i just cant stop cryin i havent heard from mike so i dont know how he feels and iam too scared to ring hes house, i cant ring hes mobile because hes lost it iam stuck.

and then to puzzle me even more the day i got my results bk hes sister added me on fb we have never met just texted a couple of times and spoke once over the phone but when i asked how do i know you she replied random add too much of a conincidence for me.

i know many of you think well its your own fault for sleepin around and i get that totally ive learnt my lession and has slapped myself hundreds of times.

what else i dont get is baby has features of all three men toms hair colour mikes nose shaped face and eyes and scotts long fingers and mouth.

iam paying for a private dna test with this new guy which i did not sleep with in the next week or two if this is negative one is wrong my head is so far up my bum iam a wreck i cant eat sleep or even go out anywhere.

i dont regret what i did because i got joshua out of it but next time i find out my ex has got new gf i wont be goin on a bender to try and ease the pain because you get more pain from your actions.



JUST GOT MY NEW DNA RESULTS THROUGH AND ITS POSITIVE IAM SO HAPPY AND RELIEVED ITS OVER
JUST PUZZLED AS WE DIDNT HAVE FULL SEX ALL I NEED TO DO NOW IS TELL THE DAD HES A DADDY

 

[Welshcob]

Really weird!

 

[Naya69]

thats what i thought midwife said i concieved on the 9th sep the last time before these guys was on the 1st of august and was my ex and i had a period after him so hes not a possibility so how can someone just touching you get ya pregnant iam confused x

 

[xarlenex]

Thats headwrecking If this next ones negative i'd definately feel the need to re-do the others. He has to be one of theirs!

 

[Naya69]

iam goin round to the other guys house on saturday to do the swob and send it off so it will be bk the week before joshuas first birthday. i still havent heard from mike so thats messing my head up just wish he would call xx

 

[tinkabells]

Thats really weird, are you sure he put his own dna in and not someone else's?!
I think im going to be having the dna test cos the father has told a friend he doesnt believe Hollie is his, but his not brave enough to say it to me!!!

I would maybe look into this xxx

 

[Naya69]

Thats really weird, are you sure he put his own dna in and not someone else's?!
I think im going to be having the dna test cos the father has told a friend he doesnt believe Hollie is his, but his not brave enough to say it to me!!!

I would maybe look into this xxx

i phoned the csa as soon as i got the results and explained all this and they said that in a week or two someone will contact me and send someone round to my house with a photocopy of the person who turned up to the docs to have the swob taken.
when you undergo a dna test with the csa you have to take two passport pics to the doctors when you have the swob taken so the csa and me knows the right person has been swobbed and not someone else.
the doctor was doppy she for got to get him to sign the form then she didnt take enough dna on the swob wouldnt be surprised if she didnt check the pic.

tomorrow iam goin to this other guys house hes called scott and iam takin a swob from him for a private test then sending it off i should get the results back in just under two weeks xxxx

 

[tinkabells]

Thats really weird, are you sure he put his own dna in and not someone else's?!
I think im going to be having the dna test cos the father has told a friend he doesnt believe Hollie is his, but his not brave enough to say it to me!!!

I would maybe look into this xxx

i phoned the csa as soon as i got the results and explained all this and they said that in a week or two someone will contact me and send someone round to my house with a photocopy of the person who turned up to the docs to have the swob taken.
when you undergo a dna test with the csa you have to take two passport pics to the doctors when you have the swob taken so the csa and me knows the right person has been swobbed and not someone else.
the doctor was doppy she for got to get him to sign the form then she didnt take enough dna on the swob wouldnt be surprised if she didnt check the pic.

tomorrow iam goin to this other guys house hes called scott and iam takin a swob from him for a private test then sending it off i should get the results back in just under two weeks xxxx

Oh really, oh ok, i did wonder how they knew it was the right person and if it was just sent in, they could of got anyone to take the test!!
As i thought maybe the father for me would do this!! But if they have to take all id along with them that fine.

Well good lukc for you, it just doesnt seem right does it!! xxx

 

[Naya69]

ok ive done the swob and sent it off if this one is negative someone is messing up somewhere but on the good hand mike rang even tho i was out and missed his call just waiting for him to ring bk xxx

 

[AppleBlossom]

how strange, hope you find out!

 

[sparkswillfly]

good luck with the new test hun. I hope you get some answers. I cant imagine what your going through.

 

[Naya69]

i was talking to my anutie about it saying i dont understand how you can get pregnant from a penis just touching you and she explained this.......

one of her friends had two kids and she went off her husband to the point where it grossed her out to sleep with him so one night after a lot of mivering from him she agreed he could (sorry if TMI) ejactulate over her. she missed a period and found out she was pregnant shocked was an understatment all he had done was shot his load on her vagina yet they managed to swim up there the doctor explained that female liquids can carry the sperm up.
my reply was "well joshua can crawl quite quick" lol we both couldnt stop laughing at least that cheered me up xxx

 

[sparkswillfly]

people always say you can get pregnant without actually 'shooting a load' but I never actually believed it... silly i know but you just dont think it could happen.

 

[Naya69]

Update on page 1 xx

 

[dreams]

glad you got your answers

 

[teen mummy]

congrats huni glad everythin turned out ok wierd story tho haha

 

[Always&4ever]

Very odd

 

[sparkswillfly]

glad you got an answer!

 

[Eiroze]

Glad you found out I hope he takes it well! xx

 

[welshsarah]

Glad u found out in the end know uv got a little less to worry about