Nervous for LAST baby (#7) (update)

[Lost7]

So I've been as sick as a dog, even wasn't this sick with my Fraternal Twin Girls. I was given an injection with them a few times over, this time I've actually been hospitalised for IV fluids.

I have been 100% sure I am having girl, I've only ever got this wrong ONCE before. Well twice if you count my 'non sick days' with the twins as one of each.

Today, I am 9+5 but I have done the Bicarbonate of soda gender test - It fizzed boy. I am obviously still early and I don't know for sure but I just feel so sad.

#6 was born to an absent Father and looks the spitting image of him.
Now #7's father is just as absent if not more, I can't have another boy looking like the spitting image of his Father.

Doesn't help I still deep down love this Father, I thought he was 'The One' and we were engaged. We TTC for 19 months for this, then all of a sudden he can turn off his emotions and just walk away, which leads me to believe he didn't properly bond with #6 (he was bringing up since birth as his Daddy) and he didn't really love me. You can't just turn these emotions off over night.

I am going to keep doing the Bicarbonate of Soda gender tests, as well as the intelligender test and see where we go from there. Also, I always have an early scan at 16 weeks to confirm the gender, which way or the other.

I had that gut instinct, Mothers instinct this one was a girl. I knew #6 was a boy. I ''knew'' this was a girl. I hope these tests are wrong. I really don't want another boy who looks like their Father.

Having a seriously ill child, health should come first but I can't shake this feeling. I just can't shake it. I feel so guilty too.

I've never experienced this before.

 

[Jkelmum]

Hugs men are strange creatures ! In my experience sickness on a drip for me as meant girls .. Wishing you Luck xx

 

[Lost7]

Thanks hun. It doesn't help that the Father has very feminine looks. I am just scared that the baby will look like him and I have this hurt repeat itself, and I don't want the baby to be bullied at school for looks etc. I would add a photo so you could see what I mean about the looks of the Father but I don't think that's probably very sensible!

 

[Misscalais]

Aww im sorry you're going through such a tough time.
You do realize even if bub is a girl she can still look just like her dad? Boy could look just like you etc So i guess stressing over that isn't going to help you.
My 2nd DS is the me all over, just had a doodle and not a vagina lol it still amazes me 5 years on.
Anyway good luck

 

[Lost7]

With my children, I've noticed the boys look more like their Father and the girls are my spitting image. My last baby looks so much like his Father and I just can't bare that right now.

I'm paying a lot of money and hope to find out by next week. It's 95% accurate or money back. Feeling nervous.

 

[Misscalais]

Good luck

 

[Lost7]

Money paid, just have to wait for the testing kit to arrive. It's being sent off to Australia for testing. Sickness is still bothering me.

 

[Lost7]

BUMP, I have my gender scan in 2 days time. I am barely holding it together. Some one please help me.

 

[Isme]

Best of luck to you.

What did the blood test say?

 

[MamaHix1409]

I sincerely hope you get the new you want today. Xx

 

[babyjan]

Aww im sorry you're going through such a tough time.
You do realize even if bub is a girl she can still look just like her dad? Boy could look just like you etc So i guess stressing over that isn't going to help you.
My 2nd DS is the me all over, just had a doodle and not a vagina lol it still amazes me 5 years on.
Anyway good luck

I agree with this! My son looks JUST like me! Literally my twin lol

I hope you get the result your hoping for x

 

[CJHanson]

Any updates? Hoping for the best for you!

 

[Lost7]

Going to reveal the gender next Friday so will come back and update then hun.

 

[Misscalais]

Any updates?

 

[Lost7]

Gender revealed last week. Forgot to update this. I do not have my baby girl. I was given a low blow at the time too, I was told during the scan it looked like I have CPP, complete placenta previa.

When I was in the scan the sonographer froze the screen and I was so gobsmacked by what I saw I called it a 'ball bag' I cried, I cried and I cried some more.

I came home and googled the complications associated with a CPP and scared myself. A week later I had a foetal echo that confirmed the placenta as being no where near the cervix, let alone a CPP. I have my 20 week anomaly scan next Friday so I will find out then which sonographer was right.

I'm still feeling disappointed it's a boy, my last child I desperately wanted a girl. Still struggling with emotions at the moment. Learning to accept him.