New cycle! Who's with me??

[StephanieE]

I think I'm going to start the 28th, that'll put me at 12dpo and that's also when Ovia suggests I test. I have a bunch of Internet cheapies so I have plenty to test with lol

 

[mrs.green2015]

Wow you're hold out awhile! Good job! I never can wait lol

 

[StephanieE]

mrs.green I'm not that strong, hun, I'll cave and test on Christmas I just know it! Lol because that would truly be the greatest Christmas gift I could ever receive!!

 

[mrs.green2015]

9dpo is super early though so put in your mind it'll be negative because even if you are pregnant (which you are) it may not show ok Hun!

 

[StephanieE]

mrs.green ahhhhh you're right, I NEED to wait! Okay, I can do this. I can do this... Ah! Lol

 

[mrs.green2015]

You CAN do this!! There's nothing worse than seeing a bfn, especially when you are in fact pregnant. Trust me. I did that. lol

 

[StephanieE]

I'm out, I'm afraid... I have to be. Cervix is so super dry I couldn't check CP at all and DH & I couldn't even this evening... So I'm pretty sure that's it for me. Shouldn't I have an increase of cm?

 

[mrs.green2015]

Not necessarily. Everyone is different. On my bfp I had creamy cm around 6 or 7 dpo and the. Nothing. And I don't remember any before 6 or 7. Everyone is different. And I'm confused why would you need to bd if you already ovated?

 

[StephanieE]

Oh it wasn't baby dancing.. Just doing the deed lol but it was next to impossible :/ but hopefully you're right! Guess we'll find out how are you doing?

 

[mrs.green2015]

We're doing ok. I'm out of opks and I'm not buying any more. So we'll just bd every other day and see what happens.

 

[MrsPres0816]

Hi everyone!!!!! Sorry I've been MIA things have been a little crazy! I recently found out that I got into a masters program (which I didn't think would happen) and DH and I have decided that this will be our last month trying until I graduate from the year long program. So if we get our BFP this month we will be ecstatic but if the witch shows I'll be going back on birth control. I ovulated on the 17th (pretty sure) and plan to test on the 31st! Wishing everyone a merry Christmas!

 

[supergongjoo]

Hi All! Sorry ive been absent. Been busy with the holiday rush of family and work. I hope this holiday season brings BFPs to ALL!!!!

And mrs CONGRATS!!!! Its a win either way for you!

 

[mrs.green2015]

Congrats mrs!

 

[StephanieE]

Congrats!!! I wish you the very best of luck!!

12 dpo for me (and test day according to my Ovia app) and BFN... Feeling discouraged. DH is soooo sure this cycle. He doesn't have a doubt in his mind. But I, however, find it hard to be so sure when I'm the one that keeps seeing the negative tests. I've been taking 10miu internet cheapies since 8 dpo and all have been stark white, negative. I know it's still before AF and I'm not technically out until then but I'm not feeling very hopeful anymore. I have NO symptoms at all anymore. I feel 100% normal. AF is suspected to show between Dec 31st - Jan 2nd.

 

[Hope16]

Bummer Steph!

If this can give you any peace of mind, my friend on here had absolutely no symptoms whatsoever...and she got her bfp at 14dpo. So hang in there! Positive thoughts okay?!

 

[StephanieE]

Thank you Hope16!! That definitely puts my mind at ease. I think I may just wait until 14 or 15dpo. AF showed up at 16dpo last cycle

 

[mrs.green2015]

I got my bfp at 14 dpo.

 

[supergongjoo]

crossing fingers for you!

AFM i am 3dpo. my o date arrived much earlier than normal so we only had a chance to bd the day of positve opk, and the 2 days following. hopefully thats enough

 

[mrs.green2015]

It should be enough super! Fx for you!

Any update Steph?

 

[StephanieE]

Hoping this is your month super!!

mrs.green I got to digging through my fertility calendars (2) and I realized there were a few things on one that weren't on the other so I was updating. And Ovia changed on me.. Apparently last cycle, I most likely ovulated BEFORE me and DH BD'd. We missed it by 2 or 3 days. Which makes sense, looking back. And this month, I think I actually ovulated a day after I thought I did. CD13. So that would put me at 12dpo today. But I think I ironed out all the wrinkles on my calendars and simplified to ONE instead of two lol they suggested I test today but when I did, it was definitely a the only thing giving me hope is the fact that several ladies don't get a BFP until 14dpo. And my luteal phase was 16-19 days laat cycle. Hopefully that was just from coming off BCP though. Maybe I didn't actually release an egg last month or maybe it was just really immature because my body was still getting balanced out. I hope all that made sense!! Lol before bcp (and when I'd come off it) my cycles were 29 days every month, it came like clock work, it was exactly the same and I knew what to expect.