...No, relaxing will not get me pregnant...lucky CBFM girls!

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Yeah, we're going to have a nooky session perhaps this evening. Definitely tomorrow night, as that's probably when I'll peak. Time for the good ol' preseed. And the softcups. And the legs in the air. Cue the crazy circus music...LOL!!!

I'm off to shower and get going to work! Have a great day, ladies!
 
Ok, Tryinfor1: I'm not going to tell you what to do because in reality it is your life and we could tell you until we're blue in the face about what we would do and ultimately it is your life and your decisions and we don't know the whole story. With that being said, I've talked to you and your a sweet girl and I just hope you get the best out of life :)

Apple Blossom: YAY! You're here. :) I was wondering if you were coming!! I wish you all the luck and baby dust in the world. You deserve it sooo soo much. :hugs: and :dust: to you. I wish I could be there and take you out for a fun night to celebrate IVF! 19 more days and it's the beginning to your beautiful baby/babies!

Wookie: Get lots of baby dancing in!! :sex: Good luck and :dust: Update me on your test date when you have it!

Pook: for God sakes woman get :sex:ing! You're going to be so disappointed if this EWCM passes you by and you didn't even get a shot at it. Good luck! :dust:

SLH: I hope you're okay with not trying this month and that everything is going fantastic for you. :flower:

Lekker: I will update your test date thank you!! :) Good luck and just relax nothing you can do now! I've been pretty busy after work and don't get much chance to write during work. I'm trying! :flower:

AFM: cd8 and still low but my CP is high and kind of med soft...I'm guessing it'll drop down then go back up in a few days. Who knows. My body is messed the eff up. I talked to my ex bff last night. We didn't get things ironed out but it was a lot of fun. I hope we can get past everything and move on. I sure miss her. My sil visited me at work yesterday with treats and the twins! :happydance: They just melt my heart. They're talking alot and laughing and walking everywhere. It's just so amazing. They're our god children also. We went to visit them last night too and just watching my dh with them was amazing.I could do it all day long. :) I just hope it's our kids i can watch with him soon.
 
I'm pretty excited as the roommate is off to PA for a couple of weeks leave and that means DH and I can BD anytime we want and AF is leaving the building today!!!! I'm so excited! So MAYBE this time we'll hit that little egg head on. But I'm not going to stress it like I did last week. I'm going to relax and have fun with the hubby. Right now he's mad at me as I sent some papers he forgot with the roommate as he was headed to post to sign out and I'm assuming he forgot to give them to DH and now it's my fault but he'll be over it by the time he gets home. We're going to see Twilight tonight and I work at both jobs tomorrow! I'm pretty excited to be making some extra Christmas cash to help us catch up.
 
ANNNNDDD I just got the paper I've been waiting for and I have my first Dr's appointment on the 23rd with my new PCM! Which means I'll have a referral to my FS in not time!!!!! I'm so excited!
 
wookie130 said:
Apple Blossom, hey! Do I see in your ticker that you're gearing up for IVF treatments? Best of luck there...I sure wish I could afford them. Damn U.S. healthcare system!

Tryingfor1 - I've been holding my tongue. But as an older TTC gal on here (I'm 33), I can tell you I've been around the block a few times, been married, been divorced, remarried, and everything in between. And some of the details you've posted about your DH is nothing short of completely UNACCEPTABLE to me. First of all, the "suck in bed" comment is something that should have never escaped his lips. And I mean EVER. There is a way to talk to your wife, and this sure as shit isn't it, and I don't care how frustrated he is. And those pictures you saw on his laptop? I would have exploded. He has no right bringing his sexual past into your home like that as if it were a freakin' fine art exhibit. This to me is deplorable, and I'd have a hard time forgiving it. He's married to YOU, and whatever he did with an ex is in the PAST, and that should have left the scene when you walked into his life, both in a visual sense, and mentally as well. And as far as him viewing porn frequently, I'm one of those ladies that find this really unacceptable. Porn is a disgusting industry, the girls have usually been abused in one sense or another, and they are somebody's DAUGHTER, for crying out loud. And the other issue I take with this in a marital sense, is that if he can't look a the porn in front of you, masturbate to it in FRONT OF YOU, then he probably senses it is something you're uncomfortable with, and he knows it's a problem for you. On the other hand, men don't typically look at porn because they think the ladies are hotter than you, or they're more stimulated by girls, etc. It's usually just generic fantasy, and visual stimulation PERIOD, and you should not be comparing yourself to these ladies or allowing his porn indulgences to make you feel like less of a sexual partner or less attractive to him.

Sounds like he's got a lot of growing up to do. I'm sorry if I've offended you in any way with this, but I feel that your husband's behavior is very douchey. I would never in a million years allow a man to treat me this way, and I do believe the men in my life have thought better than to do so...good luck, honey. I hope he matures and is ready for fatherhood, and I wish you the best. ;)

AFM, I think I'm about to get a peak. That estrogen line is fading, and usually my LH line only gets really dark the day that I peak, so I'm thinking tomorrow or Saturday. Then the BD party resumes, and onto the 2ww. :)
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You didnt offend me at all. What you said is the way I feel too! I dont know how to voice it to him and get it through his head. He was NOT like this before he graduated college. He got his first job and all of a sudden I am his burden wife who sucks in bed and is crazy because I think he looks at too much porn. WTF-EVER. :shrug:

OK. Now I am having a guilt trip. Also want to say, this is his only fault really. I kinda made him out to sound horrible and he really isnt. He is a good man. I just dont understand what his problem is with all this sex stuff. He says he has a high sex drive, no... he has sex addiction. And being with someone who has a low sex drive is like the worst thing that could possibly happen to him, but that is what happened. But he loves me. I love him. He supports me, takes care of me (allows me to go to school while he works, allowed me to quit my job :happydance:), spoils the hell out of me. Its just with the sex stuff that he gets fucking ka-razy.

Alright, I am sorry I havent stopped talking about it. Thank you for all of your support. I am done talking about it now. :flower:



SLH: what is the shot you got for? Why couldnt you try this month?

Lekker: HELL YEAH! Catch that eggy!!

Pook: GET. TO. BED. before I come there and DRAG you and and OH to the other room!!!!

Gdane: Your support for me always amazes me. You have been there for me more in the past month than some of my friends have my entire life. You are such a beautiful girl inside and out. :hugs:

Apple: thank you for your PMs these past coupe days. You are so strong. Thank you for sharing your story. I feel really comfortable talking to you because it seems you have been through what I am going through, and it helps. :hugs:
 
LekkerSlaap said:
ANNNNDDD I just got the paper I've been waiting for and I have my first Dr's appointment on the 23rd with my new PCM! Which means I'll have a referral to my FS in not time!!!!! I'm so excited!
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That is awesome!!!! :thumbup:
 
Hi All,

Sorry I have been MIA, I just haven’t had much to say and no updates for you all as I am still awaiting AF!! :wacko:

But I have been stalking this very very busy thread!

Lekker – I saw that post too, it confused me and thought it would make sense sooner or later lol, glad you saw it too. Enjoy the time you and you OH have to your selves :winkwink:

Wookie – Well said :thumbup:

Trying for 1 – I totally think you did the right thing bringing it up with your OH, I wouldn’t have kept as calm for the time you managed to. I too don’t understand porn but I think it’s because it makes me feel inferior. I know exactly how you feel about the Blow Job, I hate them too, I used to outright refuse when I first met my hubby, he then proceeded to cheat on me and used that as the excuse. He then went off with a girl that was downright nasty to him, this is the point when I decided to stop being a push over and taking no sh*t from anyone. Needless to say when we got back together nearly a year later (after a me trying to win him back that whole time) (yes I probably am mad) I laid down the rules and told him things were not going to be how they were before. We then had a very rough first year as he continued to contact and see the same girl insisting they were friends, I spent most the time paranoid, crying or angry ... not a nice place to be. But then he got his act together and we have never been happier ... good job really as he is now my hubby lol... Sorry to go on lol, just wanted to share my experience with you as you did with us :flower:

Pook – Congrats on the EWCM lol, hope you got lots of BD in

Apple Blossom - Welcome :flower:

SLH – sorry you cannot BD this cycle, hope your having a relaxing time :flower:

Gdane – How are you?

Anyone I have missed :hi:
 
Mrs.B. said:
Trying for 1 – I totally think you did the right thing bringing it up with your OH, I wouldn’t have kept as calm for the time you managed to. I too don’t understand porn but I think it’s because it makes me feel inferior. I know exactly how you feel about the Blow Job, I hate them too, I used to outright refuse when I first met my hubby, he then proceeded to cheat on me and used that as the excuse. He then went off with a girl that was downright nasty to him, this is the point when I decided to stop being a push over and taking no sh*t from anyone. Needless to say when we got back together nearly a year later (after a me trying to win him back that whole time) (yes I probably am mad) I laid down the rules and told him things were not going to be how they were before. We then had a very rough first year as he continued to contact and see the same girl insisting they were friends, I spent most the time paranoid, crying or angry ... not a nice place to be. But then he got his act together and we have never been happier ... good job really as he is now my hubby lol... Sorry to go on lol, just wanted to share my experience with you as you did with us :flower:

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UGH men, I am sorry to hear of your struggles but so glad they worked out for you in your favor! You may be a wee bit mad for trying to get DH back but love makes us do crazy things and as long as he is being a saint now, the past is gone as long as you can forgive. IDK If I could forgive if DH ever cheated on me, so you are such a selfless (not selfish :haha: ) person.

Thank you for your kind words. It was hard to say it but I decided I cant keep those kinds of problems bottled in, or my marriage is going to fall apart. Not something I am willing to let happen.
 
SLH said:
How old is your husband Tryinfor1? Maybe it's just a phase that he will grow out of. I hope you work things out, and anytime that you feel like you need to write a novel go ahead, we are all here to support you.

When I had my initial fertility blood work done, they found out that I wasn't immuned to rubella. I had the vaccine as a child, but it wears off as an adult sometimes. If I got rubella during pregnancy, it would harm the baby. The vaccine lasts in your body for 1 month, so it's unsafe to try this month. Even though the chances are low of me getting pregnant, I don't want to take any chances. The doctor who gave me the needle wanted to give me birth control, but there was no way I was going to take anything. I don't want to mess with my hormones.

On my Depo Provera thread everyone is pregnant and one woman just gave birth to an adorable girl. I just know that within a year that will be all of us. We will be talking about our newborns. I'm very optimistic for all of us.
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That blows..but lovely that you are so optimistic. I hated depo, I was on it for three years age 15-18. WORST three years of my entire freaking life.

He is 23, about to turn 24. IDK if he will grow out of it. It has been him since he was very young, judging from what I saw in the pictures. Maybe when he is old and cant have sex anymore :haha:
 
He is gonna take me out tonight so we can talk. I have been texting him all day but he isnt understanding what I am trying to say. BUT I am excited to go out. :happydance:
 
I'm kind of having a non showing internal
break down. Why can't I get pregnant? :(
 
Thanks girls. I made brownie points with one of my four bosses tonight and one of my bosses wives so I feel better. Lol I still have that gnawing feeling that if it hadn't happened by now why would it? But you girls made me smile once again especially slh ;) thanks bunches :flower:
 
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