Hi All.
We are expecting baby #3 and decided not to find out gender (more my idea than my DH). I am 26 weeks now and I dunno...I am starting to feel very emotional about not having names picked out yet. DH feels like he can't decide in anything cause he doesn't know gender and I am starting to feel like...i dunno...maybe I'm not really bonding with the baby since I don't know. I mean we are pretty convinced it's a boy. In our minds, it's a boy. But I mean... what if it's a girl! I'll feel terrible thinking it was a boy.
I don't know why I don't want to find out this time...i do like to plan EVERYTHING so this doesn't really fit my personality lol. But for some reason...i want the surprise this time. We have one of each already. Shrug. But now I'm second guessing not knowing. But I know I'll also be disappointed in myself if we decide to find out now.
Bleh.
Advice?
We are expecting baby #3 and decided not to find out gender (more my idea than my DH). I am 26 weeks now and I dunno...I am starting to feel very emotional about not having names picked out yet. DH feels like he can't decide in anything cause he doesn't know gender and I am starting to feel like...i dunno...maybe I'm not really bonding with the baby since I don't know. I mean we are pretty convinced it's a boy. In our minds, it's a boy. But I mean... what if it's a girl! I'll feel terrible thinking it was a boy.
I don't know why I don't want to find out this time...i do like to plan EVERYTHING so this doesn't really fit my personality lol. But for some reason...i want the surprise this time. We have one of each already. Shrug. But now I'm second guessing not knowing. But I know I'll also be disappointed in myself if we decide to find out now.
Bleh.
Advice?