Not Knowing Whether I'm Ovulating or Not is so Frustrating :'(

[ameeann]

Yeh i was doing the same, although i genuinely was expecting a bfn! Theres so many ladies on here who are trying for ages, i never would have thought that we would catch practically first month trying properly! I'm so thankful that we have though, i never want to take it for granted! I know how lucky we have been!It does show temping and all the other stuff works though!

 

[ImSoTired]

ameeann, what is your temp now that you're pg? Just curious. I've only temped a few times this week. Not even consistant or charting. Just out of curiousity.I got 97.9, 97.7, 97.9, and this morning 98.0. I don't know what they even mean really. I just thought I'd learn to use my thermom before I started charting.

 

[cmarie33]

Cmaire how many cycles have you had after coming of bc? Everytime i got something even remotely linked to being fertile we just bded for the sake of it

After BCP was 36 days. Last cycle was 39 days on cd14 of this cycle. Not got a +ve opk tho, did one earlier. Would be nice to have a shorter cycle- better keep my eye on it! cx

 

[ameeann]

I didnt get a positive til cd 30!!!! Dont give up! But when you get fertile signs try to do 2 a day, just incase you miss your surge! Gl hunny xxxx

 

[Sparkle12]

Ameeann - I have arranged to go and visit DH midweek just in case I do OV earlier!!! I told him it was because I would miss him and am on holidays so I could- Which is true - honest!!! It's just that we might need to BD too. !!!!

I admit I am a nightmare!!!

Cmarie - why is your holiday so much shorter - you must have a longer one than me elsewhere. How have you OPKs been this week. I am going to start testing them again from tom and have started temping too - although I don't really have a clue what I am looking for,

So much for cutting down the alcohol, we have been drinking nearly every night this week. I always mean to be good but then think I won't be able to do it when I am pg so might as well enjoy it now!!!

Imsotired - how you getting on now? Sounds like you have a lot of symptoms - I really hope they are pg ones. F'xd.

Your rant about men made me laugh - I get so used to bein on my own all week and then sometimes when DH comes back all we do is be mean and pick holes, even though I have missed him like crazy all week and am so pleased to see him. Its like you know you should be nice because you only have the weekend but then it puts more pressure on!! Sorry, now I am rambling - must be the wine!! lol.

Speak soon. Hugs to all.

 

[ameeann]

wohooo!! haha extra bding all the way. . . we all make excuses up!

I only rant about dh because we spend soooo much time together! I'm not ever joking I only spend 18 hours away from him a week, when im caring for my mum and even then sometimes he comes over!!!! haha
when we do spend time apart i miss him so much that when we're together it feels so much nicer! but we never get the chance for that atm
i shouldn't moan, I don't know how you cope with him being away all week sparkle!!

gl on the bding hehe

 

[ImSoTired]

ameeann don't forget to tell us what the doc says!

 

[ameeann]

welll it went well!! I predicted right, she thinks I'm 4 weeks 1 day too!! EDD 26th of August 2012! woop hehe


she was sooo over the moon for us, it was lovely! hehe

she knew we were ntnp for the first month after coming off bc til november, then trying for the whole of november, but she said she was shocked we caught so quickly! she said my fella must have super sperm!! haha

that made me laugh xDD

she gave me a quick run down of the dos and donts with pregnancy, food etc, pretty much stuff I already new!

anyway yeah, I've made an appointment with my doctors midwife (who I realllyyyy didnt want, she nearly let my mums friend go over by 3 weeks! it could have resulted in still birth, so she sewed (<--- sp??) her, which resulted in her losing her license for 6 months and having to be re-trained!!!!!!)so I'm hoping I get passed to another one soon!!

which is quite likely, as my doctor said she's my preliminary midwife!!

I'll probably end up seeing like 5/6 it's quite common apparently!

anywayyy thanks for asking!!!


any sign of AF Imsotired??

 

[ImSoTired]

I'm happy your appt went well! No sign of af for me yet. I have less than a week now before I need to panic. It's getting too close for comfort. I don't know how I'm going to handle it if I get a bfn and no af! Probably call the doc on Christmas and leave a bunch of messages! I soooo hope I get either or! I'm such a worrier! Anyways... are you feeling good today? Any new symptoms?

 

[ameeann]

aw hun, I'm such a worrier too!! my fella calls me a nervous nelly
commee onnn BFP xD hehe

erm no not really, my boobs are hurting a bit more often than they work, I'm quite moody though! Like swings, and getting really angry over nothing and really easily!

dh is annoying me too, he keeps saying oh why you so moody, erm because I'm pregnant!!
but he doesn't seem to understand that even though I'm so early on you can still get a lot of symptoms!
he thinks oh it's too early for dodgy hormones silly naive man!!!

 

[cmarie33]

Sparkle I only started opk yesterday, cd14 as I figured my cycle would still be longer than normal. There was a line but not massively dark. Going to test again soon. Think we have a longer Easter maybe? I'm not sure xx

Ameeann well done on your date prediction!
Xx

 

[cc117]

Sparkle I only started opk yesterday, cd14 as I figured my cycle would still be longer than normal. There was a line but not massively dark. Going to test again soon. Think we have a longer Easter maybe? I'm not sure xx

Ameeann well done on your date prediction!
Xx

Don't give up. This month was my first month using OPK's and I got positives on CD 25 and 26. I had lines every time I tested and I was always thinking it looked darker then the dark before until I had a true positive and it was super dark. GOOD LUCK

 

[cmarie33]

OMG! Just done an opk and it's positive! Darker than the control line! Bloody hell I wasn't even going to use opks til later with having such a long cycle last time! Going to do another in a bit to check! Damn you bcp! xx

 

[cmarie33]

Sparkle I only started opk yesterday, cd14 as I figured my cycle would still be longer than normal. There was a line but not massively dark. Going to test again soon. Think we have a longer Easter maybe? I'm not sure xx

Ameeann well done on your date prediction!
Xx

Don't give up. This month was my first month using OPK's and I got positives on CD 25 and 26. I had lines every time I tested and I was always thinking it looked darker then the dark before until I had a true positive and it was super dark. GOOD LUCK

I used opks last cycle and was on cd26. Just done one now on cd15 and it's +ve! Can you have such a drastic change in cycle length?! xx

 

[ameeann]

you can have a massive change in cycle length following bc!! nothings predictable!!! haha

even though it's positive today, make sure you keep using them for the rest of the month too!!! yay!! gl lady! get bding hehe

 

[ImSoTired]

Yay! Cmarie! bd tonight! Yeah you can have a long cycle one month and a short the next so says my ob/gyn. Maybe you're getting all squared away. Nows the time for baby making!!!!

 

[ameeann]

wooo baby making times!! hehe

 

[cmarie33]

Hehe I'm just glad I'm a poas addict and tested! Bought some preseed so will be using that too! Going to keep opking though just in case. Thanks ladies

 

[cmarie33]

I'm on my iPhone, how can I post a pic of it for you to judge? xx

 

[ameeann]

can you go advanced on your phone?