cmarie- hold out until you get your definate positive for the wedding. Unless you'd rather marry first. I realise some men get a bit overwhelmed when getting married/ttc. It's especially scary for some men. I was lucky, my husband had no problem with the wedding. The baby making I had to do a little convincing and now he's fine with it. Your oh prob just a bit scared about it all happening at once. Besides, you just got engaged, there's no rush. I know how stressful it can be. Btw I hope this is your bfp!That way you can have your wedding whenever because you'd know when baby will arrive. Good luck!