Not really relevant but....

[chrome]

I don't even know what I want from this, I just have to tell someone who understands that I'm breaking. Everytime I log into facebook someone new is pregnant, my SIL is constantly on about having another baby (youngest is 8 months) and I found out today my step-niece is pregnant, unwanted and probably going to terminate.
I've spent the last few hours in tears, and I'm not sure how much more I can take.

 

[Madgirl]

Those days are hard. I hope things get easier soon.

 

[chrome]

Those days are hard. I hope things get easier soon.

Thank you... A fellow PCOS cyster...hi

 

[Madgirl]

I just love your avatar!

 

[trying hard]

Sorry you are having a bad day and hope it gets better soon.

 

[cooch]

If its that bad on FB do you need to keep it? Can you not delete??

Other than that, every idiot can get pregnant if their body is working right. Unfortunately, a lot of ladies on here have bodies that need fixing. Its a shit time, but you will get through it. Just remember- 'this too shall pass'. xx

 

[twinkle2]

Ahm hon, I had a day like that yesterday, I really don't know why i bother logging on just to torture myself - makes you feel so shitty doesn't it? Sometimes I feel like just giving up with this ttc business, it's so hard being patient and worrying and waiting isn't it? Sending big hugs and a smile, nothing else for it but to keep calm and carry on i suppose. xxx

 

[Lawyer chick]

Chrome I'm sorry hunny

When I hear of unplanned pregnancies and terminations ESP since being lttc I get sick to my stomach. TO be honest I think the lttc pushed me from middle of the road to prolife.

 

[chrome]

I just love your avatar!

Thanks

Thank you all ladies, I thought about deleting FB but it would cut me off from some good friends, and I don't seem to be able to do it. Maybe I have some twisted part that actually likes it? I dunno, but I dunno much at the minute

 

[Armywife84]

I deleted my FB because I was tired of having to delete my fertile friends. Had that profile since 2006. Also, the friends I want to stay in contact I have their number and vice versa.

There's more ways to stay in contact than FB.

If it gets to be too much, I'd consider deleting it. Remember the times of when there wasn't a FB?

 

[cndymndy716]

I am right there with you. I have PCOS as well and we have been TTC for five years. You would think it would get easier but it doesn't. You have your good days and bad. Hoping you hit your good days soon (((HUGS)))

 

[aintlifegrand]

Yesterday I spent the day unsubscribing (hiding) anyone that talked about their pregnancy/kids too much. It's about self preservation!

 

[Oobies]

I know that feeling...9 months ago OH's friend was telling us his GF was pregnant and that they 'had to get rid of it'...I happened to have her on FB and spent the next month and a half watching her complain and switch from going to have an abortion to adoption to keeping it to breaking up with her BF/going with adoption...then I unfriended her because I just couldn't handle her complaining and making light of the fact that she was carrying a precious gift and she didn't even care about him, only herself! She ended up keeping him, & getting back with the father, but they can't cope on thier own, the father tried to kill himself the other day and all I can think of is that poor baby...they have a good support system but he still has to live with them and they didn't even want him to start with...=(

Then there's the constant updates from OH's SIL on how her baby is going (conceived 1st month TTC), the 'I feel like I've been pregnant for ten months!' from my 18 yearold brothers 17 year old girlfriend (not quite 2 months pregnant)
Not to mention the constant complaining from my manager at work because she waddles (also fell 1st month TTC)...(I'd give anything to waddle!)
Why is it that, once you start TTC, and realise it's not so easy for you, everyone else start's falling pregnant like there's something in their water (that you missed out on)?!

I did delete my FB account, then started to use my alternative account because I live 4 hours away from family and talking on the phone doesn't work...problem is the fertile myrtles all find me and crack the sads if I ignore them, so resistance is rather futile >.<