Naaxi
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"I bet it's a girl!"
No, guys. Stop. It is another boy, I am sure it is and I will be okay with that if you would all just stop. I don't mind the idea of having another son, but as soon as someone says it is a girl (solely based on the fact that I have a boy, and one of each is ideal) They raise my hopes just a bit. And I hate it. This one may be our last, if we don't get stable enough financially to add another in the next four years and the idea of NEVER having a daughter terrifies me. I want at least one of each... but I don't think that is going to happen for me. But just as I come to terms with it in my mind, another person exclaims "It is definitely a girl!" You know what? It may be. But i seriously doubt it. The donor has only ever produced boys. Not that anyone else but he and my DH and I know that, but no. It is a boy. I am okay with that. But everyone needs to shut up and keep their "predictions" to themselves.
No, guys. Stop. It is another boy, I am sure it is and I will be okay with that if you would all just stop. I don't mind the idea of having another son, but as soon as someone says it is a girl (solely based on the fact that I have a boy, and one of each is ideal) They raise my hopes just a bit. And I hate it. This one may be our last, if we don't get stable enough financially to add another in the next four years and the idea of NEVER having a daughter terrifies me. I want at least one of each... but I don't think that is going to happen for me. But just as I come to terms with it in my mind, another person exclaims "It is definitely a girl!" You know what? It may be. But i seriously doubt it. The donor has only ever produced boys. Not that anyone else but he and my DH and I know that, but no. It is a boy. I am okay with that. But everyone needs to shut up and keep their "predictions" to themselves.