You she's our first. I know she'd be alright with everyone, it's more that half are opinionated and the other half think they have a right to pick up my child without my permission. I love my family to bits, but I want to make sure I have my own routine and rules set in stone before I go near them, because I just know they will try and tell me how to raise her. It'd be in good faith, but I don't want to be swayed from it.
Also because she is our first and it is my first Christmas OH and I have decided that it will be him, myself and LO and maybe mum.
I want LO here before Saturday because FIL has court and is probably going to jail and I want him to see his first granddaughter before then, but I don't think she will want to come. She was supposed to be here a week ago according to doctors but that obviously didn't happen because until last week she'd unenegaged and turned traverse. She's stuck in head down position now though thank goodness!