Olivette - so sorry to hear your news
Big hugs to you
DH also shot down the names I've had picked for both boy and girl since I was 10! I couldn't believe he actually said no, but I agree that it's something we both need to be happy with. My grandfather's name was Rock and we shared a really special bond when I was younger so I've always said I would name my baby boy Rock but DH thinks it is ridiculous... we've agreed for it to be a middle name instead (all of my friends and family know that I have been holding onto this name, so I'm sure they'll call the baby Rock anyway... if it's a boy). The girl names I had picked out were Emily and Quinn and DH knows girls with both names that were apparently pretty loose in college and refuses to give our child that name... stupid hoochies! Both of our moms are named Elizabeth, so that was an easy middle name, but we're still struggling with a girls first name. We both love Audrey, but after researching the characteristics common for that name I can't possibly give that name to my child because it is so opposite of me or my husband... (I'll give you the website, but I'll warn you now... If you do NOT want to know the meaning and possibly ruin a perfectly good name... DON'T LOOK!!! it's
www.kabalarian.com). I wish I hadn't looked at that website in the first place - naming our child would have been much easier without it!
Anyway - sorry for the rant.
haha: MommaBarry!) We've agreed on Davis Rock DeRosa for a boy and possibly Andi Elizabeth DeRosa for a girl (but that one is still undecided... we keep going back and forth)